do girls really think sex and touching is gross?

i have a 15 year old girlfriend of 6 months now and i love her to death. we are extremely open with each other and dont hold back anything. its been kind of upsetting to find that anytime i try to do anything intimate with her, such as put her hand in my pants or mine in hers, she instantly stops me and gets upset. she fears that by either of us touching the other below the waist she will get labeled as a whore. she also claims that she doesn't like it because she is not that type of girl. don't girls have any kind of sex drive? i find it hard to believe that she doesn't enjoy it because on occasion, she wears sweat pants and lets me rub her on the outside and i watch her squirm and hold back moans.

how can i assure her its ok? i find her reasoning to be pathetic. and naturally, as a guy, i am bored of not doing anything.

please help.

Hmmm...what do I say here. She is only 15! I think you're going to have to slow down and respect her wishes. I lost my virginity when I was 16 to a guy whom I did love. And as much as I always wanted to have sex and get dirty....now I look back, I know I wasn't really ready for it. We were young and thought we knew everything. I would take it easy - girls think way deeper about getting involved, even when they're horny as hell. I think you should respect that she has self-respect and a 6 months relationship is not that long...hope that helps

yea i guess that helps. i still cant help being a horny asshole around her though.

If she's not ready, she's not ready.

I REALLY hope you're not forcing this on her. I heard a few alarm bells when you said "I find her reasoning to be pathetic." I think it would be more pathetic of her to go against her belief system to give into pressure from a horny boyfriend.

If you really 'love her', then respect her and her wishes. Stay out of her pants until she's ready.

She's only 15!!!

Don't push her!

i had sex for the first time when i was 16... and my girlfriend at the time was 15.... :(

she cried right after it happened and didn't talk to me for 2 months.

you guys are too young to have sex. it's not going to turn out good. if you really love her, you'll wait it out.

i kept bugging the girl nonstop and one night we were kissing (that's all we were doing) and she told me to put it in. if you EVER get the chance, decline it. it will **** everything up. not only that but eventually if her parents find out(they always do), they will force-seperate you two also. and then the girl will go down the tubes without you.

trust me on this one.

You're creepy. End of story

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Originally Posted by TRBMan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

how can i assure her its ok? i find her reasoning to be pathetic. and naturally, as a guy, i am bored of not doing anything.

please help.

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Here's my two cents:
It's not your place to assure her it's ok, she clearly isnt ready for an intimate sexual relationship, and it seems to me you are trying to force this upon her. Always remember, she is only 15, she doesn't even know what's right for herself yet. Be patient, that way, you will enjoy a more prosperous relationship in the long run.

Hope that helped!

lol shes just not ready thats all I dont think its age because I lost my v irginity really young but i do know for sure shes just not ready and if u want a hoe go get one or make it last with this girl and maybe have something special...

I wish every 15 year old girl could read this thread so they could see what they are up against.

I think it is age, though i may simply be deluded. I didnt have sex until i was 19, at 15 years old, i was still just innocently blissful

i actually think that u should stick with this girl because its not everyday in the year 2007 you can find a girl at any age who sticks to what they believe in! especially at the age of 15 but then again maybe i did have a fked up childhood!

I don't understand why everyone assumed that the poster was talking about sex. I think he was just referring to touching/rubbing which i don't think is inappropriate for a 15 yr old.

It is when she doesn't want it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a 15 year old girl not wanting her boyfriend cramming his hand down her pants.

At 15, I was not ready for anything more than a rated PG goodnight kiss. You'er trying to taste unripe fruit, dude.

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

At 15, I was not ready for anything more than a rated PG goodnight kiss. You'er trying to taste unripe fruit, dude.

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Awww, Giga. You were like... me.

Freaks. You should already have had your first babies by 15.

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Originally Posted by Seducer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

he was just referring to touching/rubbing which i don't think is inappropriate for a 15 yr old.

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What a surprise, coming from a poster named "seducer" and all... ;)

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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Freaks. You should already have had your first babies by 15.

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Oh, put a sock in it or I'll have your baby.

Oooh. Promise? I mean, I'll totally skip town and never be heard from again, but I'm up, for making babies.

holy shit. i got a lot of responds.

guys, i'm not talking sex.
haha i'm dont plan to comment anymore in this thread. i've creeped you guys out enough.

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Originally Posted by Seducer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't understand why everyone assumed that the poster was talking about sex. I think he was just referring to touching/rubbing which i don't think is inappropriate for a 15 yr old.

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that is exactly what i meant.
i didnt mean sex. i am just tired of hanging out all the time and getting nothing more than a kiss.

especially since she thinks its right to keep her hand on the outside of my pants and play with me there but her pants are completely off limits.

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Originally Posted by TRBMan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

that is exactly what i meant.
i didnt mean sex. i am just tired of hanging out all the time and getting nothing more than a kiss.

especially since she thinks its right to keep her hand on the outside of my pants and play with me there but her pants are completely off limits.

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I see. So don't let her touch your crotch until she is begging you to touch hers.

that's one way to do it :)

she could go on forever without ever wanting me there at all.

kisses are good. i love them and cuddling. but then she starts touching me on the outside of my pants while we kiss and that turns me on, but when i return the favor, i instantly get denied.

its such a pain. i don't know how to respond.

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Originally Posted by TRBMan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

she could go on forever without ever wanting me there at all.

kisses are good. i love them and cuddling. but then she starts touching me on the outside of my pants while we kiss and that turns me on, but when i return the favor, i instantly get denied.

its such a pain. i don't know how to respond.

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Well wait it out! Don't let her touch your weener. It seems like you're more focused on feeling her up than you are about the way she feels. Girls are a pain, but if she doesn't want you to touch her damn vagina, then keep your hands off of it.

Silly boys! I would be very surprised if she is getting much out of touching your weiner other than the pleasure of knowing she is arousing you. If I were you, I'd be happy she was touching your weiner at all. In the meantime, keep your hands off her snatch until she is ready. Boys are usually ready for sexual contact long before girls are.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Silly boys! I would be very surprised if she is getting much out of touching your weiner other than the pleasure of knowing she is arousing you. If I were you, I'd be happy she was touching your weiner at all. In the meantime, keep your hands off her snatch until she is ready. Boys are usually ready for sexual contact long before girls are.

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she probably knows it makes him feel that way and she's charming the snake. know what i mean?

guess so.

she does enjoy laughing at the way i react.

I love how much "wiener" has been used in this thread.

And with such conviction too.

so the best thing to do is wait it out?
should i allow her to touch me on the outside still?

i tried telling her that she probably shouldn't touch me there unless she is ready to let me do the same, but she didn't listen much.
:(

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I love how much "wiener" has been used in this thread.

And with such conviction too.

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ur funny :D

TRB, as long as you dont mind, her touching your wiener shouldn't be a problem, it's just that she may not feel comfortable with you touching her. If this doesn't work for you, then sure, go ahead and tell her you don't feel comfortable with it either. but hell will freeze over the day a guy doesn't except a girl touching him

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Girls are a pain, but if she doesn't want you to touch her damn vagina, then keep your hands off of it.

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That pretty much says it.




Weiner weiner weiner weiner weiner weiner

(I just had to say it myself)