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Hi I was just wondering what some non verbal flirting signs would be to look out for. I am getting quite friendly with a girl at work, and when she talks to me, she is always playing with her hair, and when she wears skirts, she is always stroking her legs, are these considered signs of flirting? Are there any other non verbal signs i should be looking out for? Thanks,
If she flashes her boobies at you, she probably likes you, but just to be sure, you should ask.
My girlfriend still hasn't flashed her boobies at me...
NOOOOOOOOO!
So far she is giving you positive signs of interest. But, beware...a lot of girls play with their hair when they are bored etc. (I know I do, but I do find myself doing it around a guy I like sometimes.)Quote:
Originally Posted by Dave777 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Look for....
-extended eye contact
-her licking her lips or biting them
-her body movements (is she copying you in anyway?)(This is called mirroring)
-"accidental" touching. Or maybe on purpose. Does she touch your arm or shoulder while talking to you?
-leaning in towards you.
-the space between the two of you...is she in your personal space? (within 1 ft of you.)
There are more and if your not sure, try googling "body language" or "signs of attraction"
the way she looks at you probably has the most impact in terms of body language when it comes to flirting. i can't really tell you what you're looking for because all women are different. let me put it this way; you'll just know. there won't be a doubt in your mind.
Ahh yes, work. I remember flirting with girls at work. It was fun. =)
Playing with hair is nothing to get excited for. Stroking her legs, well it hasn't come up on my list yet. I tell you what, does she smile directly at you when you guys see eachother from a distance?
Does she wear semi-sexy clothes on the days that you work?
Does she ever pass by and say Hi?
Gives us more examples. =)
Stroking her leg?
look at her eyebrows! VErry importante
Really? What will her eyebrows be doing? :D
Waggling up and down as she runs her hands up and down her legs.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She sounds mental as anything.
I've noticed that my automatic reaction to noticing that a guy in whom I'm interested is looking at me is touching my face - usually my nose. I have NOOOO idea why - it's so strange, I need to work on it, but you could check for that too :) However, it sounds like this girl, like most other girls, is at a slightly higher level of flirting :)
Scratching or touching nose is usual in uncomfortable situations, I don't know if I can call it flirting because its more like hiding - lying to the person you care about or usually just hiding something, hiding that you like him for example. The best way of knowing the person sees you positive and maybe hides something from you is if he/she is scratching his/her nose, usually the tip of the nose, to be precise.
I remember me scratching my nose while looking down when the girl I liked walked past me. So this part is probably something both men and women have. But while shy men look down, shy girls look just far-far away to still make shure that they are being looked at... Dave, does she play with her earrings or necklace also?
If shes looking at you in a dreamy way always smiling even when talking and just watch her actions not just her movements like if shed look for any excuse to talk to you.
i would like to also add constant coughing when she doesn't have a cold. - i was at my last highschool prom, and one of the girls that i really like was chatting with me and i asked her to dance, and she developed bronchitis in a matter of seconds. she coughed the entire time we danced. MAN was that annoying, i almost just walked away from her in the middle of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Finding excuses to talk to you or to be around would say a lot. But she may want to be friends, or like someone who you're friends with. One never knows with brains hidden well inside skulls. If you think something's there, just ask her. That gets the guessing and the nagging doubts out of the way. Then you can move on.
y.know what is funny? i just had the last post in EVERY section of the forum. how ****in awesome is that?
Man, that is worth killin'!
My Hero :DQuote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Flirting signs... you GOTTA know the signs! :)
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if only the girl I like would display more of this
Hey, guys, don't you think it is the women who would have to answer this question?
For example, girls, I found this list on the Internet... What do you think?
• The girl blushes when she looks at you.
• The girl calls you by your full name, George Henry.
• The girl compliments you.
• The girl flirts like a friend, but she holds the look or the touch a little more than usual.
• The girl flirts with you more often or more intensely than with the other guys or friends.
• The girl gets into activities to spend more time with you. Example... Hi! Same gym? You and I? Since yesterday? Oh, I see...
• The girl gets upset if you delay your phone call.
• The girl gives you a pet name!
• The girl gives you a small present without reason.
• The girl looks at you and keeps some eye contact.
• The girl mirrors your posture or rotates her body to get it towards you.
• The girl plays with her hair while looking at you.
• The girl starts using another cologne.
• The girl stops flirting with the other guys.
• The girl uses that special tone of voice only with you.
• The girl smiles at you.