Over the internet?

This is my story...

It all stared me making a bebo...LOL i know...as time go random people add me..
and yata yata yata....

This girl added me yup...we chatted through bebo for a while, around couple of days...then i asked for her email...and yup added her on msn...we chatted...

as time go i find my self liking her....i have confessed to her my feelings knowing
it's impossible well not really...we live in the same country...but different state...

I live in South Australia at the capital Adelaide and her self New South Wales at the capital Sydney...and yup...i rarely go their....but yup....umm...so i think its not that impossible or is it from you guys point of view?..

mmmm...this is the first time...i feel for a girl over the net....and if ya wondering if i ever had a girl friend the answer is yes, but non has givining me this feeling like i worry for the girl i like...i wonder....

mmm and yup...she told me if i were their she will accept me...so now i m thinking should i take a visit to sydney and meet her up?

mmm not sure...any one ever experience this situation..?

Take it from me, the love you find on the Internet and the relationship(s) you can develop there are 100% real. People have to get over seeing the fact that an "Internet relationship is a joke". It's not. You're close by and since you've got traveling means, yes, go for it, do your best, see where it gets you.

Be careful though, while some internet dates might work, some can turn out to be absolute psycho's and turn very weird on you, I tried internet dating on two occasions, one continuously lied to me and the other kept putting off meeting up, despite us being in the same city, its put me off internet dating all together (even if the thing doesnt work out from my problem thread)

My best advice is to maybe ask to double date instead or just bring a friend as backup in case he/she starts getting strange.

I think long distance relationships are pointless unless there are definite plans to remedy the living arrangements.

Dating over the Internet justifies robbing an old lady of her purse and then walking up to a random car dealer, and with the intent to sterilize him tap his nuts with it.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think long distance relationships are pointless unless there are definite plans to remedy the living arrangements.

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IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.

look at my mom. ever since she divorced my dad she has been meeting random people off the internet. none of them worked out. we even moved to south dakota for the current one. HE IS AN A-S-S-H-O-L-E and she wishes she never did it. but ****, she still probably wants to date on the internet. some people just don't learn anything.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.

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very to the point, and so, so true.

there's always that worry of whether or not the person you're dating long distance is getting bored and looking for something closer to them. Then you start getting suspicious, for no reason sometimes. then you get bitter.

it's just a big emotional mess.

=O

thanks guy ^^

appreciate the comments mmmm

yup i have decided to go see her =) since my school break is coming up =)

if this works out =) i sure thanks for the advices =p

also their this thing i got tto say...umm since im half jap..

and she is chinese and she's from nanjing a place during the wars the jap

invaded and kill and raped..heaps of people...and i think her parrents may do

not like me and especially i m half cast of japanese/chinese..cuz she told

me about how japs killed and raped their....

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.

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Thanks for your vote of confidence.

Dick.

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Originally Posted by beamer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

=O

thanks guy ^^

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*girl ):

...Are you in an internet relationship, friz?

I don't know about the online dating thing always failing. My cousin married a girl he met through an online dating service (the priest mentioned this at the wedding, no one knew before then how they knew eachother! You should have seen the looks on all our faces).
I'm not sure how long they had been talking or whatever online, but he introduced me and my family to her about half a year before they got married. They've been married about 10 months so far.

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Originally Posted by Steve2004 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

*girl ):

...Are you in an internet relationship, friz?

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No, but it is long distance at the moment.

We've been talking about moving closer together, the soonest being this September.

I should send you the links to get you updated on my love life.

A lot as happened (with me) since you've been gone.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I should send you the links to get you updated on my love life.

A lot as happened (with me) since you've been gone.

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please do! i'm curious

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Originally Posted by Steve2004 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

please do! i'm curious

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I PMed you, so as to no longer hi-jack this guy's thread.

i think it works. i know it worked for some people. it just...takes a whole lot of work.

Yes i have we were in same country but at different ends. You just ahve to understand this girl yes maybe she dose want to meet you but i shared as us girls have to be careful with things like this

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

IT NEVER ****ING WORKS.

look at my mom. ever since she divorced my dad she has been meeting random people off the internet. none of them worked out.

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oh wow, you have actual proof. Somehow, when an internet/LD relationship doesn't work, it is proof that those relationships never work. The overwhelming amount of completely regular, real life relationships that also don't work out, however, doesn't equally indicate that all real life relationships are doomed from the start.
If your mom had started meeting lots of random people in real life and it didn't work out, you would not be saying "man, real life relationships NEVER work". no, you'd have some other reason for it, like that your mom was on the rebound or he was a jerk or whatever.

beamer:
do what makes you happy.

and please learn the difference between "they're" (short for "they are") and "their" (possessive adjective, as in "it's their house"), and "there" (adverb, as in "look over there")

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Thanks for your vote of confidence.

Dick.

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it's not a vote of confidence, it's advice. your relationship isn't even over the internet, so don't be calling me names.

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Originally Posted by Tiay [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

oh wow, you have actual proof. Somehow, when an internet/LD relationship doesn't work, it is proof that those relationships never work. The overwhelming amount of completely regular, real life relationships that also don't work out, however, doesn't equally indicate that all real life relationships are doomed from the start.
If your mom had started meeting lots of random people in real life and it didn't work out, you would not be saying "man, real life relationships NEVER work". no, you'd have some other reason for it, like that your mom was on the rebound or he was a jerk or whatever.

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this is a good point. but, it's not only my mom, it's everyone i know. i don't know a single person that has had a lasting relationship that lead to marriage and happiness. there is a whole other side to a person that you don't get to know just because it's over the internet.

on the other hand, i know people that have LDRs that turned out great.

edit: :lol: whoops, hope nobody saw taht...

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Originally Posted by Tiay [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

oh wow, you have actual proof. Somehow, when an internet/LD relationship doesn't work, it is proof that those relationships never work. The overwhelming amount of completely regular, real life relationships that also don't work out, however, doesn't equally indicate that all real life relationships are doomed from the start.
If your mom had started meeting lots of random people in real life and it didn't work out, you would not be saying "man, real life relationships NEVER work". no, you'd have some other reason for it, like that your mom was on the rebound or he was a jerk or whatever.

beamer:
do what makes you happy.

and please learn the difference between "they're" (short for "they are") and "their" (possessive adjective, as in "it's their house"), and "there" (adverb, as in "look over there")

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what can i say, i study esl >_<

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Originally Posted by beamer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

what can i say, i study esl >_<

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oh, I should add, being broke because you can't afford to travel all the time will make you unhappy. so when I say do what makes you happy, I don't mean you should just spontaneously go for it, I mean you should consider very carefully if this has a chance of working and therefore making you happy.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i don't know a single person that has had a lasting relationship that lead to marriage and happiness.

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geez that's sad. Though, anybody who's happily married today is unlikely to have met on the internet, because they didn't really have the internet and the tons of dating sites back then.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

there is a whole other side to a person that you don't get to know just because it's over the internet.

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true. people have to meet in real life.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

on the other hand, i know people that have LDRs that turned out great.

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there you go :)

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

it's not a vote of confidence, it's advice. your relationship isn't even over the internet, so don't be calling me names.

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Stop being such a girl.

financial issue is not matter to me =p

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Originally Posted by Ephemeral Dream [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Stop being such a girl.

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'nuff said. :)

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

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'nuff said. :)

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bahahahahahahaha.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

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'nuff said. :)

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You should follow your own advice.

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Originally Posted by Ephemeral Dream [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You should follow your own advice.

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that's usually what people say when they know they got owned. continue via pm, it is wrong to derail someone's elses thread.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

that's usually what people say when they know they got owned.

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That's just utterly stupid. Didn't expect more from you anyway.

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Originally Posted by Ephemeral Dream [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

That's just utterly stupid. Didn't expect more from you anyway.

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Originally Posted by lilwing

continue via pm, it is wrong to derail someone's elses thread.

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one of the quickest way to get banned, derail everyone's threads by insulting other members.

my apologies to the original poster of this thread; you should just avoid dating on the internet. unless you know this person already.

i had to do it =X

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

it's not a vote of confidence, it's advice. your relationship isn't even over the internet, so don't be calling me names.

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Look at what you quoted. Vashti was not referring to internet relationships in her posts, she was referring to long distance relationships.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Look at what you quoted. Vashti was not referring to internet relationships in her posts, she was referring to long distance relationships.

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my apologies, i misread it as over the internet. i am 100% against internet relationships, but i know that long distance relationships do work out.

also, don't ever get addicted to bebo. It's bad for you.

oh i see, damm i m getting addicted to it >_<

what shall i do?

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Originally Posted by beamer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

This is my story...

It all stared me making a bebo...LOL i know...as time go random people add me..
and yata yata yata....

This girl added me yup...we chatted through bebo for a while, around couple of days...then i asked for her email...and yup added her on msn...we chatted...

as time go i find my self liking her....i have confessed to her my feelings knowing
it's impossible well not really...we live in the same country...but different state...

I live in South Australia at the capital Adelaide and her self New South Wales at the capital Sydney...and yup...i rarely go their....but yup....umm...so i think its not that impossible or is it from you guys point of view?..

mmmm...this is the first time...i feel for a girl over the net....and if ya wondering if i ever had a girl friend the answer is yes, but non has givining me this feeling like i worry for the girl i like...i wonder....

mmm and yup...she told me if i were their she will accept me...so now i m thinking should i take a visit to sydney and meet her up?

mmm not sure...any one ever experience this situation..?

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so this is the story you hide from every one, interesting.

I am leaving this forum!