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Let's say you met a man and you guys got to talking. During the half an hour or so he made you laugh, he did'nt come on too strong, he was attractive, showed confidence, and was a gentleman but........ Afterwards he asks you for your home phone number..and you (yea you ladies) give him the number..everything is cool...but he waits a week to call you and asks you out. Would you still be interested in dating him?
Interested?! They would be frothing! FROTHING!
I, myself, wouldn't be too thrilled. I stick to the four-day rule, most times. I think waiting a week speaks to an assumption on his part that he has to keep your enthusiasm in check or something.
Some guys, however, get bad advice, people telling them not to look too desperate. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you (just means he has bad judgement).
I see no reason not to give him a chance, but with low expectations. If you go out and he takes another week to call you after that, you should worry. Nobody wants to be in a relationship that's moving along at the pace of my grandma's Delta 88.
Heheh. I don't even call once a week. I wonder what the women I've dated think of that.
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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
God, I slept with this guy once, and it took him four days to call me. I had been dating him for several weeks- it's not like it was some once-off. Well, that's actually what it turned out to be, because I got so pissed off I never spoke to him again.
He cried on my answering machine. Heh heh. Stupid ****er.
i like to make the typical once a day call. i don't talk on the phone a lot. i am a face-to-face kind of dude.
4 days? a week? what is the difference? maybe he was nervous? Who cares? Who makes these gay rules anyways?
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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh god.... Suddenly I become really nervous, I didn't know that calling within a certain timeframe meant anything!!!
But yeah, like lilwing said, I hate using phones for conversation. I never make calls with the phone, ****ing government will be listening to my every word!
I had no clue this meant anything.................
Frankly, if a girl has a problem with me not calling her within whatever period of time she's arbitrarily created, I don't need her.
Gribble, where are these "girls"? Are you sure you haven't arbitrarily created them? Despite continously presenting yourself as a killer ladies man, the only girl I've ever heard you mention is some black chick that you thought might have been interested at some point but she got engaged.
I've mentioned a couple others here and there. Frankly, I don't have much to say about them. I'm getting less and less interested in "scoring" at parties and BS like that and no more interested in relationships. So I haven't exactly been at my A game this past semester.
I swear, if it were legal and regulated I would spend my weekends at a brothel.
And honestly, at this point I'd rather hang out with my friends than expend all that energy and money on girls. It doesn't seem worth it to me anymore.
you better call me in two days damn it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Psh! Why would I call you? You don't ever put out.
like you would even call me if i did!
If they don't call at all then you have your answer. period.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve2004 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I expect to wait no more than three days. Longer than that, and I think they must not like me all that much, and I would forget about them.
Ah, heck, who knows what went on with him during that week?
Since you don't yet know him....if you don't have a million other offers, why not go out with him? Then decide if he is worth going out with again
Yes i would. He might of not wanted to look desperate so he left it a week before calling.
No - under three (or *maybe* four) days is desperate. One week is uncertainty. If he *really* is crazy about you, he wouldn't wait a week.
I guess we are all different and have different time limits but i would say yes to anything upto a week but after a week then no
If he can't make time for a simple phone call within four days, I can't make time for him in my life. What more simple way to say, "You are very low on my priority list" than that?
He shouldn't wait longer to call than it takes food to go bad in the fridge.
If you call too much though, won't you come off as being annoying and clingy?
You need to find that sacred middle ground, right?
no you just have to use a little common sense.
I don't have common sense :(Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lol. well then yes, what you said.
What do you mean "calling too much"? Aren't we talking about the first time a guy calls a girl after she gives him her number? That should be done in three days. Afterwards, don't call every day, multiple times a day. Everyone should leave the other person wanting just a little bit more.Quote:
Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Unless you're trying to make her feel like a whore, why would anyone wait four days to call a girl they've just slept with?! I usually call her the next day.
I mean the game's won. She put out. What are you trying to achieve here?
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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Exactly. It feels like crap to have a guy do that. I know what it's like and believe me, it does not bring out my best side.
I already knew all this information. but are you actually telling me if i don't call a girl for a week or more it's game over ?
shit... well i usually don't call more than once per week or so because i don't want to come off as clingy or desperate .
so that means i have to call every single girl on my "list" every week to keep them in "check" ? this all seems a bit too much work .
i like to go 3-4 weeks unheard of and then call them, so like that it creates some time to be able to have something to talk about , this is of course done to girls that im NOT dating (and that i just have some interest in them) .
Well, Santa, not everyone has a list as long as yours.Quote:
Originally Posted by Late_vamp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]