Masturbation unacceptable?

My gf and I have a very good sexual relationship. We are open to expressing our desires and considerate of what the other wants.
Sometimes we bath together and both enjoy it.
Sometimes I like to watch her bath. She seems to enjoy the attention. I certainly enjoy watching! I would like to touch myself in masturbation style, just stimulation, not climaxing. But she does not like for me to do that. Otherwise, she is very accepting of sexual techniques and stimulation. So, overall, it is not a big issue. Nevertheless, it would be fun for me. Is there a way to overcome her dislike of this practice? Or, should I just forget it entirely?

If she isn't in to it, then don't push it or you will start to have problems in other areas of your sexualty. It is important to respect one another's boundaries.

Just have her jerk you off.

since when does touching yourself become the boundaries of another person's? this is nonsense.

Indulging in exhibitionism is a violation of another person's boundaries if it done without consent. It is also considered a paraphilia.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Indulging in exhibitionism is a violation of another person's boundaries if it done without consent. It is also considered a paraphilia.

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i guess this really doesn't make sense to me if they're bathing together or something.

He's not bathing with her. he is watching her bathe and wants to masturbate while doing it.

if i were her i would probably throw the bar of soap at his crotch XD

just kidding.

It might be kind of antisocial if you're spanking the monkey in front of her like that. A little weird as well.... I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable in either of your shoes in a situation like that

is male masturbation even very attractive to you ladies?

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Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It might be kind of antisocial if you're spanking the monkey in front of her like that. A little weird as well.... I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable in either of your shoes in a situation like that

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If my girlfriend got off to me takin' a shower. All the better.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

is male masturbation even very attractive to you ladies?

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Not to me. *Imagining* it is one thing; witnessing it is another.

i didn't think so. female masturbation really isn't attractive to me either.. unless i am a part of it.

Y'know, I didn't think I would, but I love my boyfriends cock.. 0.o

anyway.. with any sexual thing that you want to do, you can negotiate for it. Is there something *she* really wants to do that you don't usually do for her? trade it.
this sounds "wrong" to some but it works.

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i didn't think so. female masturbation really isn't attractive to me either.. unless i am a part of it.

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Watching is being part of it.

you know what i mean.

I had a girlfriend who used to get off big-time on watching me have a flog. If I did it to myself against her vagina she'd hit the ****ing roof.

I did the same thing to my next girlfriend and she was like "stop that" hahahahahaha

Yay! Charlieboy came back.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Just have her jerk you off.

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I think you should start here.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yay! Charlieboy came back.

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Ha! Yes I didn't cop a total ban, I just had to go and stand in the naughty corner for a while....

Well, I'm glad you came back. I appreciate your clarity, you bad boy.

Charlie Boy sounds hot.

yes jacking off to that is cool it was the whole idea to jack off to it. my girl friend was in bathroom i was spanking my cock and jacking off :D

Thank you.
I think you have an excellent point.
I shall follow your advise.

Thank you.
She will do that. Perhaps I should say she is learning to do that - which is a lot of fun, too.
However, the idea here was to watch her while she baths. More fun comes later!

I like to watch! My gf did not readily warm to the idea of touching herself in my presence. But, once, when we were ****ing, I move her hand to her clit and she rubbed it while I continued ****ing her. She really enjoyed it. I think she would not want that every time, but she said she liked it.

Thanks for your PM. {I guess the forum won't allow links. Also, want allow me to post PM reply until I have met quota of other postings!]

My guess is that she will come around over time. Once, when she was not able to accept entry, she gladly assisted my masturbation, fondling my balls. She had panties on and I said excitedly, "Show me your pussy," hoping she would raise her hips. She took off the panties!

aw.. sounds like she might actually come to like it.