In a relationship when, if ever is it okay to lie?
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In a relationship when, if ever is it okay to lie?
When would you be more apt to lie in a relationship? To save yourself or to save your mate?
in attempt to keep surprise birthday parties a surprise.
i seriously see no use/need to lie unless it is something like that ^^
i don't lie but i am very incognito with some things i say.
only when your lover asks if you love them right in the middle of sex and you're about to cum.
raverboy
If you have to lie, you're doing something wrong. What kind of lies are we talking about, here?
The lies like the ones said at the beginning and middle of a relationship. The ones that really matter on how much into each other you are. Are you going to spend the rest of you life with me? Do you really love me more than life?
Heh, I feel sorry for anybody who's pressed to answer questions like that. It's just setting up for disappointment.Quote:
Originally Posted by Patient Dreams [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Whats wrong with lovin someone more then life? Romance is not dead! MUAHAHA!
Ya can't love someone when yer dead.Quote:
Originally Posted by cheeze_guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Period.
Says you....... You all remember those dreams and promises you made at the beginning of your relationship?
Where is the truth in the lies.
and you can't prove that, mr. knowitall.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i believe feelings last beyond a lifetime, whether you die or not. love is that powerful. true love.
Whatever, you're just a hopeless.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, I don't recall any of those promises.Quote:
Says you....... You all remember those dreams and promises you made at the beginning of your relationship?
Where is the truth in the lies.
Because I never made them.
Because I'm not an idiot.
There's the truth in my truth.
I never made any promises or dreams in my relationship. I don't see lying as a problem if your 100% sure someone can't find out or be harmed. Example: My girlfriend asked to hang out one day I really didn't want to because I was going to a movie with a couple friends from work. I told her I was to tired after work. Something like that I personally don't feel bad for. It's not bad to lie to someone if it does not harm them. That's how I see it.
and you're just an idiot.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Completely owned.
Don't get angry at me just because somebody made ridiculous promises they couldn't keep.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
hah, i don't know where you get the idea that i am angry.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Don't most people when they make those promises have every intention of fullfilling them?
Why are you asking this question?
is this spam?
It's too pointless to be spam.
I was thinking more along the lines of someone collecting responses for some sort of written work....
I don't know where you get the idea that I am an idiot.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
it's your silly calling me "a hopeless" for believing something that you don't for something that is not scientifically proven or anything. heh, we'll see who is hopeless, i guess.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you can lie when its a birthday surprise and that's it.
generally in a relationship if your lying your guilty.
I deem to myself a lie to be simply a trick and a good moral thing to do only when you want to drag the real truth out of the other person. I know, I know, the entire irony thing..but oh well.
For example.
"John told me you slept with him"
"that son of a biatch can't keep his mouth shut for nothing! damn it"
"Actually, John never said anything"
"............shit"
We posted a song a while back called Truth In The Lies to get feedback on whether it was a worthy subject of interest. Well it turned out that it spurred such a negative comprehension of the meaning that we decided to figure out why it is that people hear the word lie and relate it automatically to divorce or breaking up. The song was originally wrote about the trials and trubulations that pretty much all relationships are based around. You said you loved me now show me. It's actually about love. People I think, very rarely will fall in love without the aspiration of knowing that this just may last forever. It's when words are just words and its your actions and reactions that will either make those words a lie or a true statement. To feel ones love is one thing, but to feel it and live it without asking the guestion is the quest.
Only-virgins -why do people feel they have to lie sometimes to get the truth?
Talk is cheap, action is everything.
Yeah, yeah, we covered this shit already, now give us something worth not abandoning this thread for.
There is no action without the talk and the words first, whether it be begging or bullshit.
You shouldn't have to lie about anything, ever.
Bullshit.Quote:
Originally Posted by Patient Dreams [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I use no words prior to masturbation.
I lied the other day when I told my girl I only thought about her when I jacked off - but I mean she asked and its a pretty silly question. I think about her sometimes, which is pretty good I reckon.
I definitely have never told a girl that I'll "love her forever" or any nonsense like that. In fact apart from the above I almost never lie.
haha well said. When mine asked me if I had to pick between her and Scarlett Johansson for 1 night of crazy ass passion love-making, bed-wrecking session, who would it be...i had to lie to her for that but come on..the answer is obvious and Ill admit that. The answer would definitely be Scarlett. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Bull shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by lovexlikexcance [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well said Frasbee -but then at that moment you're still lying, but to yourself. hehe
this thread is f*uckining stupid. and since i have the power, i'm closing this stupid ass shit.
Because the truth is that much more important then the lie.Quote:
Originally Posted by Patient Dreams [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lol misombra doesn't know how to close :)