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well yesterday she broke up with me... *sigh* with my break up line (( I don't use it I just find it funny)) "its not you, it me"........
I'm like "god... she had to spite me like that... oh well just sit back and listen, get it over with..." I was so pissed off at her for that but hey thats life.... it hurts then it goes away, it still stings but I can live with it..:bored:
Thats the fakest break up line ever..why can't they just say what they mean.
Childish shit, I swear.
and that why I find it funny in the first place..... well that bitch will get whats coming to her
sorry Necrid... :(
nah its ok, for the best I guess:bored:
I'm sorry that happened.
Even though this is a common break-up line, sometimes there actually telling the truth (eg. If somethings going on in there lives or they just want to be single right now).
Anyways, just remember that theres millions of girls out there and your more then welcome to explore them all.
that line means a lot of things to different people. if she were to say, "it's just YOU" that would have been pushing the knife a little further. but i remember once i broke up with one of my ex girlfriends because i didn't feel any chemistry between us. i told her it was because i wasn't happy in my life and the relationship was getting affected. and i did basically tell her it was me. she took it lightly at first but being that we broke up right before summer started, she told me that she was miserable all summer. i felt bad but later on she got over it, she just missed being in A relationship, maybe that's what you're down about too. who knows, but anyways, things get better, and when you think about it, if she wasn't brave enough to tell you it's over, you would have been stuck in a fake-ass relationship, and i for one wouldn't want to be in that situation, better to love with all your heart than to love with pity. oh and ya, that ex i broke up with, she's one of my best friends now. :)
The 'it's not you, it's me' is certainly overused, but I agree, there often is some truth to it. She may feel you are a wonderful person, just not the right person for her, or where she is right now. People are often not in the same place in a relationship, and just not in sync with each other. It's best to move on, regardless how much it may hurt. And even when it's for good reasons, it's never easy to end it with somebody you care about, I recently went through the same thing, so I will say I'm sorry Necrid. Keep your chin up, and know that there are plenty of good women out there, and you WILL eventually find the one who is right for you!
i think for guys, they use it to mean, "it's not you, i want someone else" and girls they use it to mean, "it's not me, it's you, i want someone else"
my gf said that exact line when breaking up with me.:astonish:
which line? [fiona from Eurotrip]it's not you, it's me...no i take that back, it IS you! [/fiona from Eurotrip]Quote:
Originally posted by bisoncrossing
my gf said that exact line when breaking up with me.:astonish:
Necrid buddy-you know I am sorry to hear that. But also know theres a reason! Just look it at like another door opened! With your charm(you know what I mean too) you'll get more women floating your way...and then use your abilities to win them over!
that may be true but it's hard to tell someone that there's someone out there for you when you thought THAT person was the one. just look at it as though it's the best for YOU and when that right person comes along, you'll be ready...something like that...just don't go looking for someone that reminds you of the same chica...Quote:
Originally posted by squirrley
Necrid buddy-you know I am sorry to hear that. But also know theres a reason! Just look it at like another door opened! With your charm(you know what I mean too) you'll get more women floating your way...and then use your abilities to win them over!
Everyone goes through that, thinking they had the "one". But its how you deal with it in the aftermath. Necrid didnt think that here, he'd only dated her for what a couple of weeks or something. Yea it still hurts getting the shaft. No matter how or what was said, but you have to put yourself in a position to grow, not stunt yourself. I'm 33 and trust me had a couple of relationships that went shitty. And I at the time thought no one could replace that person, but to my suprise someone else does come along when you're least expecting it. You guys are really young yet, and this probably will happen more times than you want to count. but its your decision to get up every morning look in the mirror and know you'll be fine. YOU do have the choice on how to face it. you can either be depressed the rest of your life or have awhile to greive, and move on to better things.
Everything does happen for a reason, and one day, when you do find someone whose worthy of you, you'll look back and know it was for the best. No one suggests you find someone asap, every one needs time to heal, it's not cool to move on to someone just to have them. It surely wouldnt work. But have faith and know things will get better in time.
yeah, well I hope your right squirrley
and thanks for the 'charm' comment :baby:
yea sweets you "know", you do it to me every time! Knowing that should put you ahead of the game!
Its your secret weapon, dont share.
yeah yeah it should be hey.... it can't be control
like that thing in the wind and, and..... stuff :baby:
see there you did it again...
like I said its uncontrollable..... just remember the wind and that thingy with the stuff and that birdy.....:detective
ok...now I told you what was what...go use it wisely on your next gal...
ok, I'll do my best and put my some called "charm" to work
go get em tiger...:D
GRRRRRR *bares teeth* :baby:
damnit put those charms away
see can't be controled :D
It is a stupid line....I always figured that the "Its not you, its me" line should be followed up with of an explanation of exactly what that means so the person isn't left ripping their hair out wondering what the hell really happened.
At least one of my ex's had the balls to say "Im not happy anymore, and neither are you." Couldn't really argue that point.
So, Necrid, just tell yourself....yeah, honey, it IS you, you are the one who's going to miss out on THIS! And don't feel sorry for it.
Same line my ex used, except it was really abt her. She explained why it was her and I accepted it.
She was not sure of what she wants to do with her life before making a commitment to our relationship. She was away doing an attachment in another country. So here I was patiently waiting for her no matter how long she took. Problem she was not sure how long she'd be gone. She didint want me to keep on waiting for something which might never return.
Still life goes on, many fish in the sea, leaves in the tree, etc etc Never Give Up the Chase... I guess everybody loves this quote "Things happen for a reason" ;)