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Hey guys,
I will briefly describe my problem.
Many years i have been waiting for a person that i thought was just made for me.
This boy finally decided to be with me when finally i got a boyfriend who i absolutely fell in love with.
I dont know what to do because i feel that i want them both!
I need urgent help and advice, please!
"This boy" ... doesn't sound as special as when you say "boyfriend who i absolutely fell in love with". Sounds like either I am missing the important details or you just wanna date everyone who wants to date you.
we cant do anything with the information you gave us. But i would hate to throw away what i had built with a gf for a chance at someone else.
My advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kate21 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sometimes you have to be cold and logical about things. Logic is a thing we as humans have that no other [known] being has. Emotions and feelings are something we as living creatures all have, primal instincts, primal attractions, primal behavior. Try and see past this rush of heat burning in your lower abdomen and look at them, who do you relate with more? Who do get along with more? Which of them has more substance, more heart, more set-in-stone compatibility with you your way of thinking and your way of doing things? In words, which of them is most like you... or, which of them is most like what you're looking for? Do you even know what you are looking for? Are you even capable of making this sort of decision? These are questions you have to ask yourself and answer before you can go ahead and decide what's your next course of action... It's a hard one, it's an important one. Someones going to get hurt you have to accept it.
Don't play with these guys, that's the cruelest thing you can do. Don't lead them on, be gentle. And good luck with your decision.
maus. did you name yourself after the maus comic?
Yes. Why?
Let's not highjack the thread.
i can do whatever i want.
So can everyone else :D.Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No. Only Misombra.
Anyway, kate, I'm a bit disappointed. I was expecting a pic.
Has it occurred to you that the one you waited around for only wants you now because he thinks he can't have you?
Three way? Pick the better one in bed? Just an idea...
Dont throw away a good guy just to date another. If the one youre not dating is truely the one youre meant to be with then he will show up again :) And if he really wants you then he will respect the relationship youre in and always be prepared for when you break up with him
Quick reply... "If you like two guys, then you don't really like any of them." (Mum to my sister, 1994)
Yea, he will bust through a window wearing a cape. Get the F out of here.Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
and waiting for someone to break up? What kind of a chump does that?
youre such an ass.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
my optimism has been shattered to pieces.
There are no good men, no good women, everything is corrupt so do whatever the hell you want with the least amount of drama involved.
There is no such thing as good or bad to start with so how the hell do you come up with.."there is no good men, no good women". People should stick up for themselves and things don't happen because they are "meant" to happen...they happen because you MAKE them happen. This is especially true with human social interaction.Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The question here is.....
Is this b/f & g/f thing that you are involved in is it serious or just dating???
If it is just a casual dating thing then you can very well date 2 people at the same thing as there is no commitment there.
Yes, I agree with Trish. So long as you are not exclusive, you can date as many boys as you like until you can easily toss them all aside for the one "special" one. Just don't sleep with them, and don't let them think you are exclusive.
you need a puppy OV. puppies make everything better
Puppies need a good home, I wouldn't feed the thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]