why is it that men love being suckedoff so much?? and any tip to make the bj better???
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why is it that men love being suckedoff so much?? and any tip to make the bj better???
I am guessing it feels good? Men probably like it more if the "sucker" actually enjoys the experience.
most men like their balls to be played with while you give them head...now thats just my experiences!
I enjoy it, but until recently, blow jobs the most that I got from my girlfriend.
Anyway, believe it or not, it's possible to suck (haha...), at giving them.
Keep your teeth as far away as possible.
Try to get in a position that allows his penis to go as far into your mouth/throat as possible. If you haven't managed to control your gag reflex, make sure he knows before he triggers your it and you go spewing vomit all over him.
Use your hand, even if his entire penis fits in your mouth. My girlfriend will lick her hand and slide it up and down in with a slight twisting motion, then use her mouth on the head.
It feels wonderful.
But what works for one man, may not for another. Stay aware of his reaction to different stimuli. If something seems to work better than another, run with it.
there is only so much you can do with balls tho, they are really sensetive!! i only cup them and rub them gently!! what else can i do with them? oh and suck them slightly!
Pears would tell you to smack them hard. :D
Ball sucking is phenomenal.
In fact, if done right, all my attention goes to my scrotum, and I sometimes lose my erection because it's so intense.
what do you call as right??? the slide of the tongue between the balls or gently suckin on each ball?? or jiggling the two in a hot mouth??
wait, who doesn't like to feel good??
raverboy
what do you mean?? feel good??
As mentioned, having my balls sucked feels amazing.
But after that, my girlfriend is kind of lacking in the oral department. It's good foreplay, but I don't think she can get me off that way. Never gotten off to head though, so I dunno. Either way, it feels good.
Are you in a rush?
Why all the eager questions?
Are you blowing him as you type this?
hahaahah, no i'm not!! just wanted to know what makes a good BJ thats all. i have never had any complaints. just wondered whymen like them so much?? what about slipping my finger in the arse as i blow? is that a turn on???
Why do women like their clits licked?Quote:
Originally Posted by hollymolly [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
-shrug-
The ass can be a touch subject for men and women. Don't go shovin' your finger up there without prior consent, or at least after a few green lights.
If he doesn't protest when you massage/kiss/lick his ass, you might be good. I dunno, a finger might be crossing a line for some. If you don't think he'd admit to liking/wanting something like that, then just go for it. Just don't be surprised if he jumps away.
You better be sure he won't have a problem with it. Start by just running your fingers along the crack and see what he does... massage the area or something.. but don't just ram it in there. You will most likely ruin the moment and make him hesitant to do shit with you.Quote:
Originally Posted by hollymolly [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If all else fails.. ask.
so i take it anal beads are out of the question???
i think most men like a bit of anal but just dont like to admit it!!
I've never had something go in my ass.
And honestly, I'm not wanting to try.
Anal beads? Get out of here. I won't even let a finger in there.
i like mine to be sucked!!hahahaaahha!
hey dont mock it till you have tried it!!! you would love it!!
How would you know what I'd love? Go ahead and try to stick something up there.. don't be surprised if he shits on you.
i just think most men do!!!
Take a survey. I bet you less than 20% like it.
so what do you like then??
HAHA!!!... suckers.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
For me it is a mental thing. Allowing a girl to do that to me requires a lot of trust these days. There are people out there who will bite your dick off if they get the chance.
Also a visual thing; watching your girlfriend do something like that is really pleasurable.
If they really know what they are doing, it can feel really physically good too.
Oh hell yes. My gf will get between my legs and look at me every now and then while she does it... it looks hot.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The first time I attempted such an act, I carved off a chunk of his skin from his length. :(
True story.
I have a mark on my penis from my first girlfriend. It's nothing big, just a healthy reminder to be gentle. Sometimes wish I was still with her so we could waste hours away laughing at it. Good times, good memories.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pears [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I like blowjobs better than vaginal or anal sex.
First off she actually wants you to finish soon!!!! :evil: There is no worry about her getting off. For some reason it is a huge turn-on to see it in her mouth and take the load in there too. :evil:
#1 rule of BJ's: DON'T STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Actually, different #1 rule.
NO TEETH.
BAD BAD BAD!
My ex would make the mistake of slipping in teeth from time to time... bad, pain, hurts, bad...
But, much of what other people said I agree with. The sticking a finger up the arse thing, the guy would have to be pretttty comfortable (not going to lie).
Looking up at the guy could be an amazing turn on, too.
Hope that helped :)
Blow jobs are good but they could never get me off I don't think. But heck still feels great and is awesome foreplay. Like some of the other fella's have said, ball play is phenominal, sucking, licking, light tugging, massaging.. ahh i love having a penis..
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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I gave you a thumbs up for that one. A very well structured response, my comrade.
what guy is his right mind wouldn't mind getting a blow job?? it's like eating ice cream on a hot summer day.
raverboy
This is something that I'm not confused about. Read "blow him away" it shows mouth exercises, correct placement, tongue, suck, and hand techs all in one book. I used to think a BJ was a BJ and no guy would say it was a bad one. What if you could give him mind blowing BJs, I mean slap the bed, make his toes curl, and moan for more. You can actually control speed, intensity, and when he's ready to blow take him down a level and bring him to boil in seconds again. If you play with his "G spot", located 2/3rds of the way between the rectum and sack (where his penis actually starts) you will make his eyes roll into the back of his head. Take your time and get into what you're doing. I used to hate BJ's until I learned the right way to give one. Ladies seeing your man in pure and utter mush in your mouth will bring you and him to new sexual levels in your relationship. So don't rush it, enjoy it, and take pride in your BJ expertise. He will thank you for it and will gladly return the favor.