I wonder how men feel about females and hair in the pubic area...to have or not? Are they like little girls if all is removed? Do you prefer all removed, or partial/certain areas, none, or just trimmed?
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I wonder how men feel about females and hair in the pubic area...to have or not? Are they like little girls if all is removed? Do you prefer all removed, or partial/certain areas, none, or just trimmed?
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The less the better
I prefer that it all be removed but I understand that it's a pain to shave that area every day with the red little bumps. So feel free to wax.
My girl shaves every few days. She would wax it but I'd have to wax it for her cause she's scared... lmao
Um DEFINITELY. No one wants to feel like they are hooking up with a 12-year-old.
I prefer a trim and/or landing strip ...
Yeah I don't like it bare.
Just keep it trimmed.
waxing down there hurts. bad.
Trimmed or landing strip is hot. But I don't mind cleanly shaven either.
As long as it's not bush. Bush makes it hard to navigate and I don't need to floss.
Can I say that all removed except for a small, thin landing strip is possibly preferred by most men?
I don't think so... I think like hair that grows on the head, it all depends on the girl. If she grows thick, black pubic hair, it will never look good shaven because there will always be those little "pepper spots" left after shaving. Girls who have thin or light-colored pubic hair may be able to pull off the landing strip or hairless.
I'd be worried about the guys who like it hairless, though.
Can I say that at least trimmed and neat is preferred over nothing at all or a bush, lol? Thanks for all the comments. Keep them coming :D
I perfer that it's hairless or trimmed really low just because when my mouths there I don't like hair in my mouth. At least when a girl gives a guy oral, if he's trimmed, she's not getting much if any pubes in her mouth.
That's very true about the pepper spots. I have very dark and thick hair...another reason why I hated shaving.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't see anything wrong with a gal going hairless, it's neat and clean and makes things easy. My ex preferred to keep herself shaven, I didn't care...as long as it wasn't bush.
All in all, can't go wrong if you're trimmed...it's kind of the neutral safe choice.
Trimmed. No need to go through the pain of waxing when you KNOW your man won't do the same.
I 100% agree. If my man doesn't want to wax then I certainly will not. I don't see a difference in why one gender should wax and the other doesn't. If he asked me to wax then he should wax as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by JarrodHalsey [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't appreciate it when I go down on a woman to find out that she has the ****ing garden of Eden concealed beneath her panties.
I do like it when she has hair though... it kind of tickles... in a good way. I like it trimmed so that it doesn't poke out when she wears a string bikini, and so that I can have a hair-free muff diving atmosphere. But hair so that when we are having sex, I don't get irritated skin from barb-like hairs. Kind of like that landing strip style... but more of a 'love triangle'.
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Yeah, if the hair is not shaved smoothly it can poke and be irritating for him...I'd rather be completely smooth with maybe a small design or I don't bother and just keep it really low.
Honestly.., for as long as it's under 2cm.., it's not an issue.., but as a general rule of thumb.., Amish Bushstorm isn't sexy.., when it gets out of control down there.., it reminds you of a grandmother.., like a woman who doesn't take care of herself.., and you dread having to go down there or even look at it..Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well.., when you wax.., that's the other extreme.., you don't see the razor bumps.., so it reminds you more of a little girl than a woman.. However.., there's nothing wrong with a clean shave.., razor bumps and peppers here and there are fine.., in fact.., more than fine..Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It depends.., on so many things.., really has to do with what mood we're in..Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If we look at you.., and we feel like raw sex.., like we're both animals.., in the wild.., in the jungle.., on a very primitive and basic human level.., then it's nice to see a trim.., but actually see some hair.. (1-2cm in length.., so just shave and let the chia pet grow for 1-2 days)
If we look at you.., and feeling like more civilized sex.., see you in your sexy outfit.., all clean and taken care of.., devoid of any foul odors.., smelling great.., silky hair.., soft & smooth skin.., then go for a clean shave.., take your time.., it's actually very amazing to look at.. (more on that towards the end)
If we're feeling like porn-star sex.., or still have that boyish urge to feel that our girlfriend is a nymph.., then we like to see some landing strip or whatever other artistic design you can manage down there..
Landscaping:
Some women just have a really good looking vagina.., You can look at the labia all plump.., juicy.., nothing hanging out.., it looks so neat.., so in tact.., almost artistic.., you're caught between two clashing emotions.., to just sit there in awe and observe it.., or to just worship it with your lips and tongue.., maybe some other guys can add their own personal experience to this.., but generally.., the more intelligent women (doctors.., lawyers.., dentists.., pharmacists.., except for businesswomen for some reason).., all have a really good looking vagina.., if you have one.., don't hide it.., show it off..
If age has taken its toll on it.., (or multiple partners has taken its toll on it).., then instead of attempting to apply some psychological pressure on the guy to no longer demand an aesthetically pleasing view of you down there.. "we all know men who like a woman to take care of herself down there obviously have a tendency towards pedophilia.., it says so in the DSM-IV (it doesn't really say any such thing in the DSM-IV btw)".., you can accept that you don't look quite the same way down there as you once used to.., that's fine..
Remodeling tip:
If your main entrance is too expensive to fix.., then take the time to distract the eye with some good landscaping.., You don't have to ever consider cosmetic surgery down there.., that's retarded.., but if you're not confident and perfectly happy with how you look down there.., you can leave 1-2cm of hair.., it's very possible that you may just "think" you don't look great down there.., if that's the case.., he'll let you know that he would prefer you shave once in a while.., because he still loves the way you look down there when you're all clean.. (if he's shy or you think he's just being polite.., ask him if he would like it if you shave down there.., if he says "yes" it means "yes".., if he says "I don't mind" it means "yes".., if he says "it doesn't really matter" try it.., if he says "no" it means "no")
Personally:
I like to see some hair.., as if she just shaved 1-3 days ago.., I can't explain it.., for as long as she's clean.., there's something very sexy and almost romantic about my facial stubble grazing against her pubic hair.., my tongue coming across some hairs once in a while.., sure it's not perfect.., but there's something very raw about it.., it's not a lot to put up with.., but it's cute.., that I don't mind doing it because it's her..
Plus.., I love running my fingers gently around that area before I start anything more.., and I love to tickle each hair.., have her feel my hand better and on a much deeper level than if she didn't shave.., (don't forget.., the pubes are connected to nerves.., and they add to the entire experience)..
Also.., I know it's not practical to shave every single day.., so every 2-3 days is more realistic.., but if you're asking with a particular someone in mind.., then you should be asking him.., and not us.. ;)
Best,
GrkScorp
You really know how to paint a picture don't you? Dammit, now I'm craving some. It's been too long. :PQuote:
Originally Posted by GrkScorp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Trim it. Its important for hygiene as well as sex.
Thanks for your opinion. No, I did not have anyone in mind when asking the question except for what LF thinks about it...I already know the bf's opinion about it.
Yes, I think he really likes it it shaved or what I prefer more but can barely do is use the epilator...some lidocaine helps lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by GrkScorp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know you mean 1-2mm. ;)
EDIT: Yeah, 1averagejoe, he really painted a picture there didn't he? I'll leave it at that hehe.
Grk is one of very few, that can make a post that long about pubic hair...
mm.., cm.., in.., ft.., who cares.., as long as you got it.., what difference does it make? :PQuote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But yes.., mm :D
I always trimmed, then my current boyfriend asked me if I would try waxing it once, and I kind of love it. I haven't gone back to bush, trimmed or otherwise. Yeah it hurts, and you get a few ingrown hairs, but it looks sexy and I feel great. Plus a little landing strip just adds a touch of womanliness so you don't feel like a 12-year-old. No harm in trying it if you want to, right?
Am I the only one who will say "I don't mind"?
I don't mind either, Tedel (not that my female opinion counts, I suppose) . I saw an Italian movie that briefly showed it "natural", and I thought (like a thick mane of hair on the head) it made her look like a beautiful, virile young woman. I just think it is gross when it peeks out the panties. :P
I definitely care. The idea of having a bush in my face while I'm trying to eat her out makes me not want to do it. If she had a bush I wouldn't do it. No way.
Women should have hair only on their heads.
My biggest fear is pulling a girl's panties down and coming face to face with a gigantic bush. So far I've been lucky. They've all been trimmed to some extent. As for men? The more hair the better. I'm growing an afro on my crotch.
I've had it trimmed, the landing strip, waxed and shaved til it's clean. Just keep it trimmed or landing strip. The whole bare thing is not for me. I feel like a little girl and the feeling is gross.
I do it for hygiene not just for a man. I think that's important too, do what you feel is comfortable.
As for men the less is better...keep it trimmed low for at least hygiene purposes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My girlfriend is terrified to trim things too short down there. But she does try and it's usually enough where it won't bother me when I'm going to town. She usually leaves a guard on the trimmers.
I use no guard. I've tried shaving before, but I work out in the heat and the lack of hair would end me up with irritated skin.
I trimmed mine once with a long pair of scissors. It was grand
But that doesn't answer lesas question. I would prefer finding something under control that isn't a fire hazard
As much as I like equality I don't like it when guys shave/wax their legs.Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
True, it's not necessarily about equality...I don't mind hair on a man's leg if he can grow some. My ex barely had body hair. I find some hair on a man's legs to be sexy. Here, we are talking about sexual intimacy and both women and men need to be neatly groomed down there.
I don't mind if a girls is waxed, shaven or have a landing strip. I personally would prefer shaven though. Although never had a girl with a bush I think as long as it isn't a jungle or more then 2-3cm I wouldn't mind. But the majority of girl's I've been with just shave.
Nor do I...but being that I'm getting into cycling, I'm contemplating it. Road rash sucks with hair, not fun at all cleaning it up, and it increases the risk of getting an infection.Quote:
Originally Posted by someonelse [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I like my hairy legs...but I'm torn between keeping it or shaving it. Oh well, I'll probably do something stupid and just shave it without thinking and end up regretting it after. Kind of like shaving my head last summer...lol.
I love my hairy legs in the summer time.., I can wear shorts.., and no mosquitoes can get through..
I feel sorry for my daughters.., they're going to have to shave or wax twice a day if they get my hairy genes.. :P
I don't know why, but I was thinking about this post this morning when I was walking, and it occurred to me that there is no hair actually growing on the vital parts. If you are getting hair in your mouth, you aren't in the right spot.Quote:
Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I like foreplay. I don't like rushing straight in. I like to kiss around that area before actually moving in... teasing... which doesn't do me any good if I'm looking at a flipping jungle.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
She's not getting pubes in her mouth if he has a decent-sized wiener, either.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cain [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Harold and Kumar 2- the bottomless party- the guy who looked like he had Osama Bin Laden's beard for pubes. That was you!Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Baaahahahahaaa! Lost in the jungle.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]