[Profile] Visiting people I comment on

Greetings

So basically, there is this girl who I am in love with, but she asked one of her friends if I talked about her yet = Strange ...

Then she said she doesn't feel the same way, and a week later she decided to cancel all contact for a while

But yesterday, I wrote a comment on a friend of mine her picture and guestbook, and she visited my friends profile instantly, to see what I wrote :S

Which is quite strange ... What do ya'all think ?

She does have feelings for some guy, but he is currently in a relationship and mostly ignoring her.

kind regards

Sounds like a girl I wouldn't tango with. Sounds very manipulative. Are you sure you love her? For how long? How old are you?

Sounds immature.

She is 16, I'm 17.

But ... I don't get it why she's acting like this ... She doesn't want contact anymore for a while, but she visits profiles to see what I wrote ...

Maybe she doesn't want to admit it, to herself and others because she is unsure due to her feelings for another guy, who isn't showing any intrests in her

She has been dumped alot by her ex-boyfriends because they fancied some1 else etc, and she has a very low self esteem etc

I repeat... immature. She's like typical high school girls.... trying to play stupid kid games.

You both are high school kids. Neither of you knows exactly what love is.

Quite immature indeed, but what do you think of the visiting stuff I comment on part ? :)

What does it matter? She's immature... find someone else.

Hades!! You were suppose to go for the kill, like we told you in your other thread!

I think you're making a big deal out of nothin.

But hey that's what you do at that age!

why don't you ask HER on a date instead of asking us for advice? what's the worse case scenario?? you get shut down and then you chase another girl.

raverboy

But she cancelled all contact for an unknown time

So I can't just ask her to go out on a date if she's basically ignoring me for who knows how long

But she does keep visiting stuff I comment on etc to see what I write :s

How did you find out her every move on the internet? Have you been stalking her as well? It sounds like YOU are the one who likes her...so why don't you ask her out?

Just ask her out and quit doing the same thing she's doing!
If she doesn't answer, then leave her alone... and not stalk her as well!

If all else fails, move on. Period.

A friend of mine told me she visited her profile, and that was a bit after I posted a comment ...

But if she says she 'doesn't have feelings for me' and wants to be leaved alone for a while

why is she doing things like that then ?

"But if she says she 'doesn't have feelings for me' and wants to be leaved alone for a while

why is she doing things like that then ?"

cuz she's 16 and it's what they do. ignore her and don't give her attention she'll come crawling to u. Start giving other girls attention. If you are in a grp together talk to everyone else ignore her. If she plays games u play em too, it's the only way.

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But if she says she 'doesn't have feelings for me' and wants to be leaved alone for a while

why is she doing things like that then ?

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Like I've said two other times... because she's immature.

Well, can you please help me with some other feedback instead of immature ? I know it is a bit immature, but I'd like to know what she's trying to say, except that she is 'being immature'

kind regards

She's trying to say "don't date me because I'm immature."

What does it matter what she's trying to say? Why do you want to date someone that is immature and plays stupid games?

I'm sure she doesn't mean it that way, because she knows how it's like being fooled etc.

But I don't now how many times she did that, who knows maybe it happened once, we don't know for sure.

I still want it to work out, hence why I ask if you can tell anything else instead of immaturity, as I won't give up on he for that :)

She's trying, in her own way, to play hard to get.
She's 16, she's not experienced when it comes to handling intimate relationships.

Just give her your attention, ask her to hang out/out, etc. If she seems totally put off, then just leave her alone. She seems interested in some way by the information you gave us.

But, she said she wants to be left alone for a while, she said that quite a while ago

She also said she didn't have feelings for me, prior her decision of not having contact for a while

But, she is doing stuff like this now :s

If she said she doesn't have feelings for you then she doesn't have feelings for you. Move on.

But, why does she do stuff like this than ?

Dude, you're going to realize that NO ONE understands women. To try and figure out why they are doing something is stupid. I don't understand why this bothers you so much. Maybe she's making sure you're not talking about her because she gets sick to her stomach every time she looks at you.

It doesn't matter. She said she doesn't want to be with you so move on.