Hitting on girls

Well I believe there's a way to hit on girls before a relationship starts:

My friend is very nice..... and you know what? You too!

This kind of compliment is used before a relationship starts.

After the relationship starts these ones can be used:

Oh how my arms are needing to hold you tight, my hands long to run up and down your body and my heart in need of your love!

I love you so much baby! Everyday I love you a little bit more. I can't wait to have another weekend like that with you agian. I hope really soon!






I wanna learn more of them (the two kinds) but I don't know how.

Can you guys give me some help??

The greater your vocabulary, the clearer your expression.

Englishmen can use the phrase 'You, like me', which means 'you are like me', but sounds 'you like me', a psychological trick, but probably an unworking cliche already.

Ooh, Aegis! Talk smart to me! :D

Lost, I recommend AGAINST using the lines you have listed ... :surprised

Oh... what kind of dating blogs are you reading, huh?
You want pickup lines? Check the Pickupedia.

My favourites:

1. I wonder if besides pretty you are single.
2. What about going to drink until you find me handsome?
3. I know more than one has told you you might be the most beautiful girl here tonight. I am usually more honest than that. Would you like a drink and chat?

lol, I feel like the last one would knock her over in consternation.

You know, those insulting lines may work on some women, but I sure as hell wouldn't want to get into a relationship with those crazies.

When I hit on girls I prefer to use a club...sometimes a bat is ok too.

I can't see the possibility of pickup lines working... *shakes head*

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Originally Posted by anachronistic [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I can't see the possibility of pickup lines working... *shakes head*

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I second that.

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Originally Posted by Cain [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You know, those insulting lines may work on some women, but I sure as hell wouldn't want to get into a relationship with those crazies.

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What can I say? I agree to certain point. ;)

The point is that there is no need to use pick-up lines for anything but for a one-night-stand. If you want a serious relationship, then, in my opinion, you need to develop a friendship first and a relationship later.

My most long-lasting relationships didn't start after a week. I managed to get to know her as friends at least for a couple of months.

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Originally Posted by Tedel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

1. I wonder if besides pretty you are single.
2. What about going to drink until you find me handsome?

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I find these turn downs.

Sure there's a way to manipulate people with words, but you don't get women solely through them. If a girl doesn't dig on you, you can tell her whatever and she still won't be with you, and if she finds you sexy, you can tell her even something stupid. Forget about the phrases, be natural and honest. Players are too much a spread kind that most women built up a defensive system, just like the bugs from some sprays.

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Originally Posted by Citycat [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I find these turn downs.

Sure there's a way to manipulate people with words, but you don't get women solely through them. If a girl doesn't dig on you, you can tell her whatever and she still won't be with you, and if she finds you sexy, you can tell her even something stupid. Forget about the phrases, be natural and honest. Players are too much a spread kind that most women built up a defensive system, just like the bugs from some sprays.

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I'd agree but there is a situation when you both are looking just for sex

"I wonder if besides pretty you are single" (I want to do you)

*giggles* "I might be" (sure lets go)

Best pickup line is an intense, thought provoking and interesting conversation that goes for no less than two hours

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Originally Posted by littlewing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'd agree but there is a situation when you both are looking just for sex

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In that case, you don't need any words, just good observation skill. When a girl wants just sex, she's gonna put some move, from trying to make an eye contact via licking her lips, dancing provocatively to behaving vulgarly. You can tell which girl is just after it by the way she's dressed and the way she's behaving.

If a man is just after sex then one of the best lines would be:
"Hi! I'm (name). Can we go somewhere dark? Just the two of us."

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Originally Posted by littlewing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

"I wonder if besides pretty you are single" (I want to do you)

*giggles* "I might be" (sure lets go)

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The line if full of language ambiguity.
1) Why would a girl think you want to do her? She'd probably think you're either lame and unoriginal or want her not to be single anymore, but be paired up with you.
2) And what if she is NOT single, but still wants to shag you? ;)

I'm still gonna stick to my 1st post and conclude that there are no perfect pick up lines, and the best "line" is just what Mishanya typed "an intense, thought provoking and interesting conversation that goes for no less than two hours"

Considering that people know pretty much instantly if they are attracted to you or not, if it takes two hours to get a woman to agree to a date, I'd say your skills need polishing.

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Originally Posted by shh! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Considering that people know pretty much instantly if they are attracted to you or not.

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The End. This is pretty much the answer to it all.

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Originally Posted by shh! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Considering that people know pretty much instantly if they are attracted to you or not, if it takes two hours to get a woman to agree to a date, I'd say your skills need polishing.

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Who said it takes two hours to get a woman to agree to a date? If you are having an intense, thought provoking and interesting conversation that goes for no less than two hours it's already a date.

I kind of doubt a woman would see it that way, but whatever...

In general, pick-up lines suck.

haha unless you mess up the pickup line and make yourself stupid. In those cases you just get laughed at. That was basicly what happened to me i think O.o I tried this one:

I was typing with her on msn, and wanted to meet her after school the following day. She had a pretty cute avatar on her msn, so i though, why not use that ? She is so damn cute herself, I knew, since we are in the same class, so maybe I could use the avatar to give her a compliment. So i wrote:
"That avatar is cute." But afterwards, i lost courage to write more, and she pretty much instantly realized what i had wanted to write =_= god that was embarasing. Pretty much the whole conversation was, and the following day were even worse >.<;; although it was kinda funny, and hey, even 2 years after we are still together, and I still love her just as much as I did back then ^^ So I am proof a pickup line CAN work lol >.<;; Though I doubt that would get you laid O.o

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Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Who said it takes two hours to get a woman to agree to a date? If you are having an intense, thought provoking and interesting conversation that goes for no less than two hours it's already a date.

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It's only a date in my mind, if you see each other in person alone, away from your friends and really get to know and enjoy each others company.

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The End. This is pretty much the answer to it all.

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+1 Along with the good old:

"Me Tarzan, You Jane... want f-uck?"

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Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Who said it takes two hours to get a woman to agree to a date? If you are having an intense, thought provoking and interesting conversation that goes for no less than two hours it's already a date.

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Really? Are you going to date me then, if we connect up in Sydney?? ;)

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Really? Are you going to date me then, if we connect up in Sydney?? ;)

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Unfortunately it only work when both are single. Otherwise I get a guilt complex.

Well ok some pick up lines make people sound like they only want sex.
Let's say: what kind of things you tell her to make her like you???
What kind of things yo do to make her feel happy and special?

I wanna be able to say things that she'll like and make her say "Thank you"

Thanks man. You're kool

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Originally Posted by Tedel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The point is that there is no need to use pick-up lines for anything but for a one-night-stand. If you want a serious relationship, then, in my opinion, you need to develop a friendship first and a relationship later.

My most long-lasting relationships didn't start after a week. I managed to get to know her as friends at least for a couple of months.

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Originally Posted by Citycat [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

In that case, you don't need any words, just good observation skill. When a girl wants just sex, she's gonna put some move, from trying to make an eye contact via licking her lips, dancing provocatively to behaving vulgarly. You can tell which girl is just after it by the way she's dressed and the way she's behaving.

If a man is just after sex then one of the best lines would be:
"Hi! I'm (name). Can we go somewhere dark? Just the two of us."



The line if full of language ambiguity.
1) Why would a girl think you want to do her? She'd probably think you're either lame and unoriginal or want her not to be single anymore, but be paired up with you.
2) And what if she is NOT single, but still wants to shag you? ;)

I'm still gonna stick to my 1st post and conclude that there are no perfect pick up lines, and the best "line" is just what Mishanya typed "an intense, thought provoking and interesting conversation that goes for no less than two hours"

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How about this... honesty

"Hi, I am a single man and I want to F*ck you!" (she is lovely)

"What?!? Go to hell you crazy moron!!!!!!!" (Idiot! should have said "I wonder if besides pretty you are single" or something, I want to f*ck too)

Don't try "lines" Learn to say the right thing at the right time to the right person...that's how it works.

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Originally Posted by littlewing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How about this... honesty

"Hi, I am a single man and I want to F*ck you!" (she is lovely)

"What?!? Go to hell you crazy moron!!!!!!!" (Idiot! should have said "I wonder if besides pretty you are single" or something, I want to f*ck too)

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A one in ten chance this actually works in most bar settings...assuming the goal is just to get laid.

That's very very true! Thank for opening my eyes!

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Originally Posted by Citycat [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I find these turn downs.

Sure there's a way to manipulate people with words, but you don't get women solely through them. If a girl doesn't dig on you, you can tell her whatever and she still won't be with you, and if she finds you sexy, you can tell her even something stupid. Forget about the phrases, be natural and honest. Players are too much a spread kind that most women built up a defensive system, just like the bugs from some sprays.

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Usually if I'm interested in a girl at a bar I bet her five bucks she can't touch her elbows behind her back. And then I stare at her titties while she tries.

I think what I need is how to compliment her ;] Not pick up lines.. Or yes! However compliments really work and make her say: awwwwwww thanks!!!!!!! That's what I need! LOL I'm so elated now! my skills will be polished!

Please people.. COMPLIMENTS!

I don't suggest complimenting strangers with any line you hear on the internet. In order for a girl over 15 years old to be genuinely touched by a compliment, it needs to be about something other than her appearance, or we know it is just a ploy to get in our pants.

I think that's the big problem: Almost all the girls think every guy wants to get in their pants.... I actually just look for someone very special. I thought I found that person, but she'll be gone away from Toronto....

By the way, she's not an stranger coz she knows me. It won't work coz she's going away to study music. I didn't know she was gonna go away..... It sucks!!!!

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Originally Posted by shh! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't suggest complimenting strangers with any line you hear on the internet. In order for a girl over 15 years old to be genuinely touched by a compliment, it needs to be about something other than her appearance, or we know it is just a ploy to get in our pants.

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Originally Posted by Lostalien [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think that's the big problem: Almost all the girls think every guy wants to get in their pants....

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So why not kill off that irrational fear by not trying to get into their pants?

Just have a fun conversation without any expectations.

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Originally Posted by Lostalien [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think that's the big problem: Almost all the girls think every guy wants to get in their pants....

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Not ALL the guys.. just the ones who come over and talk to them.