im moving, she is freaking out
wanted to get others perspective on this. i met my g/f and we've been dating for 11 months. I have a good bond with her and her four children. I recently accepted a job offer in another state California (30+ hours away). We agreed that I would go and that she and the kids would come in 4-6 months but lately she has been freaking out on me. Its like she is extremely worried that I am going to go and forget about her. My thinking is that 4-6 months will allow us to save more and not be so pinched when she comes and is job searching. My new job pays a nice salary but the cost of living in the new area is 3X higher than where we live now. What can I do to help her see my view on this and how can i get her to not think im going to meet someone else and forget her?