k.. everyone has that one dating move that seals the deal...
BUT! have you had a deal breaker before? What was it .. and what are your best ways of redeeming yourself.
:nerd: ... Class .. begin...
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k.. everyone has that one dating move that seals the deal...
BUT! have you had a deal breaker before? What was it .. and what are your best ways of redeeming yourself.
:nerd: ... Class .. begin...
although Im not good at making moves on a man...to get their attention...I think I need this class to help me-"seal the dea;" or at least get him interested...
hmmm...Ms. Jane how the hell do I do that???? What do I do? What do I say?
Once in the bedroom Im fine-its just PRE-part that makes oozy... : :smug:
hhmmm..
well.. pick up line for women huh... Dont really need them ... I would use your best .. batting eyelashes and say something like... " .. you know.. I love your shirt .. but .. it would look better on my floor... " ;)
lol
I dont know
I mean I think when i date someone if they show up in apinto.. I may have to say no thanks lol
On men, any move a woman makes will seal the deal, even if its just looking him in the eyes
Women on the other hand, I think are much more complicated so I don't know how to "seal the deal" with them
LMFAO!!!
I dont use pick up lines...not for me-to fake. I need something original...that shows me...hmmm...
well if he shows up in a pick up truck jacked up with cages in the back-Im gone too
deal sealer... the best way to say what you want to say but not have it be a line?
is that what you mean?
Wait? ANY move a woman makes?
Well what moves seal the deal for you Unloved?
sure it will
Yea what seals the deal? I dont do pick up lines...how do I get a man to be interested in me? To get him to come home with me???
i will need a little more of course, ya kno, to begin with, but to finally put a seal to the deal, just about anything works
Show him that you careQuote:
Originally Posted by squirrley
geezuz give examples here!!!
What does it for you? What does the female say or do for you????
Where the hell is everyone????
yeah... how is hte best way to show you care in your opinion.. ?
I have no idea. I've never 'sealed a deal'. I mean c'mon now. I've only dated like 5 women in my life. And one of those wasa wierd blind date matchup type thing ...
(I was matched up with a "debutant" for our college ball. So there were about 150 of us cadets in uniform and we were in a single file line and they bussed in about 150 girls from neighboring colleges and we just walked up the bus door and took the first girl that came off the bus. lol. Quite a funny site to see! 150 cadets filing through extending their arms to whoever gets off the bus!)
Alexi
Usually it is the guy that supplies the pick up line, or the deal-sealer, but just say that you love him and if you're not ready for that, then maybe he isnt the right guyQuote:
Originally Posted by squirrley
I hope you're not talking about saying you love the guy on the first date. Cause that'd freak me out to no end!Quote:
Originally Posted by unloved4now
Well, usually thats why you go out with someone (or the reason you should)Quote:
Originally Posted by sfalexi
You're confusing me a bit. You're saying that the reason you date someone is to see if you love the person. Well, true. But you would seroiusly tell them you love them on a first date?
oh oh wait this isnt what I thought???????
I couldnt tell someone that I loved them to get them home with me...I just want to get talking first and then maybe later on IF invloved...but I meant what seals the deal to get their attention???????/
I could NEVER tell someone I love them to get their attention...
BREAK TIME!
So what are we talking about here? "Seal the deal" as in to get a date? "Seal the deal" as in to have sex? There's different 'deals' that need sealing! Which one you guys feel like concentrating on today?
What I mean by seal the deal is letting someone know that you are definately doing this again (whatever it is you might have done) But that is just my thought, so I think that Jane should clear this up
I think she meant in to seal the deal in getting a date....
OK. That makes it more specific. Now it's time for me to sit back and learn how to do this. . .
I second that one!!! But Ms. Jane took off down the hall for a little while-she'll be back later...
maybe the whole taking care of yourself from someone elses thread got her going... :goofy:
ok.. what I meant was...
Your ON THE DATE.. what seals the deal for another.. like your on a first date... AND
what would keep you from doing it again?
hope that helps.. ;)
well it's really hard to say that will actually seal the deal because relationships can change with the blink of an eye. however i will truly admit this. you can tell when a relationship is going good when you take things to the next level. for example, when she gives you her number, your first date, your first kiss, first time you hold hands. it's all the warm things that make you feel good that tells you the relationship is off to a great start. raverboy
Raverboy-you hit it right on the nail buddy!!!!
For me, if you want to seal a second date, it's actually pretty simple. You have make sure to end it on a high note. Don't go to a diner and talk for hours and hours and then run out of stuff to talk about. Have jokes, and leave your date laughing. Then when they think about you they'll remember how FUNNY you were and how good of a time they were having when you left and won't be able to WAIT to continue those good times.
Alexi
Alexi .. you and Illusional are on the right track! Dating is an art form for sure. I think one of the biggest things to remember is not to rush into it. Dates are supposed to be fun ... if there not... well... I guess that says it all. :)
Well some men DONT get it-one guy I was set up with-damn boy wouldnt shut up!
(I WAS going to pay for my dinner) but the entire hour and half he spent telling me his life ****ing story from birth to present-I almost fell asleep in my shrimp. Needless to say when he offered to pay for my dinner-HELL YA after making me listen to that shit...it wouldve been fine if he was actually interesting-but he was the dullest crayon in the box...
I agree with Alexi you shouldnt tell EVERYTHING on the first date-you leave with a bad taste in your mouth...and the best part was-he emailed me to tell what a great time he had-WTF??? This guy had no balls.
It really depends on a guy you're trying to woo. Actually I never really have to do much, and I prefer to be naturally sexy and smart of course. It usually happens so that the guy is the one trying to flirt. However if I see I a guy I (like a classmate but not a total stranger) would just come up to him or sit at his table and ask something. Trick is DON'T try to talk about classes, homework, or anything that has to do with whatever activity you're both involved in - first of all that's SO tacky, secondly, an insecure guy might think you're not really interested in him, but in whatever you're asking him about. Just come up to him, smile, and say something innocent and friendly like "hey there, I've noticed you around" and then add something like "you've great ---" or "you look like ---" or just something nice, just don't be too pushy. And finally don't spend too much time with him once you've managed to come up to him. Ask a few questions, giggle a little bit and leave as quickly and confidently as you came up to him. Make sure you're the first one who walks away (unless you're both very interested, obviously). Just don't make up stupid and obvious excuses for starting a conversation, be honest, he'll appreciate that.
As to the art of seduction. Well, that's pretty easy, just make sure you're relaxed and in a good mood (another attractive quality). Sit up straight cuving your back so that he can take a glimpse of those sexy dimples above your butt (but not the butt crack! gross), look straight into his eyes with a smile on your face, caress your legs a little bit...oh you know it all.
Some major DON'Ts:
- DON'T boast about all the guys that are supposedly in love with you and how popular and pretty you are in general (Desperate Woman Syndrome, also Attention Whore)
- DON'T say bad things about people. You want to leave a pleasant impression on him, right? If you constantly bitch he might not want to hang out with you next time he's got spare time, instead he'll call that one girl who is always nice and friendly.
- Don't wear too much lipstick or foundation (or powder - NO to powder!). He wants to see a naturally beautiful girl, so that he won't be sweating about waking up with you one day and seeing your face without make-up.
- Don't wear trashy jewelry or outfits. NO plastic earrings or trashy acsessories in neon colors! Don't wear too much jewelry at all times (like rings on top of one another). Some guys don't even like jewelry that's not pure silver (like hoop earrings).
- DON'T wear shoes with really thick heels, or worse off chunks!
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Very smooth! Ladies that one sounds like it should work pretty well. I know I'd probably fall for it! (wanting to know and talk more but not getting the chance to)Quote:
And finally don't spend too much time with him once you've managed to come up to him. Ask a few questions, giggle a little bit and leave as quickly and confidently as you came up to him.
Plus the added bonus that if it's a very special night out (once you've started dating) you put on just a tad more makeup and completely blow his mind when he sees you really done up for the first time. I love a girl that has a natural beauty, but then can really sock it to you when she gets the urge to do so.Quote:
Don't wear too much lipstick or foundation (or powder - NO to powder!). He wants to see a naturally beautiful girl, so that he won't be sweating about waking up with you one day and seeing your face without make-up.
One thing that I always liked was when they put their elbows on the table and rest their chin in their hands smiling. Don't know why but that always got me (maybe it's caused it made the cleavage better by slightly squeezing those mammory glands together? ....)Quote:
As to the art of seduction. Well, that's pretty easy, just make sure you're relaxed and in a good mood (another attractive quality). Sit up straight cuving your back so that he can take a glimpse of those sexy dimples above your butt (but not the butt crack! gross), look straight into his eyes with a smile on your face, caress your legs a little bit...oh you know it all.
Alexi
I think if a woman is really attracted to a guy she knows what to do...plain and simple.
Of course there are those who dont have a single clue...such as me in certain situations...but for the most part I am who I am and I dont have to put out some damn show...I find it easier to be myself than I dont have to constantly put on a charade and remember to be somebody else...
Sheesh Killer...that's a lot of work to woo a guy.
I've got an easier tip for anyone who wants to woo me.
Show up.
Lol. It's not work... it's more like fun. Being a woman is very exciting.
I second that one Killa!!!!
I totally agree with you KillerBabe :lol:
hmmmm no wonder women are interesting
We're always interestin'.. LoL.. :lol:
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