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I recently dated this man that like to bite (suck hard) during lovemaking. My thigh is all brusied up. He started kissing my neck, which felt all so nice in the beginning, but by the time he got to my nipple, he bit it. I screamed and guided him to kiss/suck gently. But when he approached my sensitive part, I literally jump at the fear of him biting me. I heard some men/women get off on this.
You might try talking to him about it. Not in an accusing way or anything, just casually bring it up and mention that you're not into the biting. Maybe combine that with saying how nice it is when he kisses or licks you "gently". ;)
Whoa.....I'd be pissed if someone bit my nipple. I'm down with some light biting here and there, but not on the sensitive areas.
You should've bit him in the balls, and see how he liked THAT.
LOL scary scary, althought I bite sometimes (nothing down there)
He likes rough sex. Nothing is wrong with that. You both are just two different types of people when it comes to sex. I personally like getting my nipples sucked hard. You call it bruises but its called hickeys. He sounds like the type to throw you around and make you call him names. I actually like that kinda stuff, but only for temporary relationships, or once in a while in a long term relationship.
Biting can be sexy if done right. Not on the boob though.
What I don't like are hickeys. They remind me too much of high school, where they guys were always trying to "mark" the girls.
I strongly dislike hickeys for that same "marking" reason. It's their way of saying "I had my share of her and there's my proof". Plus, they're ugly :DQuote:
Originally Posted by starbuck [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sounds hot to me! If my boy bit my nipple hard he'd have a stern talking to though... Bite me anywhere, just not my super sensitive bits!
But seriously, if you don't like it just tell him. He shouldn't be offended, you just like different things. Positive reinforcement is a really good idea too, don't just tell him what you dislike, make a point of telling him lots of stuff you really like that he does to you.
eeek....biting *shudders* never experienced it, but when your not doing anything sexual talk to him about it!! its the best you can do!
bite his penis and he'll think differently of biters.
raverboy
My ex was into biting. She really liked it when I bit...pretty hard too. I wouldn't let her bite me as hard as she wanted me to bite her. Wasn't my thing, but whatever, she got off on it. She did bite me once down there pretty hard...not cool at all and I made sure she knew not to do it again. lol.
You know its different for everyone. When my husband bites it hurts a bit but makes me want to bite him more....;)
i had an ex that was into biting. she wanted me to bite her nipples and i did. however, it's can lead to being a bad habit because i love to drink and when i do, i can get out of hand with anything.
raverboy
Try to let him know how it feels, bite back when he bites... It will learn him that pain can also be a turn off (or maybe a turn on for him)... Or just explain him why you don't want to have rough sexs...
my ex loved biting and the hair pulling and all that stuff. well most of the time, sometimes she was in a more tame/softer mood.
i dont mind when a girl bites me neck. but when a girl bites my nipples it kinda feels good, but also somewhat hurts cuz its so sensitive lol
I my bf do that to me also but gently, hes pulling and biting it gently. Unlike your guy, that really hurts.
If i were in your situation, I'll also bite his dick. Doing something in return with biting you.
Here's a question for you guys.
What does everyone think about biting? Be honest.
Does a light nibble here and there turn you on? Or a hard bite? Or it doesn't do anything for you?
I personally like a light nibble anywhere.
Ouch! he bites he bites...he bites ..he bites...he bites....ouch he bites. [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
or wait...was it she bangs? whatever...same gay shit.
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Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yep, I like a little light nibbling. A nice bite to the neck or shoulder is kinda hot too. It makes me feel like he's hungry for me. Not literally of course.
I personally like her to slide it into a bun, cover it with ketchup, mustard, whatever condiments she likes, and gnaw on it.Quote:
Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hot diggity dog!
I know a girl who wanted me to be so rough on her, it's just a step down from rape, so yea some girls really love that.
I need to find a girl like thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Zatguy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
^^^^^^^^^^ you and me both, DM.
Many girls may be like that but they don't verbalize it. The guy can't ask, he just do.
And spitting? Do many girls like to be spat on but don't want to ask? :detective: Should I just go ahead and do it?
I'm personally into the whole biting thing. I love it. I've been bitten a few times where it was so hard to touch it the next day was quite painful but at the time it was amazing. I don't actually have my nipples played with much. I'm all into the whole rough sex thing. I love to take control and all that. My ex can be totally into it some times and then other times she'll be against it and I'll scare her with it.
He sounds like a bit of a selfish lover, actually. He probably enjoys rough sex himself, so he does what HE likes to his partner. Instead of telling you to be rough to him & him being more gentle to you.
I think this kind of confused communication is common. Just explain to him that being a sensitive lover means giving your partner what THEY want, and vice-versa. Should clear up the issue.
Um, ya. And this is why she is your 'ex', no doubt. See my previous post. :PQuote:
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