Meeting a girl and Very nervous HELP!

Hey I'm Meeting this girl for the very first time and I'm really nervous

we've been talking on the phone for awhile now and she seems really cool and iv seen her once in person ages ago.

But I'm really nervous and worried of what she might think of me shes seen me a couple of time in photos she said i was good looking but i was worried about my height cos I'm not very tall but i'm little below average i just thought ill ask u girls a question

Does height matter to you girls at all or a little or not at all? and if yes how much?

please gimme feedback don't have long left lol

Tank you

Did she show herself to you? Gave her picture?

You said you have seen her, but ages ago. How much is ages?

When going to a blind date, always bring binoculars. Experience.

Some women are obsessed with height, it's true.

Is she taller than you? Probably the best thing, the smartest thing, would be to mention it to her somehow before you meet.

women pick up on a guy being nervous. I used to get nervous like you but then I realized it was a bad thing because then you were so wound up and uptight about being perfect that you never got to show your own self. Just relax, be yourself. Cause by the sound of it she likes you for who you are, not your height.

And I know it's easier said than done, but it helps.

This is off topic, but are you a blink 182 fan? I couldn't help but notice your username.

Haven't you mentioned her about your height?
You should tell her so that she won't expect too much from you.

Try to tell her about your height and see her reaction.

For me, I preferred to like a taller guy, 5'7.

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Originally Posted by agatha [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Haven't you mentioned her about your height?
You should tell her so that she won't expect too much from you.

Try to tell her about your height and see her reaction.

For me, I preferred to like a taller guy, 5'7.

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5'7" is tall? And here I am 5'8" and thought I was short.

height, size and age doesn't matter if you love somebody.
Men are much taller than women, dont worry.

Just bear in mind, when couples are making love they are of the same height in bed.hihihi...

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Originally Posted by agatha [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Haven't you mentioned her about your height?
You should tell her so that she won't expect too much from you.

Try to tell her about your height and see her reaction.

For me, I preferred to like a taller guy, 5'7.

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I told her i wasn't tall and i was kinda short

But she said she doesn't mind she likes me for my personality

But that still doesn't help the fact I'm nervous as hell lol

Any more advice?

I know everyone says oh just be yourself but that's what I'm scared of "being myself" i don't know how to be myself around a girl i like.

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If you told her you aren't tall and she said she's cool with it you need to drop it.

If you don't you're just going to convince her that your height actually is unappealing.

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Originally Posted by TheGreek [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

5'7" is tall? And here I am 5'8" and thought I was short.

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I'm 5'9", and I feel like I'm short too sometimes.

5'7 is tall because its taller than agatha, I would think. Yes, women love taller men(I surely do), I'm 5'6 and any guy my height or taller(mainly taller) is fine with me.

As long as your penor is not below average, you'll be fine ;)

Well, I don't think you have something to be concerned about. She's there for you, not for your height... and taking into account that many women are there not for you but for your money, car, brains and the like, consider yourself blessed.

Thanks "tedal" thats really some good advice and thanks to everyone els for your help. I got some update.

We meet 4 days ago and she didn't really mind about how tall or short i am it started out very awkward and kinda weird we both didn't say much.

We were both at the movies and 30 mins into it her hand on was resting on the arm rest thing and so was mine after a little while her hand was close to mine so i just went for it and held her hand to my surprise she did the same thing in the same time she leaned over and laid on my shoulder while holding hands

she looked up at me and then kissed me on the cheek it was really sweet and i kissed her right back

So its been 4 days since i have seen her and i really miss her we still talk on the phone a lot

Waiting till we can both meet again

Good to hear. Hope everything works out for you!

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Originally Posted by Kromat [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm 5'9", and I feel like I'm short too sometimes.

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I'm 5'9" also and I feel short sometimes as well.

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Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm 5'9" also and I feel short sometimes as well.

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yeah its a sucky feeling