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Me and my girlfriend just had halfway sex.
We were both incredibly horny, but didn't want to be "finished" for the day, so we f*cked until she had to go and that was that. Nobody came, and yet we were both strangely satisfied.
And now we can do it again tonight.
w00t.
Basically, it was a teaser for what was going down later? I can dig that.
If I'd been having sex and neither of us came, it would suck, unless I knew we were doing it again later.
Oh hell yeah.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
We're stopping by the Hollywood Hustler sex shop on Bourbon later to pick up some toys and oils.
EDIT: Heh, I can still see your posts Boobaa.
I want halfway sex now.
Eh? ... if you finished than and hours later came you wouldn't be able to go again? I can go like 3 times a day and I consider my libido shit compared to what it used to be. The next time I would actually last longer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I wouldn't care if HE wanted to go half way, but I'd rather have full sex more than once that day.
That would definitely be my preference as well.
i'm confused i thought she was on her monthly drought.....so you went for it....
btw what it is that is so appealing about butt sex...is it because it's a smaller hole....is it a smaller hole?
I also had halfway sex today. Neither of us finished but it as still amazing, it was also makeup sex which added to how great it was. My boyfriend wants to have butt sex but I refuse! I'm scared. I've heard a lot of horror stories.
nah, buttsex is safe, just a red sock nothing more.
A friend of mine shayt all over her ex while they were having anal for the first time.
Yeah, I could go multiple times a day, and I'd probably last longer every time, but my interest in sex usually diminishes after the first go.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Plus, sex is more readily available for me, so I don't have to squeeze in 3 in a single day.
Eco: She's only on her period for about week...
Actually, I think I'm in my cave today, so I have no more interest in sex right now.
We didn't even go to that store.
In fact, we were downtown at a festival and she said she'd "need a daiquiri if we were going to go to that store", that really killed it for me there.
So why couldn't you have full sex then?
Then another go about instead of going to get sex toys?
Then another when you would have done it when you got the sex toys?
Then another just for kicks?
Hey Frasbee, do you ever get the feeling she isnt really into pleasing you? Like its more about her and her wants? From your previous posts and this thread I'm beginning to wonder if she cares about pleasing you. Or am I missing the parts where she puts in alot to satisfy you?
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I coulda came anytime I wanted.
I didn't climax because I wanted to be a hornball for the rest of the day and have crazy sex tonight, but turn of events left me in my cave, so I'd rather do my own thing right now.
Why are you guys turning this into something it's not?
That's disgusting. I've never heard of anyone doing that before.Quote:
Originally Posted by xO Lanna [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've had anal a bunch of times, it's actually quite enjoyable once you get used to it.
The entry may be smaller or tighter in a woman that lacks a strong vaginal tone. The other part of the rectum is wider. EDIT: it probably depends on the woman.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That depends on what safe means to you. No chance of pregnancy is the only safe thing I can think of now. It has more negative issues than positive.Quote:
Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think she is into pleasing him. I think it was Frasbee who posted the maintenence sex.?. Ladie, she is not obligated to give her body any and every time. Maybe the sex drive is a little different but I don't see any issue really but I haven't seen every thread so maybe I am missing something.Quote:
Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Did you not get blue balls?
I like it because it sort of gives you "power" over the woman. It's a cultural thing. And the higher friction can make it better.Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I recommend wearing a condom though, otherwise the penis will need some heavy cleaning.
Yeah? How so? Because I have a hard time understanding how using your penis basically to scratch and itch in her rectum gives you power.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And how is your imagined power any greater than if you stuck it in her vagina?
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Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I want to know how it is a cultural thing?
Shh! They only think it gives them power because they have watched some porno where a woman is dominated and degraded while having anal.
Ahahaha! This is the funniest thing I've read on here in a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Arrow, you idiot, its not any different from doing it doggie-style to someone, unless you are raping her. In which case you have a whole set of other issues you haven't yet mentioned.
Now, if by power you meant 'convincing' someone to have anal who doesn't really want to, well, you still have issues.
I'm not really trying to beat on you for your post, I encourage your honesty, but you should think a bit more about why you had these thoughts in the first place. :detective
Told you he's just using you as a sex toy. Don't do anal w/this chode. You won't be together in a year & you'll regret it.Quote:
Originally Posted by xO Lanna [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i don't think there are necessarily any underlining issues there with arrow, i think all young guys think 'everything' is about power, especially if they have none (i.e control of their own lives)
arrow has self-esteem issues as we all know on LF. but that is something he is working on and hopefully will grow out of once he moves out of home and succeeds in making some new friends. i would imagine you scared him off/tapped into that insecurity by suggesting there is something deeply wrong otherwise.
K. Thanks Dr. Eco.
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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you're welcome
Wow I didn't think I'd face replies this harsh!!! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Of course it's cultural. Anal sex has always been viewed as just plain wrong because it's something that is done for pleasure only. If a man manages to convince his companion to let him **** her in the butt, he had her in a complete way, broke all her resistances. Quite honestly, for a man there's not much difference between penetrating a vagina and an anus other than more friction, but it does excite more to claim that you ****ed her ass because it's "different" and something that is "hard to achieve" with normal women.
If it wasn't like that, I guarantee you'd see many more men inserting buttplugs into their anus to stimulate their prostates during intercourse. They don't do so because they feel degraded due to fear of homosexuality, and straight men, deep down, consider homosexuality a "weakness". They see being penetrated in the ass as bowing down.
If there weren't any taboos anal sex would be just another efficient way to reach orgasm and probably everyone would be bisexual.
Yeah, what about the blue balls?Quote:
Originally Posted by TheGreek [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I haven't gotten blueballs since our pre-sex relationship.
So yeah we f*cked some, and I almost came a few times, but my balls were just fine afterward.
And I think that if you guys like that b/c it feels good, then that's exactly what you should do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
In any case, your last response was better, but didn't answer my point about why its a "power" issue to YOU. :detective
I mean, you could just view a gal that won't at least *try* anal as someone who is very straightlaced & unwilling to experiment w/her body. If it hurts or just doesn't suit, then one just doesn't do it again.
I agree, there is a societal taboo against it. But there's also one for sex in general yet we still do it. Shrug.
I answered it indirectly because I spoke about men in general and I'm a man. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And I was speaking IN GENERAL. There are indeed many girls who won't do it because they've done it before and it wasn't a pleasant experience (even prostitutes). But most don't even try.
Anal is more of a fetish to me really. In fact I'm not comfortable with the idea of having anal sex with a girl I truly love, since I'm a bit idealistic about love and anal doesn't seem a very romantic thing to do...
I'm really sorry that I offended you in a way (well I made you call me an idiot so it must've had a great effect on you). Next time I'll watch my mouth. ;)
i know what you mean. i kinda feel that way about blow jobs. i have to really trust somebody to do that because, to me, it's a vulnerable situation. i think i feel the same about anal. i think it was how i was raised.
That's how my friend felt about blowjobs. He said it seemed "dirty" and perverted, or somethin'. That was before he ever had a girlfriend. His mind changed soon after his first girlfriend, who had to persuade him to let her give him a blowjob.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Have you ever had a girlfriend? If yes, then did you ever have sex with her?
You're idealistic about love because you probably haven't had much of it, if any.
Like the guys who say they love a girl so much they aren't even interested in having sex with them? Please.
REALITY CHECK: Even if that were true, how long do you think that kind of chaste relationship would last, hm?
Unless you are talking about Ancient Greece then I don't understand.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No girlfriend for me...Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you women are kidding yourselves if you think anal sex isn't about power. The reason it's such a turn on for some men because it represents complete submission of the female. It negates female pleasure, in fact causes her pain, in favour of the male's wishes.
I mean I'm talking from the male point of view, you women can think what you like. Also, I'd like to add that anal sex holds no appeal for me at all.
I've heard that anal can be pleasurable for women. Supposedly the nerve endings in the vaginal wall are actually closer to the anus or something. I don't know. I've never done anal.
I'd like to try it simply because it's such a dirty taboo. But not if she wouldn't enjoy it and certainly not for the sake of some sick power trip. I'd want us both to feel naughty.
Do you have really painful poops?Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]