I'm drunk now

I just kissed a guy at a party, I know he has liked me for a long time. I always dismissed him, he’s 26, I’m 32, same age as my ex, but I think I like him. I’m not sure whether it was a good idea. he’s nice tho. I think I did the right thing for me. He obviously wanted more but I enjoyed the kiss. He has tried it on for years but I always dismissed him. He just came back from travelling the world, he called me while he was away coz I told him before he left about not taking any drugs and apparently he heeded me weirdly and called me to tell me that I saved his life (I still don’t really kno necessarily how) but his friends got very sick or something, I dunno the full story but apparently my advice was in the back of his mind and he thinks I saved his life. Anyway I felt good tonight, it was my first kiss since my ex and I have to say yipeeeeeeee, I’m drunk and I’m going to bed now, but there ya go, there’s my news :)

I definitely thought I was going to read that you kissed another woman!

Lol, good work, hopefully this helps you get back on track in a way.

We will see what you have to say later when you sober up ;)

How come you're better at writing properly when you're drunk?

At first it was the ' in the I'm of the thread title, but an entire post with few mistakes? Methinks you're tipsy, not drunk.

Eco, I probably don't need to tell you this, but just be careful with your emotional investment until you really get to know him. You're on the rebound so still a little vulnerable (I say this because I'm on the rebound, too, and don't want to fall into a similar trap)

Wouldn't hurt to be cautiously optimistic with the realization that you won't truly be able to give your heart until you know he's worthy of you. And it will take time for him to show that level of consistency.

Other than that, enjoy the feeling of being over your ex and ready for something new. :)

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Originally Posted by Lipp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How come you're better at writing properly when you're drunk?

At first it was the ' in the I'm of the thread title, but an entire post with few mistakes? Methinks you're tipsy, not drunk.

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lol, you'd want to have seen the original transcript, i transferred it to microsoft word coz it took me so long to get it right. anyway having sobered up, i've realised the kiss was fun, but like sb said, i'm gonna be careful with my feelings. it felt good to be hugged and kissed again after so long. one thing tho, he sent me a text after i got home asking me to go with him to the cinema, somehow i don't think it's a good idea that i reply

1) i know he was drunk
2) aparently he has a gf (he told all of us last night he's just met her on the internet in the last couple of weeks) i know that it had to be the last few weeks coz he came back from travelling 1 month ago and i had met him a few times as friends catching up. we shared a twin hotel room at the wedding i was at ages ago as friends and separate beds, just cost cutting

i still kissed him last night with this knoweledge of a gf , does that make me a bad person? does that make him a cheater?

or is this what you guys call dating not exclusively?

i'm not sure if i should respond to the text, yes i want to meet him but am wondering did he say that coz he was drunk.

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Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

lol, you'd want to have seen the original transcript, i transferred it to microsoft word coz it took me so long to get it right. anyway having sobered up, i've realised the kiss was fun, but like sb said, i'm gonna be careful with my feelings. it felt good to be hugged and kissed again after so long. one thing tho, he sent me a text after i got home asking me to go with him to the cinema, somehow i don't think it's a good idea that i reply

1) i know he was drunk
2) aparently he has a gf (he told all of us last night he's just met her on the internet in the last couple of weeks) i know that it had to be the last few weeks coz he came back from travelling 1 month ago and i had met him a few times as friends catching up. we shared a twin hotel room at the wedding i was at ages ago as friends and separate beds, just cost cutting

i still kissed him last night with this knoweledge of a gf , does that make me a bad person? does that make him a cheater?

or is this what you guys call dating not exclusively?

i'm not sure if i should respond to the text, yes i want to meet him but am wondering did he say that coz he was drunk.

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Oh he has a girlfriend? That sucks.

Yes, it does make him a cheater that he kissed you even though he had a girlfriend. Unless it was a total peck. Plus he's now asking you to the movie? This guy sounds like a sleaze, sorry Eco.

Kissing him back doesn't make you a bad person, just a drunky drunkster. You know that this situation isn't ideal.

I would ignore his text and if he contacts you again, I would tell him that the kiss was a drunken mistake and that you are unavailable to him as anything else but a friend until he's single again. I mean you don't *really* want to pursue a guy with a girlfriend, do you?

internet girlfriends don't count.

Yes, but is she an internet-only girlfriend? Or did he just meet her on the net and now is an offline girlfriend as well?

It's an internet only girlfriend. He told me that.

yep she's real life now, so thats that. knocked on the head. no more shinanigans with him.

Man, I wish someone was around to knock me in the head when I started falling for guys I knew I shouldn't years ago.

Don't worry, Eco. There's a really good guy out there for you...someone who won't cheat or mess with your head. Hold out for that really special one, and don't settle.

*caresses your body while you are passed out*

raverboy

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Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I just kissed a guy at a party, I know he has liked me for a long time. I always dismissed him, he’s 26, I’m 32, same age as my ex, but I think I like him. I’m not sure whether it was a good idea. he’s nice tho. I think I did the right thing for me. He obviously wanted more but I enjoyed the kiss. He has tried it on for years but I always dismissed him. He just came back from travelling the world, he called me while he was away coz I told him before he left about not taking any drugs and apparently he heeded me weirdly and called me to tell me that I saved his life (I still don’t really kno necessarily how) but his friends got very sick or something, I dunno the full story but apparently my advice was in the back of his mind and he thinks I saved his life. Anyway I felt good tonight, it was my first kiss since my ex and I have to say yipeeeeeeee, I’m drunk and I’m going to bed now, but there ya go, there’s my news :)

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hahaha Jeanne ... there should be a rule against PWD ... "Posting While Drunk" :D

In your more sober morning, I'm sure it will occur to you that the only question is ... will you hurt him by responding to his attraction.

Carl.

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Originally Posted by Illusional [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

*caresses your body while you are passed out*

raverboy

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Just keep a watch for those reflexes... if she's anything like me... she may punch when touched...

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Just keep a watch for those reflexes... if she's anything like me... she may punch when touched...

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Violent sex inc.

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Just keep a watch for those reflexes... if she's anything like me... she may punch when touched...

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rough sex is alright in my book...

raverboy

why is this thread in the personal development forum?

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Originally Posted by Cbrider [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Violent sex inc.

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Actually quite tender and affectionate, even playful during sex... but I do have the reflex to punch and kick if I am touched while asleep... except with my bf (not sure why, never lost this reflex with other bf's/gf's). I do wake immediately if someone starts talking or from most anything 'out of the ordinary.' I'm a very light sleeper.

go meet him and talk it out with him, talk and see if he's really in a relationship or in a series one. and then after some good talking, go home nad think for 2days what you should do.

ah, btw, being drunk doesn't make all persons don't know what they're doing. when im drunk i can still know what im saying untill of course i pass out thats another story. i also know people that can drive well but not walk well when they drunk. alcohol doesn't effect everyone the same way.

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Originally Posted by DarkSmoke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

ah, btw, being drunk doesn't make all persons don't know what they're doing. when im drunk i can still know what im saying untill of course i pass out thats another story. i also know people that can drive well but not walk well when they drunk. alcohol doesn't effect everyone the same way.

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Alcohol pretty much impairs reaction time the same way for pretty much all people when it comes to driving. Just because you're too drunk to notice the difference in their driving doesn't mean a cop isn't.

I've never posted drunk. You seemed pretty coherent for a drunk person. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to spell out a four letter word correctly.

Maybe some day I will try this.

I can actually type very well when I'm drunk. I wish I couldn't though because it's embarrassing to find out who I drunk-texted or drunk-IMed after a party. Even more embarrassing is what I said.

The next day is damage control.

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Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I've never posted drunk. You seemed pretty coherent for a drunk person. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to spell out a four letter word correctly.

Maybe some day I will try this.

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My grammar and spelling tends to get better to a certain point when drunk, as I become more anal about spelling, etc. It just takes me that much longer to type anything though.

I've chatted many times while drunk... and early today, as well as right now.. I've posted on this forum while drunk. I guess I was 'posting while under the influence.' Heh.

When I am inebriated (thank god for spell check on that one), I do tend to relax and find life all the more humorous. However, I still do not lose my sense of judgment - so never one to use alcohol as an excuse. If I do something foolish while drunk, it's no different than if I did the same foolish thing while sober. So I try to refrain from doing anything I'll be regretting later. However, I have no qualms about letting others do some silly shit while drunk!

Cheers!