Guy at school

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25-01-09, 02:26 AM
oxygenidia

Guy at school

There is a guy at my school. We spent the entire fall flirting, and this one night there was a party at the school, and we ended up having sex.
We don't bump in to eachother that often and didn't before either. He has however kept touching me when we do, like on the arm or shoulder, and he sends me an sms every now and then.
I'm not sure what his thoughts are of me at all.
I also think that I have come across as uninterested. I accidentely closed a door in his face when he was running after me, instead of holding it up for him (stupid me!!!)

Anyway, just curious as to what you all would think about this. Is he interested at all?
25-01-09, 03:01 AM
Spring Haze

Why don't you ask him?
25-01-09, 09:33 PM
Lite

He might be interested, then again he might be interested in seeing if you'll just sleep with him again. I agree with Spring Haze here. Why don't you ask him?
25-01-09, 09:39 PM
oxygenidia

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Originally Posted by Lite [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

He might be interested, then again he might be interested in seeing if you'll just sleep with him again. I agree with Spring Haze here. Why don't you ask him?

I know, and that's the part that I'm not sure of. Because I know he's interested, but I'm not sure what he's interested in exactly.

And asking him? No, I'm not gonna do that...
25-01-09, 10:29 PM
Lite

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And asking him? No, I'm not gonna do that...

Why not? You'll ask random internet people what he's thinking, but the ultimate source of that information you won't hit up?

Embarassed, scared, or just chicken?
26-01-09, 12:27 AM
oxygenidia

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Originally Posted by Lite [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Why not? You'll ask random internet people what he's thinking, but the ultimate source of that information you won't hit up?

Embarassed, scared, or just chicken?

I don't think that guys like it when you ask them that. It's to direct and would probably make him uncomfortable.
26-01-09, 05:50 AM
Lite

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't think that guys like it when you ask them that. It's to direct and would probably make him uncomfortable.

OK, I'm a guy and I just gave you this advice. So, you don't think, or I don't know. Which do you think it is?
26-01-09, 05:51 AM
Indignant

why are you here? why are you asking stupid questions? people like this are such an insult to my intelligence, argh
26-01-09, 06:00 AM
lesa

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I know, and that's the part that I'm not sure of. Because I know he's interested, but I'm not sure what he's interested in exactly.

And asking him? No, I'm not gonna do that...

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't think that guys like it when you ask them that. It's to direct and would probably make him uncomfortable.

You had sex with him but can't talk to him?
26-01-09, 06:01 AM
Indignant

i guess she is more comfortable opening her legs, then her mouth
26-01-09, 06:21 AM
gartlas

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Originally Posted by Indignant [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i guess she is more comfortable opening her legs, then her mouth

Now that ...is harsh indignant :horror: - Do u know how old she is? could be just inexperienced with guys.

As for u oxy well it sounds to me like he's just shy and uncomfortable. The things sound like the sort of things I'd do if I was unsure of the situation , and also felt awkward. start speaking to him more and make an effort - if u can read people then u can probably tell by his reaction whether it makes him genuinely happy or its just pure lust
26-01-09, 06:34 AM
lesa

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Originally Posted by gartlas [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Now that ...is harsh indignant :horror: - Do u know how old she is? could be just inexperienced with guys.

As for u oxy well it sounds to me like he's just shy and uncomfortable. The things sound like the sort of things I'd do if I was unsure of the situation , and also felt awkward. start speaking to him more and make an effort - if u can read people then u can probably tell by his reaction whether it makes him genuinely happy or its just pure lust

It's the truth is it not? Indignant merely stated an observation. Is there a particular reason you take offense of this observation?
26-01-09, 06:45 AM
Only-virgins

Damn, great job at being a one night piece of ass.
26-01-09, 07:48 AM
oxygenidia

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Originally Posted by Indignant [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

why are you here? why are you asking stupid questions? people like this are such an insult to my intelligence, argh

People like this? Please tell me more about what kind of person you think I am, it's interesting that you can tell from a short post...
Maybe you're such a bitch because you never get to spread your legs for guys yourself:sinister:

From some of the comments here I can just assume that you think I'm a silly slut for sleeping with a guy at a party and then be stupid enough to wonder if he's interested? Well, that's an oldfashioned view on men and women I think.

I don't regret having sex with him and I would totally do it again. Any guy who would think less of me for sleeping with him that soon would not be my kind of guy anyway.
26-01-09, 07:53 AM
Only-virgins

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Any guy who would think less of me for sleeping with him that soon would not be my kind of guy anyway.

Apparently he was cause he slept with you. You need to learn more about men.
26-01-09, 07:54 AM
oxygenidia

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Originally Posted by gartlas [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Now that ...is harsh indignant :horror: - Do u know how old she is? could be just inexperienced with guys.

I'm 21, not sure why that matters. Not sure what inexperience would have to do with anything either. Normally I could easally tell if a guy was interested or not, but this guy is hard to read. He shows interest but is not the pushy type, like I'm used to.
26-01-09, 08:00 AM
lesa

Maybe he has conflicted feelings.
26-01-09, 08:00 AM
oxygenidia

Only-virgins: right, but there's a difference between "guy I would sleep with" and "guy I would want as my boyfriend".

What am I supposed to learn, that most men don't respect women who sleeps with them right away? I allready knew that, and the truth is that I wouldn't sleep with a guy just like that if I was interested in a relationship with him. But this guy, I have never had any thought of starting anything serious with, I just think he's sweet:)
26-01-09, 08:12 AM
Only-virgins

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Only-virgins: right, but there's a difference between "guy I would sleep with" and "guy I would want as my boyfriend".

Yep, you have A LOT to learn about men. I would rather be the "guy you would sleep with" than the other one.

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

and the truth is that I wouldn't sleep with a guy just like that if I was interested in a relationship with him.

I believe you nailed right here the reason why you are getting the attitude from people that you are getting. Thats even worse. So, I the person who loves you has to wait to get sex...in order to get it quicker I have to be just some random guy? ..where is the fairness in that?
26-01-09, 08:18 AM
Only-virgins

Its the same shit on the friends with benefits thread.

Its like me having two kids in front of me and me holding two toy gifts. One child is a stranger I don't like and one is a child I love and is my own biological child. Then giving the gift to the strange child and making my own wait three months. This is the kind of logic women follow? No wonder men call women irrational.
26-01-09, 08:20 AM
Lite

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Originally Posted by oxygenidia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well, that's an oldfashioned view on men and women I think.

Kind of like thinking that women cannot approach men? Gosh.

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