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Do you consider dating someone out of your race exciting or embarassing?
Are you more eager to let the world know or would rather keep it to yourself until you are very sure?
Are you concerned about the social acceptance?
Just thought this would be an interesting discussion.
I wouldn't think anything of it unless they were black or someone with a strong sense of ethnic pride.
I love caramel skin so I usually find myself attracted to biracial (black/white) or light-black girls so long as the facial features are attractive. I don't really care what others think. I care about what I think.
I don't mind a woman having racial pride either so long as it isn't hateful towards another race.
I don't think anything of it. And if society isn't accepting, well, society can go **** itself. I'm not here to make other people feel comfortable.
Does this make difference between casual dating and serious relationship that can lead to marriage?
No it does not make a difference!
The only person it should matter to is you. **** what everyone else thinks.
whats wrong with black people?Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You didn't quote the rest of that sentence.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
aye stoal wun ov ur wite wimmins.
yes but you have some issue with both, i can understand the second part of the sentence, you did say 'or' but the first part i'm questioning out of interestQuote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The first abundant ethnic group available for me to date are southern black women, my issue with them is their strong ethnic ties, so I expanded that to anyone with strong ethnic ties.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yes, I'm sure it's possible for me to find a like minded black woman, but far and few between, so my statement still stands.
I think this is the correct advice.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
However, I think the op's asking our opinions specifically..
yay, I get to use my favorite word: Depends. There are many cultural differences in preference. In China dating a western guy is apparently the coolest thing ever for girls, for instance. People are generally excited about dating someone 'exotic'.. at least, I am. But maybe that's just because there aren't that many foreigners where I am.Quote:
Originally Posted by moonriverlove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'd say that it'd make no difference to me. As doppelgaenger said it shouldn't matter what people say-- though I admit it would be hard to date someone when all your best friends are telling you to run just because of race. That might indicate that they need to rethink their friendships...Quote:
Originally Posted by moonriverlove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As long as there is a good compatibility I don't mind either way. Though from experience I found that people with significant cultural differences can be harder to get along with. This experience makes me more open to people of similar cultural ties to me.
fair enough fras
to answer you moon; i do find people from different backgrounds a lot more fascinating. when i went out with my chinese bf i researched everything i could find and even got phrase books to learn chinese (he could speak perfect english) it excited me to find out more about what made him the person he is.
i personally preferred to keep my relationship to myself and not tell family simply coz i knew they would likely interrogate him for just being a man going out with me not for any other reason. i preferred to spend time with him without others knowing and if things had got a lot more serious then i would have told my family
Differences are better than similarities if people are open-minded about it.
Personally I'd date any ethnicity and wouldn't have an issue with it, only exceptions are because they aren't physically appealing to me yet (and of course there are exceptions to those exceptions ;) )
If it works out I'll be bringing my girlfriend on a visit to sweden in half a year, will be fun, so few asians around there.
Glad to see there are so many people have no issue with this. The breakup with my EX made me feel for a long time that I am not acceptable and he was embarrassed at being with me..
I believe culture is the bigger divider than skin color.
However, in some cases, skin color can influence one's skin culture.
Yeah, but that doesn't really come down to race. I wouldn't date a hoochie ghetto momma. Not because she was black, but because we'd be utterly incompatible.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Assuming you met a black woman that you were compatible with would her ethnicity be a problem?
It's not just her, it's her family too.
I'm thinkin' big picture.
family can be hard when it comes to ethnicity.But if you really show to your family that you really love each other..maybe they will understand
I think interracial dating is fine and all good as long as it is genuine but these days,you have too way too many people racial dating for the most superficial reason.
I don't mind it. The black guys usually date the nasty fat white chicks so they help us white guys out.
One of my brothers' girlfriend is white. He has only dated white girls actually, or at least ever since he left the VI. He doesnt like the loud ghetto black women which is basically all he is surrounded by in Georgia anyway. They are now having a baby. You know what? I'm actually very damn happy. She is my favorite sister in law and she is the only white one. What a damn shame.
everybody should be with only people of their race to preserve their genetic purity.
Aren't you a mutt?Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm Indian, my boyfriend's white. I don't see how it makes any difference.
My father on the other hand believes I should stick to my own race. Screw him.
no. my blood is pure as snow flakes falling slowly to the ground.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cain [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Depends on whether his momma's a bitch. I don't want to hear any of that "whitey" shit coming from his family.