my boyfriend and I have both have a strong sex drive. I want sex as often as he does but should I always be sexually available to him or give him a bit of a chase? Will he otherwise take me for granted and start using me for sex?
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my boyfriend and I have both have a strong sex drive. I want sex as often as he does but should I always be sexually available to him or give him a bit of a chase? Will he otherwise take me for granted and start using me for sex?
Um, are you using HIM for sex? And if not, why don't you give it a try? Sounds like fun.
Make him chase every now and then, but not enough to frustrate him and cause problems. Just be playful and teasing about it, he'll understand what you're up to.
Enjoy having a partner with the same size libido as you. Thats what were all looking for.
you're young and this is the time when you make a lot of dumb mistakes... so make them and learn from them.
raverboy
Remember to have lots of sex while making those mistakes...
pol32x says:
"my boyfriend and I enjoy a healthy sex life but I want to f*ck with our relationship by making him work harder for it."
ugh, wtf is wrong with girls? You met someone with whom you are sexually compatible with. This puts you ahead of most couples. Why the hell do you want to f*ck with your relationship by denying him sex unless he chases you more? And no, he won't take you for granted. He's not some occasional hook up using you for sex - he's your boyfriend for Christ's sake! The stupidity of people will never cease to amaze me.
I don't think anyone said anything about "denying" sex. But guys, generally, like a little sport. You don't have to deny it. Just tease him with it. He'll know your playing with him. Just don't carry it on too long (unless he's REALLY enjoying it, i suppose).Quote:
Originally Posted by NeoSeminole [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's not so much that he'll take it for granted. It's more along the lines of keeping it from getting repetitive.
Yeah, I don't see what the big deal is.
Is this the same boyfriend taht told you he wants to start dating (and sleeping with) other girls?
I say cut him off all together.
i think she should marry him, have a thousand kids with him and get on welfare.
The_bobb says:
"I don't think anyone said anything about "denying" sex."
should I give him a bit of a chase? = should I deny him unless he works harder for sex?
"But guys, generally, like a little sport."
guys like a little sport when there's competition involved. There shouldn't be any competition for sex if they are in a relationship.
yes it is the same
but he doesn't want to sleep with other girls, plural, only his ex-girlfriend.
So, what it sounds like your saying, is that if your in a relationship. The woman should always just, give the sex. Without any work from the guy? The competition doesn't end just because your in a relationship. And it's wrong to think that your girlfriend should just "give it up", because she's with you. They aren't blow up dolls.Quote:
Originally Posted by NeoSeminole [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Personally i can't STAND it when a woman doesn't put up a fight (friendly i mean, i'm not a rapist). It's the thrill of the hunt. It'd be boring as HELL if i could just roll over and be like, "Wanna do it?" and she folds.
AND YOUR OK WITH THIS?!Quote:
Originally Posted by pol32x [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I like how you say this, likes it's a good thing...
The_bobb says:
"So, what it sounds like your saying, is that if your in a relationship. The woman should always just, give the sex. Without any work from the guy? The competition doesn't end just because your in a relationship. And it's wrong to think that your girlfriend should just "give it up", because she's with you. They aren't blow up dolls."
no. What I'm saying is that a person in a relationship shouldn't have to work harder for sex if the partner is already willing.
Well, I don't know what the OP was implying, but if sex is withheld in a playful manner, and both parties are aware of the "game", it's all good.
Oh OK neo i see, sorry for getting the wrong idea...
The "Sport" I'm referring to is in a playful manner. It's not that your working HARDER for it per se. Your just making it more entertaining... I think it's better to make the person your with WANT the sex rather than just ASSUME they can get it when ever they want.
That's all i'm saying, i didn't mean it as in make the person WORK for it. Just, simply SHOW they want it and appreciate it =)
Again sorry for mis interpreting you neo.