My boyfriend is in Las Vegas!

It was my boyfriends birthday and he's partying in Las Vegas for the weekend. I really wanted to go with him but he said it was a "guys" thing and it would be him and 3 other guys. (Which I understand - I want to have my girl time too.)

He got on the plane yesterday morning and has been texting me here and there, which makes me feel great, I like that he has been thinking of me. I talked to him on the phone for a little bit last night and he said he was having lots of fun at the casinos etc.

Then I called him around 1am, and he was drunk and said he was on his way to a strip club and he'll talk to me later because he has 6 people waiting for him. 6 people?! I asked who... and he named off the guys he was supposed to be with and 3 girls. So... it wasn't a "guys" thing because 3 girls that I've never heard of went with them also. Why would he do that and not tell me about it? Why would he tell me I can't go, but these girls can? I asked him about it and he was like, "well, they all have boyfriends so don't worry about it." But it's not so much that I think he will do anything with these girls, I'm just really hurt that he didn't want me to go...

I'm really upset... How do I deal with this?

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Originally Posted by Star [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It was my boyfriends birthday and he's partying in Las Vegas for the weekend. I really wanted to go with him but he said it was a "guys" thing and it would be him and 3 other guys. (Which I understand - I want to have my girl time too.)

He got on the plane yesterday morning and has been texting me here and there, which makes me feel great, I like that he has been thinking of me. I talked to him on the phone for a little bit last night and he said he was having lots of fun at the casinos etc.

Then I called him around 1am, and he was drunk and said he was on his way to a strip club and he'll talk to me later because he has 6 people waiting for him. 6 people?! I asked who... and he named off the guys he was supposed to be with and 3 girls. So... it wasn't a "guys" thing because 3 girls that I've never heard of went with them also. Why would he do that and not tell me about it? Why would he tell me I can't go, but these girls can? I asked him about it and he was like, "well, they all have boyfriends so don't worry about it." But it's not so much that I think he will do anything with these girls, I'm just really hurt that he didn't want me to go...

I'm really upset... How do I deal with this?

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Yeah right those girls have bf's and theirs bf's are ok with it. Your boyfriend is giving You big BS ,and sorry for You but it looks like he's cheating on You. I've been there, so belive me, he's writing You sms's to keep You being fooled.
Really girl, if You feel the red flag, I'm sure You feel millions of them, kick his butt and say NEXXT .
He's a dork, You'll find it out soonner or later

I would be very weary!
how much do you trust your boyfriend? Well...since you posted your problem it doesnt sound like you trust him atall. When he gets home you tell him to need to know the truth... tell him if he did anything just to come clean because your going to find out anyway. If he did cheat on you he probably wont be able to even look at you again so youl see the signals.

Hah, all 3 girls have boyfriends? Really? So all of these girls boyfriends, 3 separate guys, were ok with them going to Vegas with other dudes?

Unlikely.

Your boyfriend is lying to you.. don't be surprised to learn he's cheating. Honestly, what other reason would he have for concealing 3 girls going to Vegas with him on his birthday weekend, yet not his girlfriend?

I have to ask because I'm curious...

When you have a "girl's night" do you also have some guys you hang out with? Do you dance with other guys?

I say this because often times both guys and girls have their own perspectives on a "guy's night" and a "girl's night"....what is your typical girls night out?

My typical girls night consists of me and my close girl friends going out to a bar or club, have a few drinks. We dance amongst ourselves and "save" each other when a guy starts trying to grind up on us. It's usually just us girls, but if we are with a few guys we know, they are guys my boyfriend knows as well.

What do guys do when they have a "guys" night?

I spoke with him briefly today and he told me that one of the girls is one of the guys sister, another girl is one of the guy's girlfriend, and the other girl is the sister's friend and they decided to go with them at the last minute...

When I talk to him on the phone, he answers with "hey baby" and says "i love you" after our phone call. Would he say that if he was trying to get with any of these girls? Sometimes I just don't know how guy's minds work.

Do you guys still think I have anything to worry about? He gets back tomorrow and I'm supposed to pick him up from the airport.

what happens in vegas stays in vegas.....

and you never go to vegas in a mixed group. not if you want to get into places and actually have fun. you would be a huge downer. doesn't mean he is ****ing other girls, but it does mean he wants to flirt without the ball and chain hanging around.

I have a question for you: how GULLIBLE are you?

Depends on your guy really...

Is he a commitment sort of fellow or is he hard wired for quickies and soiling hearts?

Nevermind the rest of us and our advice. I'd be curious myself why he actually told you that there were girls in the party versus saying nothing about...

...could it be that he wasn't related to any of that?

You have to make up your own mind on this based on the guy you're with and his personality.

Unless those girls have penises, he lied to you about it being a "guy thing".

Grounds for relationship termination.

Also, go get yourself checked for herpes. And chlamydia. And gonorrhea. And AIDS.

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Unless those girls have penises, he lied to you about it being a "guy thing".

Grounds for relationship termination.

Also, go get yourself checked for herpes. And chlamydia. And gonorrhea. And AIDS.

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And any other possible STD's ?

What about crabs?

You can have sex with toilets now?

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Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You can have sex with toilets now?

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What is it?

Crabs are small grey or brownish-red insects that live mostly in pubic hair. They may occasionally live in the hair of the chest, armpits, eyelashes and eyebrows. Crabs lay their eggs at the base of the hair. These eggs are commonly known as nits. It usually takes the eggs 8 to 9 days to hatch, but they may stay dormant for up to 17 days. Lice live by feeding on human blood.. They can live 24-28 hours away from the body.

How is it spread?

Crabs are spread by close contact with an infected person during sex or by sharing the same bed. They can also be spread through contact with infested bed linens, towels, clothing, and toilet seats.

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Are you scared now? LOL

Piojos por pendejos!

piojos por pelotas lol.

I think it's really lame that he told you it was a 'guy thing' and other girls showed up.

HOWEVER, I have been in situations where my bf brought me to things that were supposed to be guy's only, and his friends were pretty annoyed for bringing me, but they made the best of it. There's always one or two guys in the group that cave to their demanding females' demands.....or just want them with them everywhere.

If my man was going to Vegas with the boys, I wouldn't WANT to go, because I know it would be an intrusion. Don't assume the girls' company was entirely welcome.

Of course he wants to go "fool around". Just be aware.