Rape fetish and the first time meet

I've been getting to know a genuinely nice gal online for awhile now, and we've decided that we'd like to meet in real life take it to the next level. The only problem for me is that she's admitted to rape fantasies and wants me to accommodate that during my proposed visit.

I'm a bit uneasy about the whole thing even though it would be consensual and she's willing to have affadavits and video recordings done outlining what she's after, when, by whom, etc so no confusion could be had should someone else get the wrong impression. What I asked for in return was that we have a code word for stop, but she's flatly refused as she reckons it turns it from play rape into mere hard sex.

I can understand, sort of, where she's coming from... but I still have big reservations.

Has anyone ever encountered someone with such a fetish?

lol, you and spi crack me up

Not Spicy, Eco

I would seriously consider not doing it. There's too much personal risk.

Especially since you're just meeting her.

Suppose we could always work towards the rape at a later date. That's if we hit it off, and she's willing to wait.

Although I don't know how I'd go with pretending to be an enraged bitch slapping deviant with a quart of vaseline in my pocket.

So her main component to having any kind of relationship with you is to have a certain kind of fetish sex. That's interesting.

I would ask for the affidavits and video recordings before the play rape. If you are interested, tell her you are, but that you are not comfortable as you are just meeting her.

This doesn't sound like a good idea at all ... I mean, imagine the crazy stuff she'll think of when your relationship develops more!

If it's just for a fling, you can go for it, but the question is: Where do you draw the line? When does it go from play "rape" to real rape?

I mean, come on now ... No safe word? It almost sounds like a plot ...

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Haven't you all seen "Ghost"?

Besides, she's already dead. Whats the worst can happen? ;)

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Ummm .... when Demi Moore danced with Patrick Swayze's ghost, afterwards he turned in Whoopi Goldberg ...

Something tells me Doc would not appreciate that.

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think its one of his 'imaginary' friends. So I say 'go for it', Doc. Spirit sex is hott. Haven't you all seen "Ghost"?

Besides, she's already dead. Whats the worst can happen? ;)

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Trust in you to throw necrophilia into the mix, Indi. :)

She's not dead, not imaginery, and not altogether a bad chick.

Don't get me wrong, this isn't some budding marriage to be. We're in the early stages of getting to know one another off message boards and this is something she gets her kinks off of.

It's not the first time I've encountered it, but the first time I've ever considered it seriously.

The last one (all real life) who asked the same had a screw loose or something. She wanted me to trash her place, knock the door of it's hinges and not alert her to when I was going to do it.

I passed.

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Originally Posted by Doc Durian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The last one (all real life) who asked the same had a screw loose or something. She wanted me to trash her place, knock the door of it's hinges and not alert her to when I was going to do it.

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omg! LOL LOL LOL! that was classic!

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Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I bet she's going to be some fat bitch that's going to be raping you. .

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again just LOL!

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Originally Posted by 1averagejoe [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Have you seen real pics of this girl?

I bet she's going to be some fat bitch that's going to be raping you. God knows she's probably got some STD or something. This all just sounds really bad if you ask me. Then she's going to try and sue your ass.

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Seen each other in Skype. She's hot, mate. nice complexion, nice body, cute face. Plus there's here personality which is even better.

The sue point was the first hurdle I threw up there, so she proposed doing the paperwork on her end, and also invited me to do the same and Fedex them beforehand.

I can't get leave for another 2-3 months, so there's time to think about it but I don't want to stuff her and her time around if I'm not really into the whole idea.

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Originally Posted by Doc Durian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The sue point was the first hurdle I threw up there, so she proposed doing the paperwork on her end, and also invited me to do the same and Fedex them beforehand.

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Doesn't this seem an awful lot of bother for a simple ****?

Is it that hard to find someone sane, Doc?

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Doesn't this seem an awful lot of bother for a simple ****?

Is it that hard to find someone sane, Doc?

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If it was a simple question of a ***** I wouldn't be considering a more than 10,000 K flight.

I could buy 50 decent *****'s (or 20 high class *****'s) where I'm at now.

She's very sane, but she's got this thing. She knows it's odd, and who wouldn't agree? But in the end, I've never dated someone who didn't have their own set of oddities.

Some much worse.

(ie. A wannabe supermodel who couldn't stop picking her cocaine nose and hiding it in the ashtray. Now that was disgusting. I can honestly state that I've never done a narcotic aside from hospital pain killers and the night I walked out on her.)

10,000k? Where the **** are you going? The moon?

Lower Southern Hemisphere to the Upper Northern.

It cant be that expensive, unless you didn't look hard enough.

It's between 3-4,000 USD (dependent on premium or economy) which for more than 24 hours of travelling time, I'd have to go prem. Plus transfers, car, hotel, etc.

you could probably get a high class pro for that kinda money and she'll do wantever you want.....love you long time

Like I said, Eco.... 50 decent lays or 20 high class, all up.

But I don't do pro's.

i'm reserving those things for when i'm many years into a relationship and regular sex isn't fun anymore.

just get her consensual invitation taped, and then rape her on your first date. it's something that i would do, but then i've never had a girl tell me that she wanted to be in a rape fetish.

raverboy

She probably hasn't told you the OTHER part of her fantasy, which is where 3 big, buff guys catch you raping her, beat you up, cut off your balls, make you their bitch, and steal your money.

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Originally Posted by Doc Durian [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

(ie. A wannabe supermodel who couldn't stop picking her cocaine nose and hiding it in the ashtray. Now that was disgusting. I can honestly state that I've never done a narcotic aside from hospital pain killers and the night I walked out on her.)

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LOFL

I mean.... that's a long way to go for some pseudo-forced pussy.

You know how to pick the winners ;) Of course, I do recall a thread where you talked about a girl who you spanked b/c she threw a bowl of fruit at your head. I can see you being into it.

Update: Contacted her and again expressed my reservations about the whole rape thing, but also the sex on a first date/meet thing. Which is almost equally foreign to me. She apologized sincerely for placing such expectations on me, and after a lengthy conversation we decided that it would be advantageous to continue as we are online and get to know each other a bit better.

I asked her "why" for the first time though. Why she has this fetish. She reckons it's got something to do with how she was brought up and how her mum and dad got on. A picture perfect couple who could turn on the drop of a dime and go ballistic on one another, but then make up like high school sweethearts an hour later.

The way she described them, it almost reminded me of my grandparents and how verbally indifferent they were to one another, but never more than an arms length from one another when home from work.

I guess I want to understand her better before rushing into anything, kosher or untraditional.

But she's rolling with it admirably, so it's all good.

Thanks for your opinions, and even your taunts.

lol this thread was awesome!

I'm glad that her and my life amuses you. I'd probably feel the same, if it weren't my life currently. lol

Doc, what's wrong with women that are within close proximity to you?

Well at least she is showing signs of rationality and sanity. If she told you she was raped once upon a time, I would be really nervous.

Some people are just really freaky. Not a bad thing, as long as you're down. I think she probably just expected that since, you are coming all that way, you might expect booty. And she is probably thinking, well, if I'm gonna get international booty, I want it to be really effing good. You know? Had she not brought it up, you would have put some Barry Manalow on, sprinkled some rose petals and caressed her. And she would be thinking, wtf, Iknew I shoulda talked to him about this.

I mean, she's really just being logical because if you're going all that way, you guys would prob have sex. So it is pretty responsible for her to bring it up and get paperwork. But can you be a play-rapist doc? That is the question.

Been going over it in my mind and I could probably consensually carry out her wishes bar one thing.

The dialogue.

What does one say in such situations, if anything?

I mean... I've watched enough movies to know that most probably, stupid cliches will come out my mouth.. ie "Stop squirming bitch, your booty is mine for the plundering"?

"You like that? Of course you do."

"You abort this and I'm coming back"

etc etc

That's just plain silly.

If it does eventuate somewhere down the distant road, I'm just going to wear a balaclava and say nothing.