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Hi,
I was wondering if a guy goes out of his way to touch you if he is flirting or if he is just touchy feely.
A guy in my class, who I have only spoken to briefly, came up to me while I was standing with another guy classmate and he put his hand on my lower back and said hello. Was he just greeting me or does he like me?
well it's kinda hard to know but it's a good sign he does or he could be an insatiable flirt
He's a flirt. Guys who are shy would never do that to greet a girl even when he really like her.
So you think he likes me? Or is he just flirting?
She got kino'ed.
maybe both
He's a flirt and maybe likes u and trying to take your attention away from the other guy
Well, if there is a girl I like I usually try to get close to her, and give her hugs and stuff. I think it shows that I like her, so in your case, I would say that he likes you.
look for more signs because he can either be flirty or friendly
How can you differentiate a flirt and someone interested in you? I don't know.
He wants you, but as they say, maybe he's after multiple girls at the same time.
Some people just are very touchy when communicating.
I would wait and see when it comes to judging if he likes you or not.
Maybe you could see how he communicates around other females.
Just observe his behaviour when communicating with other people. If he's very touchy in general when talking to people, then obviously that's just how he is or could be he's just what you call "a flirt". Otherwise, he is interested.
Personally I get a bit suspicious when someone I just met is being very touchy, but that could just be me having too many bad experiences with players so I won't generalize. Some people are just outgoing and not afraid to show when they are interested.
You just have to judge based upon what kind of person he is, if he is shy or not etc. Most guys who were seriously interested in me though, were not that touchy in my presence though in the beginning, they were rather shy to begin with and seemed more like they didnt want to be touchy and come across as a player. But again, that's just me and my experiences so I won't generalize.
Ya.
Sounds like he's competative and tries to be subtle about it.
If this was a multiple choice question, the answer would be (D) Not enough information.
Hmmm. I think he is a flirt- he is def. on the prowl. Hahah.
I didn't add in the orig post, that I didn't say hello to him when my classmate first spotted him- so I think it was his way of getting me to acknowlege him. He is a pretty friendly guy, always smiling and talking to everyone.
As for being touchy feely with other girls, I've seen him put his arm around the shoulder of his closest girl friend but that's about it. It didn't seem romantic though. Just friendly.
He also has come up to me and gave me a few compliments before, and when he does this he comes really close to me.
I dunno- he is def a flirt- but I'm not sure if I'm one of many...
Fras is right- look it up. Essentially, he was being territorial, staking a claim.
You're lucky he didn't piss on your leg.
Haha. So he was only doing that because I wasn't paying attention to him?
Do you know him resonably well?
I tend to be a touchy feely guy, i say hello like that to my female friends sometimes, doen't mean i'm attracted to them. However i do do it to all of them not just one or two.
if it's only you and one other though then possibly something there. :)
when i does that, i am sure he feel you are attractive at that right moment...
Play it by ear, if he's interested in you his actions will speak much louder than his words