Can i hook up with this chick (pics)

Okay...i just met her at a party this weekend, and was too drunk to really try and hook up with her. I just added her to fbook so im doing some detective work, but is it all worth it? do i have a shot with her yes or no (srs) keep in mind her face is hot, but she does have several flaws which might bring her into my league...she is slightly on the heavier side. Also, I know i am not an attractive guy, but I am pretty funny and when we talked I kept her laughing. If you think I have a shot, what move should I make next, thanks, we will see each other at the next party this weekend, or maybe passing by classes

the first pic is her and second is me

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Well.. I hate to break it to you, but she appears to be holding on to some other dude.
And I'm sure glad, because I'm assuming that most girls don't want to be approached on the basis of their "fat ass and stomach".

There is nothing wrong with you, but you should ditch your hoodie and cap if you want to snag a girl. Go for a slightly 'dirtier' look (let your beard grow out a couple days), get a decent haircut and check out this site re: clothes. I'd suggest slacks and a casual dress shirt for your type. Mbe a light tan if you are into it:

[url]http://ca.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip/index.html[/url]

You look about five years younger than her. Nothing is impossible, but I imagine she might go for a more developed type of guy.

L-OH freaking-L

Based on the fact that you think she has a fat ass/ stomache. No you shouldn't persue her. Go fetch skinny bitches with that attitude.

And look at that guy she's with in that pic- he's positively yummy.

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

L-OH freaking-L

Based on the fact that you think she has a fat ass/ stomache. No you shouldn't persue her. Go fetch skinny bitches with that attitude.

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im sorry i didnt mean to come off like a jerk, but seriously i was just trying to point out her flaws, so she would maybe come into my league, i am about 5'11 with a solid body, playing college baseball, she is on the tennis team

and to the other post...yummy? were u being sarcastic?

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Originally Posted by Linli [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well.. I hate to break it to you, but she appears to be holding on to some other dude.
And I'm sure glad, because I'm assuming that most girls don't want to be approached on the basis of their "fat ass and stomach".

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no, she is single at the moment

Yummy, Giga? Meh... not my kind of guy. Stocky doesn't do it for me.

To the OP, you have some nice eyes... but Indi is right... you have everything you need... you just need to dress to accent it.

As for the girl, I fail to see her as being "fat" and if you're not interested in her... I certainly would be ;) .

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yummy, Giga? Meh... not my kind of guy. Stocky doesn't do it for me.

To the OP, you have some nice eyes... but Indi is right... you have everything you need... you just need to dress to accent it.

As for the girl, I fail to see her as being "fat" and if you're not interested in her... I certainly would be ;) .

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im not a great judge, but the guy in the first pic doesnt look all that great to me.

what do you mean i have everything i need? i dont fully understand, are you talking about facial features or personality traits?

OK, she is not fat!!!

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Originally Posted by Loftus [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

i dont fully understand, are you talking about facial features or personality traits?

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Check the other post.

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Originally Posted by Loftus [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

im sorry i didnt mean to come off like a jerk, but seriously i was just trying to point out her flaws, so she would maybe come into my league, i am about 5'11 with a solid body, playing college baseball, she is on the tennis team

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I like how you edited it- nice try.

Fat ass= solid body? LOL

She is out of your league fat ass, fat belly, and stretched pussy.

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Check the other post.

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so u saying im decent looking enough? if so thanks and I will try to grow hair out a little and style it, maybe go for a polo with some jeans, and nice shoes

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Originally Posted by Loftus [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

so u saying im decent looking enough? if so thanks and I will try to grow hair out a little and style it, maybe go for a polo with some jeans, and nice shoes

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that ain't gonna help you no good.

saying a chick had a hot face but fat ass is like saying you're a nice guy but you have a tiny dick. can't take that shit back.

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

that ain't gonna help you no good.

saying a chick had a hot face but fat ass is like saying you're a nice guy but you have a tiny dick. can't take that shit back.

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would you shut up already! stop invading my threads with nonsense posts! im looking only for serious answers and all you are providing is bullshit

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

that ain't gonna help you no good.

saying a chick had a hot face but fat ass is like saying you're a nice guy but you have a tiny dick. can't take that shit back.

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It's not exactly a challenge to pick on a young guy who mostly hangs out with other guys, doesn't know much about women, and is nervous as hell about his sex appeal.

Why don't you grab a shotgun, go find a barrel with some fish in it... and have some fun?

this is dead serious response:

when you call a chick fat- no you don't have a shot in hell in hooking up with her, nor do you deserve to.

that is a direct response to your question.

The dude in the pic with her is hideous. Look at those eyebrows. GAWD! LMAO!
I think you have a shot with her. I would clean up the look alittle bit. Lose the cap and wear clothes that fit. not 3 sizes too big. Get some good smelling cologne and not some AXE shit. The fact that you can make her laugh is cool but watch your humor... not everything is funny and you dont want her to think you are just a clown.

Oh and I would grow up a bit.If you make frequent mistakes like the one you did in this thread you will be burned. You're already getting a taste of that now LOL but seriously... mature a little ok?

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Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The dude in the pic with her is hideous. Look at those eyebrows. GAWD! LMAO!
I think you have a shot with her. I would clean up the look alittle bit. Lose the cap and wear clothes that fit. not 3 sizes too big. Get some good smelling cologne and not some AXE shit. The fact that you can make her laugh is cool but watch your humor... not everything is funny and you dont want her to think you are just a clown.

Oh and I would grow up a bit.If you make frequent mistakes like the one you did in this thread you will be burned. You're already getting a taste of that now LOL but seriously... mature a little ok?

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these are the types of responses i was expecting when i joined this forum! cant thank you enough! yea, i will learn from my mistake and try to be nice to her, but i dont want to be too nice because that will put me in the friendzone...the saying nice guys finish last has some truth to it as well, so i cant be a 100% white knight. I actually have some Acqua di Gio cologne and several polo shirts that go well with designer jeans, but I will be going to a house party, maybe too dressed up, but i dont care, at least i will stand out

Hell yeah! That's what I'm talking about. You'll do the damn thing. :P and NP

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

There is nothing wrong with you, but you should ditch your hoodie and cap if you want to snag a girl. Go for a slightly 'dirtier' look (let your beard grow out a couple days), get a decent haircut and check out this site re: clothes. I'd suggest slacks and a casual dress shirt for your type. Mbe a light tan if you are into it:

[url]http://ca.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip/index.html[/url]

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hey...that description sounds like me hahaha

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And look at that guy she's with in that pic- he's positively yummy.

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whatttt...IMO he looks like he has "down syndrome" - no offense to anyone

man up and go get her "loftus"...just dress up nice and be yourself!;)

I disagree with the "too nice" notion. There's more to it than being courteous. It's about your general attitude -- how you come across as a person. You must radiate a sort of comfort and confidence that doesn't turn into arrogance. Nice guys radiate quiet desperation.

what's wrong with pointing out she has a fat ass?? He still wants to date her. I don't think I'd date a chick with a fat ass, so I think he's being pretty good about it.

It's funny Charlie Boy.... a woman can be around other women and say something like "this guy has a small dick, but I like him anyway..." and not a single woman would speak up about how mean it is to say that. They'd probably pitch in with jokes.

If someone is fat... then they're fat. Hell, I've had fat women tell me they're fat. It's just a word... people who are overly sensitive are the ones that give it negative meaning.

And he kind of used it in a positive way, like, he was glad she has a fat ass because it means he might have a shot.

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And he kind of used it in a positive way, like, he was glad she has a fat ass because it means he might have a shot.

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Wow, that's cool... I didn't know you can use it that way..:oriental:

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And he kind of used it in a positive way, like, he was glad she has a fat ass because it means he might have a shot.

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wow the first person to actually understand what i meant by that, i appreciate it, and you are 100% correct, if she had a model type body, no way in hell would i have a shot, lucky for me she is only 5'2 since im only 5'11

i love fat asses

Sings... "Fat-bottomed girls you make the rocking world go round."

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Originally Posted by loudrims_inc [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

whatttt...IMO he looks like he has "down syndrome" - no offense to anyone

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What can I say? He makes me feel "special".

I still think the guy in the first pic is twice as attractive as you, Loftus. This isn't because I'm anti-blond or something- you actually resemble my husband, back when he was in ninth grade. That guy just has good shoulders and sexier hair than you.

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Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

And he kind of used it in a positive way, like, he was glad she has a fat ass because it means he might have a shot.

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I'm not sure thats a positive way.

"I have low self-esteem so I am going to point out this girls' faults to drag her down to my level."

Granted, girl68's responses are just stupid and, guess what, you have no effect on changing this guy's chances with this girl, whatsoever, no matter how much emphasis you put into your posts.

But that said, Loftus, this is just a stupid thread. As if you can explain the whole situation by looking at two pictures, and we do some universal mental calculation to tell you what your odds are with this girl. There's only one way to find out and thats to go for it, not to ask random strangers to evaluate your match chances based on random headshots.

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Originally Posted by Loftus [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

if she had a model type body, no way in hell would i have a shot

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

What can I say? He makes me feel "special".

I still think the guy in the first pic is twice as attractive as you, Loftus. This isn't because I'm anti-blond or something- you actually resemble my husband, back when he was in ninth grade. That guy just has good shoulders and sexier hair than you.

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Meh... The other guy is simply too generic looking.

Loftus is a little too thin in the face and a bit more lithe than what is essentially my "type" but I'm sure he'd have no problem attracting women once he has his confidence in order.

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Originally Posted by MVPlaya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm not sure thats a positive way.

"I have low self-esteem so I am going to point out this girls' faults to drag her down to my level."

Granted, girl68's responses are just stupid and, guess what, you have no effect on changing this guy's chances with this girl, whatsoever, no matter how much emphasis you put into your posts.

But that said, Loftus, this is just a stupid thread. As if you can explain the whole situation by looking at two pictures, and we do some universal mental calculation to tell you what your odds are with this girl. There's only one way to find out and thats to go for it, not to ask random strangers to evaluate your match chances based on random headshots.
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my bad, but generally speaking, you can evalute two people's faces and tell whether or not they are close to each other on the looks scale. I dont want to be put in an awkaward situation and this thread was just reassuring the fact that I may be in her league....that is all

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Originally Posted by Loftus [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

my bad, but generally speaking, you can evalute two people's faces and tell whether or not they are close to each other on the looks scale. I dont want to be put in an awkaward situation and this thread was just reassuring the fact that I may be in her league....that is all

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If I pointed out all the things that I find problematic in this post I could spend all day typing, but I'm just going to point out the common thread that binds them:

You are an insecure pussy and you need to get over it.


There is no magical "looks" league that classifies people and prevents certain people from dating others. You are not put into a league, that league bullshit is you yourself telling yourself you're not good enough, and if you believe it, so will the girls you're hitting on.

You need to go out there and have the balls to make a move and be willing to take flak for it. Two weeks ago I literally had a girl loudly tell me to go **** myself and to leave at a house party because she got offended at a joke I made, and she started making a scene. Know what happened? Nothing. I told her to enjoy her night, went to a different room, found a different girl, and took her home.

There are plenty of people in life who are going to make things awkward for you. Sometimes its your fault, sometimes other people will do it on purpose just to deny you something in life, if you put your tail between your legs because you can't deal with awkwardness, then it is going to be incredibly easy for all men and women around you to control your life with small social moves that you don't know how to counter.

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Originally Posted by MVPlaya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If I pointed out all the things that I find problematic in this post I could spend all day typing, but I'm just going to point out the common thread that binds them:

You are an insecure pussy and you need to get over it.


There is no magical "looks" league that classifies people and prevents certain people from dating others. You are not put into a league, that league bullshit is you yourself telling yourself you're not good enough, and if you believe it, so will the girls you're hitting on.

You need to go out there and have the balls to make a move and be willing to take flak for it. Two weeks ago I literally had a girl loudly tell me to go **** myself and to leave at a house party because she got offended at a joke I made, and she started making a scene. Know what happened? Nothing. I told her to enjoy her night, went to a different room, found a different girl, and took her home.

There are plenty of people in life who are going to make things awkward for you. Sometimes its your fault, sometimes other people will do it on purpose just to deny you something in life, if you put your tail between your legs because you can't deal with awkwardness, then it is going to be incredibly easy for all men and women around you to control your life with small social moves that you don't know how to counter.

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thanks for being direct, i appreicate it and will learn from my mistakes..just not much experience with women