Something is going around, and despite my girlfriend's obvious physical gestures towards sex this morning I was not at all interested.
Ugh.
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Something is going around, and despite my girlfriend's obvious physical gestures towards sex this morning I was not at all interested.
Ugh.
Awwww why not? LOL Maybe if you sweated it out for a while it would go away.
Just not feeling all that aroused.Quote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I mean, I enjoy feeling ravenous and playful for sex.
We've been a little off balance because I get up at 5am and she gets up at 8. So I'm always tired by 8 or 9 at night. The other night we banged, and I lasted a good while, but honestly? I don't remember that much of it because I was half asleep, (she was the one that initiated). She told me the next morning that my performance was impressive. I don't even recall the orgasm.
This is so sad.
That's hot!
You didn't tell her you didn't remember did you?
Of course I did.
Orgasms are overrated anyway.
Mine are rarely anything spectacular.
You are mean!
You have a tough girlfriend.
LOL
How am I mean?
If my girlfriend is "tough", I wouldn't know what to make of the rest of you.
I wouldn't know what to think or do if my bf told me his orgasms aren't anything spectacular. I would think I'm not all that good in bed.
Oh, well we've already discussed it.Quote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't know. There have been a couple occasions where it was pretty good. But I don't have any memorable orgasms.
oh damn. hope you feel better.
i got a cold too, first time in years, i can't seem to shift it they same way i used to. i always get a cold when i kiss a man. it's worth it babay! i am taking chlorella and vit c and neem. it sucks, hope you get well soon just as much as i hope i do too. :)
There is something going around. Be thankful it's not Swine Flu in your town!
Not funny... we have Swine Flu here... :PQuote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Luckily I haven't caught that yet... but I'm not sure about the lovely West Nile Virus we have here. They say many people here have probably had it without too much trouble, just a few don't handle it well at all.
Not looking forward to the upcoming flu season... it's been raining for weeks and starting to cool down.
Fras if you don't have much in regards to orgasms that could affect your perceptions of sex. Which means your views may differ noticeably from the general male perceptions toward sex. Might even be a sign of a possible problem?
Never been with a man who didn't cry out every once in a while at least.
Don't piss me off.
Why would I say that to be funny?
My point was very clear.
To be thankful that it's not swine flu and it's only a common cold that they have.
That was my point.
The hell?
oh for fck sake, the swine flu will not kill as many people as the normal flu will. fcking hype about shit. the vaccine is much more dangerous. shitheads shitheads shitheads, thats what i think of the who and pharma and obama and the eu, fck them all; assholes who think that they can continue to make up shit and make us do what they want. i wont lie down. i'll die fighting
I generally feel like everything leading up to the orgasm is great, and instead of a climax, it's just kinda like "aw, the ride is over...".Quote:
Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Then again, I'm beginning to wonder about the condoms.
Sometimes I prefer handjobs and oral just because I can feel more.
She won't let me in her behind without one, still.
scummy scumQuote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hey now, that's mean. I'm an ass fiend, I can't help it.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Wouldn't want to do it without her being reasonably clean back there, though.
thats fine so whats your problem with a condom from behind? you're contradicting yourself
Well, really, it's a combination of things.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
One, we have anal so infrequently that it feels like it's always the first time. Y'know, it's kinda awkward and I'm worrying about hurting her, and she's a bit timid, and it's just such a mood killer. Most of the time when I ejaculate from that sex it's very just, bleh. Worse than my usual orgasms. Plus, I'm moving so slow that I don't really feel much of anything. There's more pressure, yeah, but since I'm wearing a condom, that's really the biggest difference. I mean, I'm essentially f*cking the condom, which happens to be in a hole, where the hole is doesn't really matter so much.
Hell I could f*ck a horse and the experience wouldn't be all that different.
lol i love the horse reference, i have much admiration for you now, i dunno why, maybe coz you made me laugh
Haha, why did you "LoL"?
I'm glad someone can get a kick out of my sexual despair.
I really want to have good anal sex!
It's frustrating sometimes because mentally I can be very sexually charged, but either I'm too tired, or our timing isn't synchronized.
Like right now, I have so much dirt running through my mind.
Plus I think she needs some TLC and I'm not up for that right now, which means she won't be up for any raunchy sex.
-sigh-
-sniffle-
-blows nose-
i feel kind of sorry for your girlfriend. Trying to do her up the ass all the time. What's in it for her?
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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Condoms can be a real downer for sex at times. You're not the first guy I've heard that had a hard time getting the most out of the experience due to a condom. Even from the female perspective it just doesn't feel right, and you miss out on feeling the guy cum (which seems to change the whole experience somehow).
If you were adamant to never have any kids, I'd suggest you go ahead and get a vasectomy... or ask her to get on birth control (if you're willing to risk it on 89% pregnancy prevention). Adding spermicide should increase the preventative abilities as well. I think I heard something about 5 year birth control for women? That might be worth looking into as well.
I keep waiting for the reversible vasectomy...
I don't know, maybe I should quit this relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Actually I'd have to say the one thing I hate most about condoms is that the pre-lubricated kind tend to have a horrible taste, even non-lubricated leave things tasting like latex so when I go back down to finish the job it's just, bleh.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
vacectomys are reversable
Cheers!
Valikie
Out of the many posts, this one attract my attention. I believe it is possible for anyone to participate.
Excellent ! I like it very much.
Not always... complications can arise... and when it comes to sterility you had better be sure you're willing to handle the consequences of it becoming "permanent."Quote:
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