Is that possible?
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Is that possible?
Not the way I love people, it isn't.
^ ditto...
I've run into a number of girls who could be "in love" with 3 or 4 men in the same night.
Nope, If you think you do, it ain't love...
Were those girls scantily dressed and walking up and down the sidewalk?Quote:
Originally Posted by chump4u [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, yeah. Aren't those the girls we're talking about?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Maybe I misunderstood the question.
Infatuated maybe but not in love. In that case I would call it a crush or infatuation
You can like a lot of people. You can't love more than one person at a time. No.
I agree with everyone here. You can only truly love one person at one time.....you can be infatuated with several.
I'm concerned here, Torn.......your other thread is about leaving your husband for cheating on you. Are you actually considering leaving because of someone else?
To play the devil's advocate: I love more than one child.... why not more than one adult?
LoL @ Vashti. I would play into that but my answer would sound extremely wrong. Two different kinds of love.
That's true... the love of a parent for a child is a stronger bond.
But can you make the distinction between platonic and non platonic love?Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think the answer is yes you can love more than one person in a non platonic fashion, but in reality you love no one but yourself.
This is like debating whether the bible or evolution is the answer to our past. The debate will rage until the sun burns out. You can figure out where I stand on that by reading my last sentence.
There's no reason to think platonic or maternal love is any different from romantic love. So, if you can love more than one child, why should partners be any different?
Biologically, true monogamy is rare... so certainly we are wired for multiple partners.
I'm just helping Vash be a she-devil, btw.
Bluesummer...I am not leaving because of someone else .....I am leaving because I was hurt too many ways
Okay, but you were asking about being in love with two men.....this led me to believe you have an interest in someone else. It just made me wonder if that was contributing to you wanting to leave.
I dont think thats true. Platonic love for say, children is maternal, never ending feeling that gives you desire to protect them from harm/look after them and want the best for them. Amongst other things.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Romantic love involves a desire to be close, to be intimate, to spend your lives together etc etc..and i dont have them feelings for my son so therefore they are both the same and different in so many ways.
i dont believe it is possible to truly truly love more than one person at once.
Aside from the lack of sexual attraction for your children (or so I hope), maternal love is greater for your child than it is for a lover. Therefore, if it is possible to love more than one child, I still think it is possible to love more than one person romantically.
i love all the women of the world, i just love them at different levels.
raverboy
If you are in love with another man is because your current relationship isn't working, so you are in a big confusion and mess. Try to think about what you really want for yourself.