Do you ever just want to kiss and hold your partner tightly all night in order to feel close to them? Or do you tend to use kissing and hugging just as a precursor to sex?
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Do you ever just want to kiss and hold your partner tightly all night in order to feel close to them? Or do you tend to use kissing and hugging just as a precursor to sex?
We hug and snuggle all the time. It's nice.
If we do so in bed at night, it often leads to sex, but not always.
Isnt that what huggings for?..to lead to sex :P
we hug a lot too, I grab her all the time for a snuggle. in fact, it's usually her who's pushing me away going "I'm trying to cook dinner..!"/"baby, my show's on..."/"darl, we're in the supermarket!" I think it's a healthy way of showing someone you care for them, or reminding a long-lasting lover that you still find them irresistible.
as for leading to sex, I leave that to kissing...:)
lol I push away too. I dont mind a hug or holding on a minute but any long than that and I get cranky, in public anyway. My bf always gets hard as hell by hugging. -_0 I only hug him in bed if im ready to get slimy and nasty.
100% for Yes so far...Impressive
We hug and cuddle all the time. Sometimes it leads to sex, most of the time it doesn't. We just enjoy the warmth of each other and kisses :)
No, I hate when random people just want to hug you to say hello. So ****ing awkward.
I absolutely HATE serial hugging, too, but I think she meant hugs that included your significant other - not strangers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I like hugging people I feel genuine affection for, but if they aren't a good hugger, I never do it again.
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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
interesting...what's a 'good' hug to you?
when I hug someone I genuinely care for I wrap them up in me, and like to be wrapped up in them, even if only for a sec.
I like to hug Idaho style,,, Thats when she has her back to you so it gives your hands something to do :)
A good hug is warm, enthusiastic, and tight. A bad one is the equivelent of an air kiss (why bother?).Quote:
Originally Posted by flea [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I love to hug my bf,and I love when he does it in return . I miss it... :/
I hate serial huggers too..from strangers or people i hardly know, grrr
I do love to be wrapped up in my mans arms, to feel close and secure.
That can be in bed too, but in bed i guess it would prob lead to sex 90% of the time, actually thats a lie, im too damn horny so would be 100% :P
Often when i hug my girlfriend, i'm not trying to initiate sex. Perhaps occassionally that is the case. Kissing is better for initiating sex.
Of course, often hugging will follow on to other things.
Sometimes, because of the New Age, Heal-ier Than Thou population in Santa Fe I witness the bizarre "Let's hug until our souls touch" kind of hug. This usually happens at Whole Foods or at the Farmer's Market. Two dirtheads encounter one another, exchange stoned smiles and...meld. This can last for anywhere up to three minutes. It's excruciating to watch.
One of my favorite things to do is cuddle up in bed and watch a movie with my husband. Admittedly, we sometimes have to pause the movie for a shag break, but usually the hugging is just hugging.
I've experienced a bad hug before. Remember at 8th grade dances where guys barely BARELY touched you? Imagine that in hug form.Quote:
Originally Posted by flea [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I went to hug a not very close friend but good friend goodbye (I was moving to WA) and I grabbed onto him like a normal hug and he was so skinny so that was awkward but to make it worse he barely touched me back so it almost seemed like an unwanted hug. Worst hug ever -_-
So, wait.Quote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You're back with that guy?
Seems like you're dodging my question.
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Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
ahhh, yes....awkward hugs are DEFINITELY a good example of a bad hug. that can come with barely known family members at get-togethers too. ewwww.
as for 8th grade dances, I was never one of those guys that stood in file along the wall watching the fun the girls were having and acting all shy and shit. I was in there! seriously, I loved to dance at local junior discos and stuff (hey, it was the 80's - we all danced ridiculously, lol), and more often than not found that girls liked to dance with me. actually, my friend and I were the same, so we would have a whole ring of girls dancing with us, while all the 'cool' guys stood along the wall watching.
and they were still watching when we were playing tonsil-hockey at the end of the night with them. :)
Perfect description. You described it much better than I did.Quote:
Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
whenever i hold someone for too long, i get hot and irritated from all the body heat...
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I love hugs, there are some people i know who are amazing to hug, don't know why they just are. Can't stand those hugs where one or both people sitck their bums out so only shoulders and arms are touching, just isn't a proper hug.