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Just curious to see what you guys would think if you found out your girlfriend masturbates / watches porn.
Do you feel hurt by it? Feel like you're not good enough? Not care?
And if she turns down sex with you, then resorts to the activities mentionned above, how do you feel?
I'm curious because I have had problems with my boyfriend and I felt quite hurt. Just wondering what guys would think if they were put in the situation.
Doesnt every woman masturbate? I sure as hell do but dont watch porn..but i prefer sex and wouldnt turn down sex so that i could masturbate..unless he was joining in :P
If he is choosing to **** his hand rather than you there is serious problems..
Oh snap :D
Well, I would definitely be hurt if she'd rather watch porn than sleep with me. I understand why it bothers women in general, and I can see it bothering me in some ways too, however if my partner simply enjoyed watching porn and it didn't obstruct the gateway to the bed, I'd learn to get past my emotions and insecurities. Are you sure you could handle 6-7 goes per night? Some guys fap that much, you know.
:surprised Wow. That's a lot!Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah it is lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
surely 6 or 7 times a night would affect their sex life?
maybe i'm just being naive lol
I can go 6-7 times sometimes. Usually there is a period every month, usually a week long where I get like that. I think men go through similar cycles that women go through. There is a high point and a low point, where I'm not even slightly interested in anything.
HOT! i dont care as long as shes not touching any guys.
my life is one long cycle of wanting to be ****ed 6/7 times every day :P :(
It's hard for me to retain interest in sex after the first go, but sometimes I can go 3 times, but over time.
I believe I'm physically barred from doing more. I remember masturbating like 4 times in one day when I was in middle school and it felt like someone slammed my balls with a book by the 4th time.
My girlfriend knows when she's at the peak of her cycle because she'll be consistently wet throughout the day, having to change underwear multiple times.
That, and I can tell because her voice pitch will be higher, she'll smile around me a lot, and be extra sweet.
As long as it doesn't interfere with my sex with her I couldn't care less.
We need more women like this damn it.Quote:
Originally Posted by qwerty123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There are millions of them out there, they're called 35 year olds. If you think you're insatiable, start dating a 35-45 year old, you'll be humbled.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Edit: OP, I love women that are able to be honest about their porn and masturbation practices (and, of course, love doing it). A girl like that won't think she's a whore for putting a penis in her mouth.
I duno, I'm 24 and have a hard time finding a man to keep up with me. 6-7 times a day is perfect for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chupacabras [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just wait, it'll get worse.
LOL I don't WANT it to. I can't get enough as it is. Just found out I had a G-spot, too :3Quote:
Originally Posted by Chupacabras [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't want my vaginal walls to crumble.
Or my vagina to fall out.
Satisfy me and I won't be greedy.
I'll last longer :)
im 22 .Quote:
Originally Posted by Chupacabras [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The hornyness you feel now is nothing compared to the cock-scurvy you're going to have at 35.
way to make it sound like VD :D
You'll only be able to treat the symptoms, not cure it.
I prefer reading erotica to watching porn. Guys seem to go for the more visual stuff.
I like reading erotica, too. It helps me find the mood. Writing about it is equally as fun. If I need to get off quick, though, pr0n is the best.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
porn doesnt do anything for me really
same
well male porn doesn't do anything for me
but the female stuff does
and it depends on my mood... sometimes i feel like masturbating, sometimes i feel like having sex
but like a guy, i do need visuals :S
otherwise it's just like hitting a piece of wood... it just hurts
I'm sure they do, if they say they don't, they're lieing.Quote:
Originally Posted by qwerty123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I most certainly do, but I do feel that sometimes it is thought that guys are the only ones who masturbate.
I don't see why us girls can't have a bit of fun too.
The only porn I would ever watch is if I were the fcuking star. Call it cocky all you want... but I have tried to watch porn and it is just not hot to me. The girls are really ugly. So are the guys. I'd rather read it and rub it or just get my toy out and play.
i tend to find my inner child when watching porn and burst into fits of giggles!Quote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LMAO! True! I mean what woman really moans like that. It's just pathetic.
I'm whats known as a screamer, and often called "porny". I'm hoping against hope I don't sound like that (my boyfriend insisted just tonight while it was hot I was biting the edge of the bed, he preferred my yelling).Quote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Maybe I should record myself and see how I sound lol.
When viewing porn, I usually have the sound off; I do like my visuals. But it has to be just right (I, too, can not subject myself to pr0n with men in it...). The women have to have a certain look, and it's more of a pain to FIND it, than actually make something up in my own head.
But then it gets confusing because I think about women, and occasionally I want a penis, and somehow the two meld and I worry about myself :upset: but that's for another post.
And oh yes, porn can be great for a giggle. My BFF and I habitually engage in Pr0n 4 the lulz. For this, see "Bible Black".
It's funny my bf recorded my sound once, just cause he told me I always super loud, and I didn't believe it, i mean, I don't think any girls can scream like the porno stars.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilly1185 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
anyway, I don't think I'm loud at all.
Thats exactly how I feel, but since they usually only show tits and ass and penis, I guess most people don't care lolQuote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I wouldn't really think much of it; to me, masturbation is just normal so there is no harm done :)Quote:
Originally Posted by bex4566 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I wouldn't feel hurt by it, and I wouldn't feel like I'm good enough. I'd be a little unsure why she would be masturbating when I'm here ;) but then again, everyone needs some 'alone-time' (hehe)Quote:
Originally Posted by bex4566 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Now this is where I would have a problem, if she was to turn down sex for masturbation, then there is obviously something wrong and I would ask questions as to why she would masturbate rather then have sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by bex4566 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You should worry if your partner masturbates or doesn't; some people don't bother with while others can't get enough of it (and usually those people don't have partners (go figure :P)). I honestly believe having sex is more exciting and helps the relationship grow rather then going solo.Quote:
Originally Posted by bex4566 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i don't think chicks watching porn is that bad.. they can be education in some ways lol..
i like to masturbate and i do it 3 or 4 times a day if i'm really feeling horny. but if my man asked to have sex with me i'd def be doing him over masturbating..