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Fellas, I'm feeling horny. The guy-round-the-corner didn't "call" last weekend but I've seen him in passing during the week and we are cool. What do you think of woman making "the call"? I know he gets juiced up Friday nights and I'm hungry even for an average lay (how desperate is that?!). Would it be acceptable to rock up on his door step wearing nice lingerie under a jacket and maybe my santa hat?!
Sure - just take some time to think out the different possible scenarios:Quote:
Originally Posted by Mia123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
* what if he's not there
* what if he's not alone
* what if he rejects you
* ...
But the idea in itself is fine - don't forget to wear a smile!
heck yeah!!! guys dont back down on this stuff. and if he does then his stupid.
Do it. I never once backed down when my ex initiated.
LOL, Mia you must be truly desperate to give the pot head another whirl. I don't know if I'd show up on his doorstep, because you may have an embarrassing walk home if he's not horny.
Plan sounds good, just set it up with him first.
Ha ha! Too much festive cheer on Friday night.. the bubbles went to more than my head lol!! I was gagging for it so yes I was prepared to give him another whirl. Unfortunately, or maybe not, his house was in darkness both Fri and last night so I had to entertain myself!
If I get the urge again (God what am I saying of course I'm going to, its the silly season after all AND I'm 40 and in my prime!!) then yes, I would set it up first.
Mia, Mia, Mia....find a deserving guy for your prime-time action :)
Primo, if I could I would, sadly Perth is woefully short on deserving guys. Our dull city doesn't have a social scene for my age range and I ain't into internet dating. Going to visit the UK in 4 wks so we'll see what's on offer in dear old blighty.
I'll do my best to stay away from Pot Head in the meantime.
Well Mia, ya, when you're single, your sex life is pretty much controlled by your options. You're 40, so most of the guys in your age group look like hell, or are taken. The ones that are hot are usually nailing younger, better looking women, because let's face it, most women over 35 look like hell too or their bodies are wasted from having kids.
I'm not talking about you specifically btw. If you're a hottie, you have some options. If you're average, then ya, it can be slim pickins' for studs at 40.
Please remember that self-respect is also attractive. You initiate a booty call, you go down to the bottom of his list. Know this.
She doesn't want a relationship GB, only a sex partner. With some guys this will keep you at the tippy top of the list.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Maybe I'm wrong though. Mia? Are you looking for a new Mr. Mia, or just to get drilled hard and bust a few nuts when you're horny?
Sure, I get that, but it's about perceived value. If he has her calling him, I'd be willing to be he never calls her again.
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
GB, you're a chick ! :P
Can't speak for every guy, but most guys that get them, love the 11pm I want to fukc you texts :)
I had a FB, and we usually switched up who called whom.
I guess it depends on established boundaries and how well you know the person.
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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
These are not contradictory statements.Quote:
Originally Posted by Primo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just text him.
Thankfully, I don't look my age. Not wishing to blow my own trumpet too much, I am pretty fit (cycle to work most days), with good skin, no stretch marks cos I ain't had kids, and am in proportion. I'd be a uk size 10 bottom, 12 top cos my boobs are DD/E cup.
Most people I meet guess my age from 36 - 38 and are surprised when I tell them I am actually 6wks off turning 41!! Its in the mind as well as the body I believe.
And yes, Primo is right, I am only after a FB, perhaps leading to a FBW. Def not a new Mr Mia. As an Aquarian I am fiercely independent, love my freedom and prefer living alone. I've done long term relationships 3 times and every time I've left because of feeling penned in after about 6yrs.
As for Pot Head, he has initiated most communication between us, I've just joined in the teasing txt games when he's been juiced up. It was fun.. which is what life is all about.
Sounds good Mia, you should be able to land a decent guy 30+ to take care of your needs. Maybe you're not looking hard enough? Try to avoid the Cheech 'n Chong types, all the cannabis has fried their sex drive. You're active and fit, you need an athletic guy that can make you still feel it the next day.
BTW, how many cats do you have?
Is this thread title for real??
Girls have been doing this for since as long as quite awhile even!
Uncovered the shocking truth, drunken sluts sometimes make booty calls late at night!!!!
Say it ain't so!!! *gasp* Oh the horror!!!
Slut I am most definately not! I have never made a booty call, drunk or otherwise. And if I did decide to make one in the future I am confident enough to make it without getting bladdered first.
Primo.. why the question about the cats? I'm intrigued? I "look after" one.. belongs to an ex who moved o'seas. The cat and I tolerate each other. I do have two little dogs, my best friends. And yes, you are right about the type of guy I need. I used to go to a gym but the guys there were so into themselves it wasn't funny.
One will come along when I least expect it. Until then there's always BOD!!
You need self-respect. Don't do it! Don't be a loser and do a bootycall. It's so distasteful. Find a hobby or something. I'm not sure what you meant by being bladdered first, but it doesn't sound good. I'm sure you have a lot of self-respect for yourself. Calling someone for booty will not make things better, trust me. I will compare it to getting hammered. You feel great at first, but then you get a hangover in the morning. It's the same with a bootycall. You feel great having sex with that person, but you will feel shameful afterwards. Anyway, it will feel better if you have sex with someone you actually care about and are in a relationship with, am I wrong?
To me, bootycalls are a part of a vicious cycle. You get lonely, you find a one night stand, you feel shame afterwards, you get lonely, you find a one night stand, you feel like shame afterwards.
I'm not sure why people on this forum are supporting one night stands, I'm confused. I thought we are supposed to be pro-love. Isn't love about forming relationships and being happy? At least, that's the end result that we all want, being happy.
I have zero respect for women like that.Quote:
Originally Posted by speakerspoke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Is this guy for real? I say no to one night stands. I must be the number one idiot. Oh, no, I don't have sex with slutty women, darn I'm so stupid. Thanks for giving guys a bad name.Quote:
Originally Posted by davidtorres [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't even know where to begin with this one. I'm guessing your book is not a number one seller.Quote:
Originally Posted by sarwatmj [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So Raze has no respect for drunken sluts? Wow, way to make a brave stand there! lmao!!
What next? A courageous diatribe on how you hate aids and everyone else should to not because it's aids or them having their own opinions that they formed on their own, but simply because you do? lmao
Stay tuned for more boorish posturing by Raze as he wow's the audience with his encyclopedic knowledge on anal warts and how he over came his infinite shame by almost fessing up to the doctors questions on how he got them, during a routine check up. lmao
Oh and will some one educate this Raze fellow that actual "drunken sluts" don't respect themselves, which is the real problem rather than Raze's narrow minded opinion of them.
Who ever "them" is....lol
I have no problem with drunk people as long as they don't get billigerent. Correct, I have no respect for sluts. You can be drunk and not be a slut. I'm not making a brave stand I'm voicing an opinion because I actually support relationships.Quote:
Originally Posted by speakerspoke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As for the second part, I have no idea what you are trying to say. Please, read what I write before you quote me.
If you make a bootycall, you are at the end of the totempole. That's all there is to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by speakerspoke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm all for partying and going wild, but you can have a good time without making a bootycall.
It's not a narrowminded opinion, if you make a bootycall you are desperate. Why not have a relationship and then have great sex? Please read the posts regarding regrets after bootycalls/one-night stands and you will understand what I've been saying.
So your thinking in total absolutes is not a narrow minded opinion? lmao
I have about as much interest in "debating" you Homer as I have in watching the Bill O'Reily Factory. lmao
Welcome to the no spin zone, you're a douche bag, congratulations! lmao
Oh fk, here we go again...Quote:
Originally Posted by speakerspoke [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Stop being a troll
Um, Mia. Here's the thing. FWB, NSA, FF, whatever- they're ALL a booty call. It's casual sex without emotional or social attachment. That's what a booty call IS.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mia123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There are bigger trolls under the LF bridge, believe me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Raze [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's totally okay for a woman to initiate a booty call as long as she has NO higher expectations and as long as she's doing it for the right reasons, i.e: wanting sex REALLY badly. So I say go for it Mia.
All this talk of self-respect is ridiculous. Guys like to feel sexy and wanted, too. I hate women who think men have to initiate all the time. Are you girls adults or children? I want to be your partner, not your babysitter. If you're going to expect men to do all the work, I think we should take away your right to vote. If anything, I respect girls with initiative even more.
Whoa, easy there, dude. Yes I agree that women should take the initiative more, but even with the crazy system of dating we have now, it's not like we do *all* the work. And even if we did, it's no reason to deny women's suffrage!Quote:
Originally Posted by SirWagginston [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Why not? In order to keep my rights as a citizen, I have to register to be shuttled off to some front line to be shot at. Women can vote for warmongering politicians if they want to, without having to worry about such consequences. I doubt they will think about their decision as carefully as I will.Quote:
Originally Posted by phys251 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
We don't do 100% of the work, no. But you can't say women still do all the cooking and cleaning and child-rearing and what-not. Guys who expect women to do all of those things are now considered sexists. The same standard does not seem to apply to women who expect men to make all the first moves, open the door, and generally be the bread-winner. I propose that men and women share all responsibilities equally. But of course, that's preposterous.
Ladies message me your number if your in the Washington DC area and I will booty call you later! Imma do my own test and find out whats up. haha
I agree with you. I don't believe anyone should grow up expecting anything. You can have standards, sure. If someone doesn't meet them, then move on. I think it's silly that we enter into relationships with the preconceived notion that we can change a person to fit our own lives. We don't think this consciously, but it still happens. Two people can't be perfectly in sync throughout their entire lives.Quote:
Originally Posted by SirWagginston [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It is an old standard that men are supposed to open doors for women. While I am not opposed to it, I don't get crazy if it doesn't happen either. I enjoy retaining my sense of independence. I don't find it insulting if a man doesn't do it. I would be pissed if he let the door swing in my face though.
honey - I'd have been playing with BOBs (Battery Operating Boyfriends) if I hadn't initiated all of my booty calls in the last three years before meeting my present boyfriend. Take control - ask him to come over and help you do something and meet him at the door in a teddy. Tell him you're feeling frisky and do him right there in the sunroom. Wear a short skirt, bend over and let him see you're not wearing panties. It's your orgasm(s) - get it done!
Don't be ridiculous. Women give birth to male babies, for whom the majority would gladly kill or be killed for. Of course women think about consequences, and in fact tend to indulge in less risky behaviors in general. Besides, we have started a hell of a lot fewer wars than men have.Quote:
Originally Posted by SirWagginston [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't care if you want to sit around and wait for women to hit on you, but don't think you are owed it because you can be drafted into service. Some women join voluntarily, and in other countries, they are drafted, too.
This is hilarious. Men deny women the right to serve on battle lines because they don't want women in combat roles, then men deny women the right to vote because women won't get drafted because they don't need people drafted for non-combat roles.Quote:
Originally Posted by SirWagginston [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sir Wagginston, you are a ****ing retard.
Okay, question: are you hot?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mia123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I have absolutely no problem with women taking the initiative (why do I always have to do all the work, gets tiring), but are you sure your advance would be welcome. Case in point, back in college this girl knocked on my apartment door wearing a raincoat and nothing but lingerie underneath. I declined. The look on her face was absolutely priceless when she realized she would walk home in the cold wearing just that at 1AM.
I still crack up every time I think about it.
My boyfriend had that happen to him once. A while back, this girl he was sleeping with, but not committed to, came around one night in a short skirt after he explicitly told her NOT to. She got all butt hurt when he turned her away.Quote:
Originally Posted by MVPlaya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I actually respect countries like Israel where women can be drafted into combat roles, too. I'm not saying this problem pervades all cultures, but I think it's a problem Stateside.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hey, I've turned down booty calls before. If I sense that's something whacked up about her, or frankly, if she's not at least mildly attractive, then no sex on that night.Quote:
Originally Posted by lahnnabell [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Otherwise, goodbye sleep!