I said I hated my girlfriend's biggest personality trait even when I actually don't?

Okay, it all happened late a couple of days ago. We were talking in a loving mood, but then suddenly she just changed the conversation topic. I then said "I hate it when you talk all loving and stuff, then suddenly change the topic." even though I'm actually fine with it alot of the time.

And then she said that doing that is actually her biggest personality trait, which I had no idea about.

I then told her I didn't actually hate it, and I'm fine with it most of the time. But she just keeps calling me a liar, and wants me to leave her alone?

PLEASE help me, I don't know what to do. I love this girl with all my heart, what can I do to get her to love me (Even though she already might do, but isn't showing any signs.) and talk to me properly again?

-_- You shouldn't say things you don't actually mean.

Are you guys like 16? Dont all conversations have to change at some point? Do you have to talk like that for infinity? Or did she interrupt you? Interrupting would be the only thing I could understand here, and interrupting isnt a good quality

Well, you guys have a point.

But what can I do to 'get her back'?

You said something stupid, and she's being over sensitive.

You guys have some work to do...

WHAT can I do though...?

I don't know, how old are you two?

She sounds immature.

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I then told her I didn't actually hate it, and I'm fine with it most of the time. But she just keeps calling me a liar

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Well, she is kind of right. Anyway, you have raised an issue so if you want to get along again, you are going to have to address it. Remember that, with women, you usually have to address the feelings before the problem can be solved. You hurt her feelings so you need to address this first. Here is a short article on fighting fairly:

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She's refusing to talk to me...

What on Earth can I do?

She's a baby.

I kinda agree with you there. She's not even letting me explain. :/

Let her be on her own for a while. When she's ready to talk to you, she will. If she's waiting for you to keep chasing after her, she's delusional on how relationships should work.

I feel that if I let her be on her own for awhile, she'll just move on...

And me and her both go on this online game website too. And she wouldn't talk to me on MSN, so I went on the website, and she was in one of the 'rooms' on there and she wouldn't talk to me at all. And it seemed as if she was flirting with some guy... WTF?!

How the f-ck can "talking all loving and stuff" and then suddenly changing the topic be someone's BIGGEST personality trait?? She sounds like a complete moron.

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Originally Posted by TheCopperBlade [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I feel that if I let her be on her own for awhile, she'll just move on...

And me and her both go on this online game website too. And she wouldn't talk to me on MSN, so I went on the website, and she was in one of the 'rooms' on there and she wouldn't talk to me at all. And it seemed as if she was flirting with some guy... WTF?!

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You have just encountered your first beytch!!!

Don't let her manipulate you, she is having a power trip.

At some point however pretty the girl is, however good the sex is, a man has to man up and win some respect from his other half.

So to me you should ditch her, and look for someone else.

Yeah, he seems kinda whiny, too.

enjoy the silence.

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She sounds like a nutjob and a pain in the ass. Are you sure you want her back It'll just be more of the same.

Well, yeah. She isn't usually all bitchy, I dunno if she's having anymore problems, and if she is, she hasn't even bothered to tell me about them.

I love her, and I need some way of getting her back... help?

I may have just become too attached to her.

You could grovel around on the ground and go belly-up at her feet like a beaten dog. Have you tried that?

Or.... you could tell her to go **** herself and call her bluff.

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Originally Posted by TheCopperBlade [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I feel that if I let her be on her own for awhile, she'll just move on...

And me and her both go on this online game website too. And she wouldn't talk to me on MSN, so I went on the website, and she was in one of the 'rooms' on there and she wouldn't talk to me at all. And it seemed as if she was flirting with some guy... WTF?!

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That's everybody's biggest fear and the reason why we panic and do the most damage post break up. Overattention, begging, etc. It's a simple fact that people do not just move on in a split second. It's absolutely impossible. If she were to move on this quickly, she didn't feel for you the way you felt for her and it wouldn't work anyway. Do not be scared. Just let her be.