CUTE GUYS vs CHARISMATIC GUYS

okay, so you meet these two guys: one is really sexy and handsome: nice muscles, cool hair, great skin, great facial features ect...but the other one is really average looking: hardly any muscle, normal and boring hair, forgettable face ect

but there is a catch. the really sexy one is a sweet, cute, caring lovely guy, he doesn't really flirt and doesn't crack the best of jokes but still makes you go arrrr:D because hes such a nice guy...and coz hes sexy ofcourse!

but the other one is the complete opposite: hes charismatic, witty, knows what to say when to say it. his jokes are immense but hes not great looking

which one would you go for and why?

Which one can give you an orgasm?

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Which one can give you an orgasm?

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both are good in bed

LOL, I'd be more attracted to the funny guy.....the cute guy who is too sweet, would likely go to 'friendzone'.

I am a dude, but if I pretend they are girls, I would have to say the funnier one because what's inside stays longer than what's outside.

They both sound good to me. I'd roll them both up into one. But if I really had to choose, I'd go the funny one.

I'm so glad your relationship view is so narrow minded

If I don't find funny dude attractive then he ain't going to be able to laugh me all the way into bed. Yes, sense of humour is very important but then so is sexual attraction. Besides, you said cute guy was sweet and caring and lovely - I like sweet, caring and lovely!

I hate these kinds of threads.

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Originally Posted by Jas_mine [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If I don't find funny dude attractive then he ain't going to be able to laugh me all the way into bed. Yes, sense of humour is very important but then so is sexual attraction. Besides, you said cute guy was sweet and caring and lovely - I like sweet, caring and lovely!

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ooh safe! so being witty and funny isn't all that important if you have the looks? taylor lautner is like that: great body but no sense of wit and totally dumb as ****!..yet people love him!

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ooh safe! so being witty and funny isn't all that important if you have the looks? taylor lautner is like that: great body but no sense of wit and totally dumb as ****!..yet people love him!

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That kinda man would bore the tits off me.

If he doesn't have a personality, wit or humour, he's gone.

I'm looking for long term qualities... good looks fade and sweetness gets old after a while. A man with a witty sense of humor can probably handle the coming years much better. Besides laughter is a natural stress reducer... nothing quite like a man who knows how to ease the tension in a relationship.

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Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

That kinda man would bore the tits off me.

If he doesn't have a personality, wit or humour, he's gone.

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lol! fair doos.....so im assuming taylor lautner bores the tits off you?

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm looking for long term qualities... good looks fade and sweetness gets old after a while. A man with a witty sense of humor can probably handle the coming years much better. Besides laughter is a natural stress reducer... nothing quite like a man who knows how to ease the tension in a relationship.

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yeaah i get you. charisma and being able to stand out from the crowd is important in showing your outgoin, fun and stuff. but then if your unable to see the goods coming out of sweetness and it gets old for you then...i dunno, what am i meant to think about that

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Originally Posted by azad [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

yeaah i get you. charisma and being able to stand out from the crowd is important in showing your outgoin, fun and stuff. but then if your unable to see the goods coming out of sweetness and it gets old for you then...i dunno, what am i meant to think about that

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Sweetness is good in moderation... sometimes you just want to cuss... or laugh at your predicament... not always discuss in depth how it affected your emotional well being. That's what I mean.

Women do not expect men to act like women... they expect them to act like men. It's hard to explain, but there is a sense of calmness that comes from knowing a guy will act serious when it's really a serious situation. It keeps women level... or at least, it does for me.

How about having them square off in a decathalon to see if who would be the better guy?

The events can be, to name a few: cookoff, talent show, swimsuit, a threesome with you, and so on. Winner of the majority gets you.

I think that's the only fair way to decide.

Can you tell I just watched Billy Madison recently?

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Originally Posted by azad [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

lol! fair doos.....so im assuming taylor lautner bores the tits off you?

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To be honest I'd never even heard of him. So I checked him out on Google and he's not my type even physically.

Don't get me wrong, he's not a bad looking guy.....just not my type. He looks a bit too 'clean cut' for me, I like 'manly' guys, not 'girly' guys.

It's not enough for a guy to be just 'good looking'.

I've chatted with many good looking guys, who turned out to have the personality of a goldfish. Needless to say, I havn't and don't stick around because I soon get bored and despite how they may look.

I've chatted to 'average' guys, who have the personality and can make me laugh and it's those kinda guys I've always formed relationships with.

Yeah, who the hell is this Taylor dude?

Pretty guys don't do it for me either, I mean they are great to look at and everything but I prefer my men more masculine, more rough and rugged. C'mon, if I wanted pretty then I would just date a girl!

My previous response was highly misunderstood - being just funny is not enough and neither is being just good looking, there has to be a middle-ground, some kind of balance between the two. Would I date a funny guy who was massively unattractive? Nope. In the same way that I wouldn't date a good looking guy if he was absolutely bland.

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Originally Posted by Jas_mine [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

being just funny is not enough and neither is being just good looking, there has to be a middle-ground, some kind of balance between the two. Would I date a funny guy who was massively unattractive? Nope. In the same way that I wouldn't date a good looking guy if he was absolutely bland.

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Same for me.

The guys I've formed relationships with, were not guys I just didn't find attractive at all.

Maybe just average looking as in nothing spectacular to behold, but not something from a horror movie either lol. Someone I could date, but someone I wouldn't be going crazy to date either.
The attraction for me grew and because they could make me laugh or there were other aspects of their personality I liked and found endearing.

Yeah, many guys I have dated are not what you would call conventionally good-looking but they just have had that certain something about them. Naturally when you are involved with somebody you find them mega attractive but the majority of the general public probably wouldn't. It's funny how you now look back at some exes and think did I really date him?! It's strange how you no longer find them attractive. It explains that attraction is not just merely about appearance though.

You should date the funny guy but sleep with the sweet guy in secret.

If I were to make a two-sided argument like this about women, it would go...

- Bisexuals
- Lesbians
- Heterosexuals

The smarter one.

F*** the adorable moron, and then hook up with the intelligent freak. Problem solved. I mean, its not like your going to marry one of them.

i agree looks aren't everything in fact a guy who is average looking in the face can actually be sexy. Its all in the attitude and how they treat you.