How do i get over a guy

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10-10-04, 08:45 PM
Innocence

How do i get over a guy

Hey Everyone

Yes yes..Innocence yet again...i know you must be sick of me with the same problem over and over again...but I need your help once again! :sad2:

This guy that i have liked for over 6 months now, i KNOW he doesn't like me...he doesn't react to my advances so i think it's time for me to get over him, cause really..its getting pathetic!!

How do i get over this guy!....I love him so much!! And i can't imagine myself with anyone else but him, but he doesn't feel the same way, he only likes me as a friend and i don't want to pressure him and loose his friendship :(

Is there some way that i can get over him?! Please please please please please help me! I need to get over his guy, I'm in love with him so much, but i need his friendship...so i need to get over him..please..there must be a way...please help me...theres noone else i can turn to...

Innocence :(
10-10-04, 11:17 PM
King Zarathu

Get away from him as fast as you can, and find somebody else. This is serious--my g/f went through the same thing with this other kid who didn't like her, and then I came into the picture and then she goes :love: when she finds me lol. 7 months w00t w00t. What you need is somebody else that you can love, and stay the hell away from that other boy until you can let your subconcious know that you can NEVER have that boy.

So--if you need somebody to love..I'm here ;)
11-10-04, 12:18 AM
aniretake

Yes, it feels like u want to rip your heart out. Dont worry, i might keep company to you soon...in a couple of days....
11-10-04, 12:27 AM
blue

time heals all wounds !!
11-10-04, 02:27 AM
King Zarathu

blue is hott
11-10-04, 03:50 AM
abercromqt20

hey hands off...blue's mine!
11-10-04, 04:16 AM
blue

hey sweetie ive missed ya. i saw your pic and i love your kitty oh and your hair came out really nice. ill pm you in a lil while. luv blue
11-10-04, 07:26 AM
King Zarathu

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sorry--i call blue. 14 year old, i'm 6'2" 150 lbs. so I establish my dominance. don't make me start a thread about this. ;)

lol the pic is a year old :P if you want more PM me :)
11-10-04, 04:20 PM
sfalexi

6'2" and 150 lbs?!

lol

I'm 5'4" at 160!!!! So funny hearing people's height/weight ratio.

Rod Steele
11-10-04, 05:52 PM
Innocence

Thanks everyone...but the problem is...I work with him, so i can't get away from him...and we are really good friends and go out together all the time...I can't just say .. "I don't wanna go out with you anymore" ....sooo what your saying...is i should find someone else...okay...my friends said that want to find me someone who can love me...so...CROSS FINGERS!! :(

btw - I'm 5ft 8 and 145lbs...lol..thought i would join in....my topic has totally gone off the topic!! AHHHHHH ... any more advise peoples? pwease..i'll take anything!
11-10-04, 08:48 PM
alwaysbethere

it sucks that you work with him, never go out with someone you work with again!
11-10-04, 10:06 PM
King Zarathu

you see--it's fun if you have office sex here and there. but i wouldn't get into a relationship with that person. the best i can recommend you, first, calm your feeling by getting some serious dick if you can. i mean, the 16 inch ones. hee hee. then, while ur doin' that, find somebody who loves you dearly. the dick will help sooth your feelings for the other guy become you won't be concentrated on him so much, and the guy u love (who loves you back) would finish off the deed, and u'll get over him as fast as you can.

=[LT]sK8eR2gO < n'zizzle >

by the way, i was kidding about the 16 inches. find something u prefer, even if it means a fourth of an inch :shocked: (daaaaaaaamn)
12-10-04, 05:52 AM
malpass

The best advice I can give you is you will probly like him a lot more as a friend than as more, its just because you have him as a friend and not more that you take it for granted and think by taking things further it will make things better, but it rarely works that way, relations come and go, friends are forever. Imagine if you werent friends? Respect what you have and try to ascept the fact, and of course time will heal, honestly you wouldnt believe it but time is an amazing thing.
12-10-04, 06:07 AM
sfalexi

If I were to pass on the advice of a girl I once knew, . . .

Quote:

The best way to get over a guy, is to get under another one . . .

Rod Steele
12-10-04, 06:07 AM
King Zarathu

If you did something stupid with him as a relationship you would lose the friendship. Pay close attention to what malpass said, it's excellent accurate advice.
12-10-04, 06:39 AM
blue

cute picture! you are tall. im short well not short but short compared to you!
innocence,
you need to give yourself some time apart even though you work together figure something out read a book hang out with different coworkers and stuff! i remember reading about this guy. he knows that you liked him and he was honest w/ you...so be honest w/ him and yourself and let him know that for a little while you need some time apart to get over this, but let him know that you would like to remain friends and if u telling him this sacrafices your friendsip then forget him. you are the one who is suffering here not him. take care of yourself & be honest or else you will continue to be miserable. hope things get better soon blue