Would you have introduced yourself?

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21-08-10, 08:53 AM
Tcab969

Would you have introduced yourself?

Yes I have made this same post before and I aplogize if it bothers anyone just thought i didnt get enough answers and i thought i posted it in the wrong section. I also heard that someone posted something similar. So... if you know what the post is please tell me. Thanks ^^

I saw this Absolutely gorgeous girl in the grocery store but for some reason i couldn't bring myself to say something to her and i still regret it. For all you girls or guys out there who have stories about being talked to in random places like the grocery store or the mall etc. please share or if you think it's weird to be talked to in places like grocery stores or uncomfortable share your opinion or if you think you know something funny,witty, or sweet I could have said please share.

Oh. And Hello I'm new to this website so i hope i get to know quite a few of you ^_^
22-08-10, 12:19 AM
ShannonMI

I don't think it's weird to be approached in a grocery store or mall. It's not the typical place to hit on girls, but it's almost better then a bar. At least you know the guy isn't wasted and just looking to get laid. I'm weary of meeting men in bars. I actually met my last boyfriend in the mall and we were together for 8 years. We have since broken up, but that's where we met.
23-08-10, 11:22 PM
adam95

yeah i don't think it's weird to talk to girls in a grocery store. just be friendly, not too flirty.
23-08-10, 11:28 PM
Gribble

It's a long shot but you've got nothing to lose so why not? Chat up enough pretty girls in the grocery store and you're bound to find one who'll spread for you.
24-08-10, 02:29 AM
qwertz

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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It's a long shot but you've got nothing to lose so why not? Chat up enough pretty girls in the grocery store and you're bound to find one who'll spread for you.

Gribble Gribble Gribble :emot117:
24-08-10, 02:32 AM
ShannonMI

"you're bound to find one who'll spread for you."

Gross
24-08-10, 06:54 AM
IndiReloaded

LOL, well, that IS the Endgame for many guys. Grib speaks the truth, however crudely.
24-08-10, 08:22 AM
Gribble

Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. I'm supposed to pretend that's not what I want and you ladies either apparently pretend likewise or you're really just that gullible. Bah. Screw your social norms. A guy doesn't walk up to a pretty girl and introduce himself because he wants to make a new friend. He wants to ****. Plain and simple. Friendship comes after ****ing. Maybe.
24-08-10, 09:02 AM
Tcab969

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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. I'm supposed to pretend that's not what I want and you ladies either apparently pretend likewise or you're really just that gullible. Bah. Screw your social norms. A guy doesn't walk up to a pretty girl and introduce himself because he wants to make a new friend. He wants to ****. Plain and simple. Friendship comes after ****ing. Maybe.

ROFL -Claps-
24-08-10, 09:55 AM
rain.man

Like I said in the other post, the old dude from Grumpy Old Men was spot on. Invite her back to your place to see your man-sized manicotti :)

And let me know before you do it. That clip will go viral on Youtube.
25-08-10, 05:20 AM
ShannonMI

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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. I'm supposed to pretend that's not what I want and you ladies either apparently pretend likewise or you're really just that gullible. Bah. Screw your social norms. A guy doesn't walk up to a pretty girl and introduce himself because he wants to make a new friend. He wants to ****. Plain and simple. Friendship comes after ****ing. Maybe.

Hahahaha I know most men want a lady who "spreads", but some want relationships as well, right? At least I would hope so.
25-08-10, 05:38 AM
Gigabitch

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Originally Posted by ShannonMI [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hahahaha I know most men want a lady who "spreads", but some want relationships as well, right? At least I would hope so.

If by "relationship", you mean she'll keep spreading for him so he won't have to go "grocery shopping" so much, then yes.
25-08-10, 06:21 AM
ShannonMI

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If by "relationship", you mean she'll keep spreading for him so he won't have to go "grocery shopping" so much, then yes.

Hahahahahaha men are ridiculous
25-08-10, 06:54 AM
Gribble

Men---real men, not the whiny, teary-eyed metrosexuals society has warped some of us into--want sex. Feelings develop after.
27-08-10, 05:16 PM
iFlirt4u

In a grocery store you say? You could have opened with "My, those melons look so juicy..." <JOKE>

Seriously though, I think people in the modern age have forgotten we're social beings and one of the nicest and simplest things that can happen is to have someone acknowledge your existence. Saying hi to the girl in the store a nice, tiny, little compliment and is likely to engender her more to you than otherwise. I think you want to avoid feeling that you have to make a big introduction of the sort "Hi, my name's Troy McLure and I think great and we should date" etc. Take it down a notch, just say hi and leave it at that, or maybe compliment her sweater and following it up with a question, see where it takes you...

Just my two cents
27-08-10, 06:04 PM
Rich

If your looking for a girl, and you see one that you like, it doesnt matter where you are just go over and have a chat. Eventually it will become natural.

The other day on the train I sat near to a girl and just started up a conversation (but I didnt try to get her number or anything because I have a gf). We ended up having a right laugh together. Its got to the point now that I dont even think twice about talking to a girl. If you just keep doing it mate, it will become just something you do, like breathing.
28-08-10, 10:14 PM
Tcab969

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Originally Posted by Rich [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If your looking for a girl, and you see one that you like, it doesnt matter where you are just go over and have a chat. Eventually it will become natural.

The other day on the train I sat near to a girl and just started up a conversation (but I didnt try to get her number or anything because I have a gf). We ended up having a right laugh together. Its got to the point now that I dont even think twice about talking to a girl. If you just keep doing it mate, it will become just something you do, like breathing.

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Originally Posted by iFlirt4u [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

In a grocery store you say? You could have opened with "My, those melons look so juicy..." <JOKE>

Seriously though, I think people in the modern age have forgotten we're social beings and one of the nicest and simplest things that can happen is to have someone acknowledge your existence. Saying hi to the girl in the store a nice, tiny, little compliment and is likely to engender her more to you than otherwise. I think you want to avoid feeling that you have to make a big introduction of the sort "Hi, my name's Troy McLure and I think great and we should date" etc. Take it down a notch, just say hi and leave it at that, or maybe compliment her sweater and following it up with a question, see where it takes you...

Just my two cents

Thanks alot you two i appreciate it