girls, does size matter????

this might sound weird asking, but here it goes...
i dont think i am small, however i know most of my mates are bigger..i know this not from perving at them because i am very straight. it may be because of the different angle im looking at it from...but my question is, what is the average size of a penis, and girls, does size really matter? like, if a girls last experience was with a guy quite hung, will she be dissapointed when her next experience is not as big? u see, the prob with me (well i dont know if it is a problem, but i wanna know if it is), when its cold, it is very small, but when errected, its quite large...
replies from anyone will be appreciated
cheers

me personally my preferance i like 7 inches or bigger and thick i dont care if its curved staright or what not....now a small one is ok as long as its not 4 or less that i ant deal with....bu they do say oits how its used but i like my prefrences better

size always matters.. if you aren't atleast 10 inches long, girls won't care about your penis.

raverboy

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Originally Posted by Illusional

size always matters.. if you aren't atleast 10 inches long, girls won't care about your penis.

raverboy

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I think you need to add a couple zeros to that conservative figure . . .

alright if you insist...

size always matters.. if you aren't atleast 1000 inches long, girls won't care about your penis.

raverboy

:( damn im only 975 inches long.

I have been with men who are both large and smaller and i truely believe that size doesn't really matter if you know how to work it together. And i mean both the man and woman have to work together... i have been with men who are large and don't know what they are doing and the sex sucks.... then ive been with guys who are smaller and its been great sexx

me too! i have been with some huge guys that just have no clue what they were doing with it and the sex was lame. i have had my share of experiences and have come to the conclusion that its more about whether the man knows what he is doing with it over the size. BUT i do think there is such a thing as too small though. and if the guy is like ridiculously small then forget it. i mean you have to be able to feel something right?!? jk

Well me i'm 7 and a half inches, and i'm with a girl who's not fat and pretty skinny.. but it hurts her alot, so i guess size does matter in a way, but if you're too big it'll hurt, and too small it won't feel like anything, i suggest if ur under 5 inches, put a finger in her hole at the same time ^.^

Also If you know what your doing with it you will be able to stimulate her cliterous with your tool so size wouldn't matter :)

Well, I do agree with the ost of you girls, I had differnt ones too, ig and small ones. its not the size its more for me HOW LONG he will stay big and what he will do with his Joystick inside me. Big isn´t nessesarrarly more fun.
I think guys with big ones ofthen are so selfconfident that on the end they are poor lovers. Not allways but happend in my experience.
A guy who has a funny caracter and is relaxed and is sensible and tender will give you all you need with what ever his size will be.
Love June

Question: What do you mean by "how he uses it" or "knows how to work it", I mean, what EXACTLY constitutes good "skills"?? I would assume it would be different for each girl, but is there any common denominators? Is it moving around alot? Lot's of in-and-out, round-and-round, a good rhythm..a combination of a lot of these things? Honestly, the only sex I've seen are pornos, but for the most part that's just a lot of in and out motion that seems repetitive to me...and I know the girls always fake-scream being pleasured, but is this the kind of things girls like in real-life sex?

Freddie

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Originally Posted by nomas

Question: What do you mean by "how he uses it" or "knows how to work it", I mean, what EXACTLY constitutes good "skills"?? I would assume it would be different for each girl, but is there any common denominators? Is it moving around alot? Lot's of in-and-out, round-and-round, a good rhythm..a combination of a lot of these things? Honestly, the only sex I've seen are pornos, but for the most part that's just a lot of in and out motion that seems repetitive to me...and I know the girls always fake-scream being pleasured, but is this the kind of things girls like in real-life sex?

Freddie

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in addition to what he said whats your most favourite position and does it matter im assuming it does tell me if im wrong

This is an individual thing imo. Although i wouldnt know cos i aint teh girl.
So can a girl answer me this, how would a guy know if his is long and large enough for her. I mean there is a limit as to how far it can go in right...i hit the wall most times and it feels like i'm hitting a balloon ... would that be deep enough and is mine big and long enough for her????

I am a guy, but my gf is very open about what she likes. To answer the question of "knowing how to use it" its simple, pay attention to her and do what is needed to please her, even if it doesnt feel that great for you.

A small lesson: you have all heard of the g-spot i assume? Good. If you don't know, it is located on the top side (towards her stomach) of the vagina about an inch and a half in, if you hit that she will definitely like it. This means getting an angle so that you can rub against that side of the vagina easily. There is also, of course, the clitoris, which I can easily tell feels infinitely good when rubbed at the same time. Also, try to vary it up, penetrating deep can feel good, but sometimes it gets old and she wants to change positions up or whatnot.

I would suggest the classic doggy style for pleasuring her, you dont have to be laying on top of her (which could detract for her) and you also have an angle to hit the g-spot and can easily stimulate her clitoris too.

Overall, when you have a partner dont be afraid to ask her what she wants and what feels good. (usually i can tell from the screams and moans, those are a good sign ;)) Also, you can usually tell a real orgasm from a fake by the spasming of the vagina (though it sometimes cant be felt or she may not tighten much when orgasming, every girl is different).

I personally think guys put way to much thought into the whole "Am I big enough" thing....I'm nothing special, a mear 6 inches....but like the girls said, just work it....I mean shit, a guy cannot control the size of his penis......you got watch cha momma gave ya son......girls can have little tits and and I know alot of guys that are turned off by that.....they cannot help that, its what their mommas gave them....same girls for a girls phat ass, they got what momma gave them, and I know alot of guys once again who find girls with no ass un attractive.....girls don't worry about what they were born with, guys should not either !

Bigten

I used to answer that question with NO. These days I think that size does have an impact. I guess there is also a difference between short and thin. However, a very large size can also lead to problems (not always the most pleasant experience). Finally it all comes down to HOW you use it.

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I personally think guys put way to much thought into the whole "Am I big enough" thing....I'm nothing special, a mear 6 inches....but like the girls said, just work it....I mean shit, a guy cannot control the size of his penis......you got watch cha momma gave ya son......girls can have little tits and and I know alot of guys that are turned off by that.....they cannot help that, its what their mommas gave them....same girls for a girls phat ass, they got what momma gave them, and I know alot of guys once again who find girls with no ass un attractive.....girls don't worry about what they were born with, guys should not either !

Bigten

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I'm quoteing myself cause thats the best advice right there for a guy whos worried about the size of his tool

**** what they think, if they like you, then they won't care, they know you can't do anything about it, just like they cannot do anything about their small tits or lack there of "fat ass"

Bigten

Size does matter. Haha

so does the size of a girls ass and tits

I mean, theres a couple guys onthe team that are self concious of size, and I always tell em who gives a ****...

Honestly, if a girl made fun of the size of a guys dick, then she can go to hell. Guys need to stop being so self concious of how big there dick is, if you can get a girl off fingering her, then you can surely get a girl off with your dick as long as its the size of your two fingers, and I dunno anyone whos dick is that little

Bigten

Good advice, but I highly doubt that wills top most people from being self-conscious. Unfortunately people tend to not believe things they are told even when they ask for it. I can tell my girlfriend as much as I want that she is beautiful and has an awesome body (which she does, im not just trying to make her feel better) but she is still going to find things she wants to change. Ah well, hopefully everyone can find someone who accepts them for who they are and doesnt care.

On that note, I agreet with bigten that you should just not bother with sex until youre with someone who doesnt care about that sort of thing, otherwise you will just lose self confidence in your ability, and thats not good for anyone

I don't know how this whole "is my meat big enough" thing started, but I just graduated high school and I would imagine, mabye there. Girls gossip so much, I am sure some bitch said a guy had a little dick and everyone talked about it, and now guys think their small unless their dick is over 7 inches...The avg. dick is 5 inches. Yeah, 5 inches...thats avg, so stop worrying guys....if a hoe gotta prob. with the size of ya dick then **** her.

Serious thats ridiculous that guys worry that much about it, who gives a flying **** what girls think, I sure don't.......UNLESS! you care about the individual thats a whole other category.

Playing football at a D1 school has introduced me to alot of girls that wanna just have sex and thats it, so if you get a girl like that, just brush ya shoulders off, cause she ain't nothin

BIGTEN

alright, finally something good that comes out of your mouth. this is the sort of advice that you have to tell yourself. think back to the thread about girls being attracted to body builders. it shouldn't really matter because if the girl is digging on you, then she will. if she's turned off by it, there is no loss.

raverboy

yes however it also has a lto to do with how u work it

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Originally Posted by nomas

Question: What do you mean by "how he uses it" or "knows how to work it", I mean, what EXACTLY constitutes good "skills"?? I would assume it would be different for each girl, but is there any common denominators? Is it moving around alot? Lot's of in-and-out, round-and-round, a good rhythm..a combination of a lot of these things? Honestly, the only sex I've seen are pornos, but for the most part that's just a lot of in and out motion that seems repetitive to me...and I know the girls always fake-scream being pleasured, but is this the kind of things girls like in real-life sex?

Freddie

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Well thats all artificial in thes movies I beleive in general, however the movement I think is crutial to have good sensations.. feelings and finally a super orgasm ...
I personally think from my sexlive if he is moving very slow and tender all way in and out its making me crazy, also sometimes when he just comes in a very little way and moves his d... very very slow than its great. I do not like the Quickie in out in and cum ... and thats it thing... :horror:
If he is big, just the tip of his penis slowly inside me is great, if he is small I rater have him totally . So you see i cant precisely say when and what is good and best , but I do like it long and slow.
hope this explains ??
love june :love:

well i like the cowgirl postion and i think it stimulate the g spot cause shes going crazy and its makes sex so much better and neways shes doing all the work and im just laying there so shes knows what to do

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Originally Posted by nomas [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Question: What do you mean by "how he uses it" or "knows how to work it", I mean, what EXACTLY constitutes good "skills"?? I would assume it would be different for each girl, but is there any common denominators? Is it moving around alot? Lot's of in-and-out, round-and-round, a good rhythm..a combination of a lot of these things? Honestly, the only sex I've seen are pornos, but for the most part that's just a lot of in and out motion that seems repetitive to me...and I know the girls always fake-scream being pleasured, but is this the kind of things girls like in real-life sex?

Freddie

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Can you make the 'world shake' ... as women so often like to say .. ... its different for every woman but you'll definitely know if your doing it right trust me ... its all about knowing what the individual woman likes .. theres no quick technique to make you a sex god ... ask the woman and find out what SHE wants. Any woman who goes on about 'aw he's small' or 'he's not big enough' or 'i like the big ones' is usually just trying to show off in some way or using that excuse cause her man don't satisfy her with what he has ( or is just a plain shallow sl*t)... but its not cause he's small that she aint satisfied ... its cause he didnt do it right ;)

Holy crap what a bump.

I wonder what the record is for biggest bump.