this question is to the guys: is there ever a time where a guy would prefer masturbation over having actual sex with their girl/guy? and if so, under what circumstances?
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this question is to the guys: is there ever a time where a guy would prefer masturbation over having actual sex with their girl/guy? and if so, under what circumstances?
There is a certain time of the month where I would rather have a nice wank then deal with a bloody mess.
uhm. None really. Save for infections, or ovulation.
If I lived with her I have absolutely no doubt that I would prefer to jerk off than bother with sex. I can't imagine being attracted to someone I see every day.
Seeing a girl once every week or two, however, I definitely choose sex over a wank every single time.
Hm, now if the poll asked whether Id' prefer to work for getting laid vs whacking off, then I'd probably pick whacking off.
i should have excluded when the gf has her period...i think that's a pretty obvious reason.
i'm just looking for any reasons a guy would prefer to jerk off than have sex with his significant other...when the significant other is ready and willing.
Mental disease? Why would a guy pick jerking off over a read and willing girlfriend? Even if you're angry at her, what better way to get back at her then to stick it to her!Quote:
Originally Posted by RdHrshyKss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Once upon a time, yes.
Occasionally, yes.
But otherwise, I prefer some kind of sex.
Okay, a bit of clarification. Does it count if you could have sex but you're so annoyed at your GF you leave and end up masturbating later? 'cuz I've done that plllllenty of times. Never made a conscious decision to chose my hand over a lady, though.
^^^ i think we should also specify what age posters are. it's clear than young ones would prefer to have sex because they still have the energy to put with our bullshit. however the older and more experienced would not be so willing. and then as Grib has mentioned a big role plays whether you live with the girl. i'd also like to mention that the older the ladies are, the less bullshit and more willing they would be. i really think that young ones would greatly benefit from older not so good looking, than younger hot ones, when it comes to getting laid and actually enjoying it.
I'm 24 and she's 28.
You might have a point Indig, she definitely tries to jump my bones more and more these days.
Yup. I am a bit of a cougar hunter myself; older ladies absolutely are less bullshit, more confident, and more aggressive. Not to mention way better in bed. They can be even crazier then young chicks, though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But yeah, I'm torn. If this was a poll on "have I turned down sex from a GF" before the answer would be yes, many times; being annoyed destroys my sex drive. I've also stopped during sex and wanted to go elsewhere and masturbate but I'm way too nice and didn't want the chick to think she was just awful in bed so I didn't. I have stopped sex and started masturbating like it was a kink thing, though (when really the girl was just annoying me for whatever reason.) But that was during sex, so not sure it counts.
I've actually whacked off more times then I've gotten off purely through sex, is that odd? It takes me FOREVER to get off with a rubber on (ie 45-60 minutes) and it just isn't good at all, so I usually prefer whacking with help/visual aide. LOL.
i don't think i've ever had sex with a condom. that would be a deal breaker for me. i might as well put it on a cucumber and do myself (say hi to dop)
Believe me, it's not by choice. I could have had sex with many, many more women then I have except I routinely turn down/don't pursue because sex with a condom is just dumb and I ain't throwing Snake Plissken into a questionable place without armor. "Sweeeeet, I can't feel a ****ing thing and I'm basically now a dildo with hands and lips. Awesome."Quote:
Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'd prefer to have sex, but sometimes I get sick of worrying about another person's orgasm. It kinda sucks how men are expected to 'make a girl cum' all the time. It makes sex seem more like a chore than intimacy. My ex developed an attitude where she wouldn't 'let me in' unless I went down on her. You can obviously see how I'd get sick of doing this - it became a routine; a requirement... not spontaneous intimacy. When I finally did get it in, I had to do all this stuff to get her off and I didn't enjoy it much at all (after a while), sometimes I even lost my hard on. It's hard to be aroused when you have to sit up in a really uncomfortable position or strain your arm and rub her down, especially when she's not riding you the way you like it or she tells you to screw her from a really boring angle. I got irritated after a while because she wasn't aroused when I wanted some and just gave up. I started staying up really late, after she went to bed and was watching porn to get myself off. Soooo pathetic. I kept it a secret from her, too. If I told her she would have just gotten mad at me and would have treated me worse. I'd already tried talking to her about it, but she got offended; she didn't understand.
Oh, and I hardly ever use condoms.
all you anti-condom brigade are heading for trouble
Not me. My girl is sterile.
Trying to explain how you find a woman is boring in bed is always a death sentence. It's kind of funny. If a woman said to me "Hey, our sex is boring, can we spice it up?" I'd be like "YES MA'AM!!! LET'S GO TO A SEX STORE, GET YOUR JACKET!!!"Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Also, is no one concerned about STDs? Yikes.
Of course I'm concerned about STDs. Just because I don't usually use condoms doesn't mean I'm willing to take that risk! I don't want to jinx myself, but I've had pretty good judgment so far. I've walked away from every girl unscathed.
But yeah, telling a girl you're not enjoying the sex with her much is like calling her fat. And you're giving her ammunition for when she is angry at you.
Do you just trust people that say they're clean? Or only have sex with chicks you're in a relationship with? I never trust a... ..... fine.... young... lady... If I'm not 100% trusting of her or we haven't gone to a clinic together, I'm putting that sausage in a casing. I actually avoid casual sex nowadays because it's just lame with a condom, feels much better just to jerk one off.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
He's an idiot and he'll get his. There's no point even trying to comprehend him or the kind of logic he abides.
LOL. You two. I swear you must secretly be in love or something.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Of course I don't trust people to be clean. On my college campus, 1/4 people have some kind of STD. I don't even drink water from the drinking fountains here! If I'm having casual sex with a girl I just met, of course I use a condom... but I don't normally jump in bed with a girl that soon. I think it's kinda disgusting and like you said, it's not that enjoyable... it's something I'd only when plastered. If it's casual sex with a female friend I've known for a while, my discrimination is based on her sexual history and promiscuity. When I'm in a relationship, I avoid using condoms at all costs, because the only real risk there is pregnancy.... and whelp, when you with an infertile girl, you really don't have to worry much about that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
He's just upset that I didn't accept his friend request on Facebook ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, Gribble is right. Doppel is the forum idiot. Stick around long enough, and you are sure to agree.
........ =[
Just ignore comments like that... some people will take any and every opportunity to bash and insult a person they dislike. This is what the ignore feature is for. :)
eh, personally when I'm ticked off at the lady, I have no interest in sticking anything in her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Mind you, mines got the sex drive of road kill.
I'm guilty to say that I've begun to loath condoms.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But we just got a 40 pack so there's no way I'm going to let them go to waste.
back to the original question, there is no reason to prefer jerking off over sex
do you think your guy prefer masturbation over you ? i don't think it's a good sign...
Real sex or masturbation? Real sex for me every time. But if GF is not there then I'll whack one off.
I have an unusally large sex drive. I usually masterbate 3 times a day and really don't care of having sex too much.
Some people say they have better orgasims by just masterbating. I guess I could live with that if I never had sex.
he's never really come out and said it, but i think that's the case. but my situation isn't a good example...my bf and i are having troubles and are going to be splitting up soon.Quote:
Originally Posted by meshulam [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i was just wondering what the guys had to say on this kinda thing. so you always prefer sex over masturbation?
who are the three that vote they prefer masturbate over having sex ?
please explain yourself :)