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The reason i ask is because my gf said she can get off like 5 times with her crazy "rabbit" toy. I've looked at this thing and obviously theres no way any guy can compete. The thing vibrates, spins, and has a vibrator for her clit. She says she loves havin sex with me and she has told her friends we have "great, amazing" sex. But i can only get her off like once MAYBE twice. But with this thing she gets off like a bunch of times. Its making me kind of insecure. So what does feel better?
This is kind of like asking a man "what feels better: masturbation or sex with a woman?" Obviously, the end result is the same, but solo acts of sex aren't as satisfying as having a warm, willing body participate.
So Vashti. Your saying that masterbation and the real deal are the same? If it is I don't look forward to sex anymore.
Sometimes you are alone and you want to get off - understandable. But when you have a real live person there that you love, who can kiss you, who can give you a massage, who can tell you that they love you, that's a million times better than some battery powered dildo.
I agree with you Boidevie.
Your gf is able to relax with the rabbit with sex tho she has to think bout you but you 2 seem to be able to commicate or she would not have been able to tallk bout this why dont you bring the rabbit with you next time lol
Depends, sometimes moaning for half hr at 2am to get my jollies off isn't what I want, I can do it alone in 5 minutes. That said, Having my lover love me doesn't even compare.
Agree with upper thread. Accept I can probably only do it for 2 minutes. But like I said I'm a virgin and I really don't know for sure.
Neither are better, just feels different. Sometimes you choose masturbation because you don't have to worry about satisfying someone else. Everyone needs their private time once in awhile. But if you are young and never been in a 7- 10+ year relationship, youl won't understand this. We all need some variety, so changing it up with toys, self pleasure, or including other people is the thing to do. It's personal choice.
I already read what you said above sweetkissisforu. It didn't have anything to do with me. Why did you say ignore it?
I can get off way easier and way more frequently on my own.
That doesn't mean it's better than having sex. Not by a long shot.
Are you illiterate?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ryan Heitzman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To Vashti the so called hot muffin guru.
Illiterate. No. Kind of bothered by your statement. Yes.
Stop being an idiot and people will stop treating you like one.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ryan Heitzman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Think before you post.
That's what's wonderful about forums, you have plenty of time to consider what it is you're saying, and how others may interpret it.
I didn't know I was. I got the Impression she was saying that sex is as good as masturbating. My point was trying to say that people what is the point of having sex when you can just masterbate in privacy.
a dick attached to a body of a guy who's extremely turned on and wanting you..
what could be better than that?
just cuz he doesn't vibrate.. gee....
and yeah he better not be a total stranger cuz thats just sleazy
Insecure over a plastic toy...?
Get a grip !!
Why would anybody be insecure about a plastic toy? Not gettin on you xxazurexx.Quote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But really. Why?
Wow. I never got the point of vibrators, really, for myself. If I need sexual release and my lover is not available (or is and asks to watch), my own fingers work just fine and are readily available and don't need batteries. If my lover is available, I would prefer real sex over masturbation without hesitation every single time. The fanciest sex toy in the world cannot replicate the benefits of real sex, and if a person has a toy they really enjoy, I think it would be even more enjoyable in sex play with a partner!
I still don't understand this statement though. It don't make no since to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I hate you, Ryan. I just want all of LF to know that. If one day I stop posting here it's because I read a post by Kama in which you quickly replied three times and I had no choice but to get a revolver and splatter my brains on the wall behind me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ryan Heitzman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Either way you orgasm but with a person is obviously more fulfilling. Jackass.
Really? She is saying that masturbation will give you an orgasm. Sex will give you an orgasm. But almost every human being on the planet who has tried both will agree that sex is more enjoyable than masturbation. This is apparent when you note that everyone is capable of masturbation and yet sex continues to be a pretty popular choice among humans. Surely if masturbation was better than sex, there wouldn't be 6 billion of us around?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ryan Heitzman [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I personally prefer sex over handsolo any day. But then, I am male, and I my sex drive does it's own thing, so going solo is often far less frustrating than trying to get anything from the wife.
I somehow suspect that for women, it varies greatly, and I'm sure going solo is a far simpler and effective method in many cases.
I'd probably go with the real penis 9 times out of 10. My vibrator can get me off very quickly every time, but it can't hold me, it can't kiss me, not once has it told me how beautiful I am or complimented me on my performance, and it can't push me up against a wall and have it's way with me, lol.
Also, I find that bringing toys into the bedroom can be fun for both parties involved. Think about this: after the first round you could be a little tired and need a few minutes for things to be back up and running down there, and she might still be totally hot and wanting more, so why not use it to keep her satisfied and wanting more until you've gotten your strength back and then you can finish where it left off.
Is this a trick question?
Of course ACTUALLY CONTACT.
There's nothing like the feel of a man's boner.
that's weird.
i don't understand how a dildo can get someone off more than once.. or even once. personally, i haven't tried it. i find sex satisfying enough.
Vibrator. Real thing + vibrator = yay. See Warrior, that's what you need to enjoy oral. Add in a vibrator. I've known a few women that haven't enjoyed oral that much, but add in a vibrator and suddenly things light up.Quote:
Originally Posted by red_sparrow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Also, for whoever said that dildos have the edge because they can vibrate; my penis vibrates. On it's own. Fact.
That doens't really bother me one bit. You never met me and I don't really care if you hate me.Quote:
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Vibrator + oral! You just turned me on...Quote:
Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
vibrating cock rings do wonders as well!
My fiancee uses her vibrator + rabbit tip when we are apart for a few days. She fantasizes about me, and she orgasms uncontrollably. When we are together, we often use the vibrator after we both cum a few times. The vibrator is, coincidentally, the same size and shape as me when I am hard. She uses the vibrator inside and around her, while I kiss her and caress her everywhere. We both enjoy it tremendously, and she is super happy that I am not insecure about the toy. Why would I be? It's an instrument to enhance our love-making. After she has her massive orgasm with the vibrator, we have intercourse again and she cums even harder. It's really wonderful.