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Ok heres the sitch;
6 month relationship broke up 2 weeks ago roughly, texing and drama calls stopped about a week ago, Valentines is coming up, I know she aint go nobody like that except girlfriends to cheer her up. THinking about sending a flirty Valentines card to her it says "You got my nuts" its kinda funny no romance no love no bullshit.
What do you girls think?
Absolutely not. She's gonna think you're wanting to get back together or get really upset. Let her girlfriends cheer up. If you know them, maybe send them a message and ask them to make sure they take he rout and have fun with her. But don't send her anything.
Don't do it. Why are you even considering this?
no way lol
Hell no. What do you mean no bullshit? That is pure bullshit.
Why are you girls so against this I don't get it? And yeah eventually I do want her back I know its not gonna happen tomorrow lol, but yeah thats what I am intending toward her. And why would she get upset?? I would be the only person sending her a valentines thing cmon now what girl doesnt want that even a funny no romance type of card?
from a guys perspective....
....no
is there ANY situation that where sendig a card or gift would be a good thing? as in trying to salvage a broken relationship or getting her back?
She is your ex so what is the point?
Because she wants to move on a crad from her ex on valentines isn't letting her move on that's why. I can't believe you don't see how this is stupid.
Yeah sure ... If you're 13yo.
why would you send an ex a valentine's card when valentine's day is a holiday made up solely for the purpose of couples... who are in love with each other and are together. this is just gonna confuse her and set her back even more. no way
this was a serious questionQuote:
Originally Posted by ktm390 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I mean, I guess if you're openly and actively pursuing someone, then yeah, of course you would send a Valentine. But if you're trying to mend a relationship, a card or gift isn't going to fix anything. Especially a jokey "no romance no love no bullshit" card. What's the point?Quote:
Originally Posted by ktm390 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I guess it works to at least at her know that he still cares without being shame himself if she doesn't care lol, he's playing safe game I think!Quote:
Originally Posted by MerryH [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Or cowardly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinnabella [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
bad idea. will send mixed message. its ok to be friends for sure, but not a valentine.
Yeah if she actaully wanted to hear from you (unlikely) since your exs for a reason.Quote:
Originally Posted by ktm390 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]