Just wondering if anyone has had experiencing dating someone that wasn't their 'type' or was a little bit different physically to what they are usually attracted to? Did it work out?
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Just wondering if anyone has had experiencing dating someone that wasn't their 'type' or was a little bit different physically to what they are usually attracted to? Did it work out?
I went on a date with one. She wanted to be just friends.
I don't have a physical type as long as the man is taller than me...
It helps a lot not to have a type...it really helps discovering and testing new waters...isn't it what life is about? To enjoy new experiences and learn from them?
I basically have the need for my man to be physically larger than me
So it's ok if the man is shorter than you as long as he's larger than you? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Superfantastich [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What if he's only 1 centimeter taller? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by sookie6 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I once went on a date with a man who wasnt my particular type i like. The date went great, we got along so well. I couldnt really explain exactly how he wasnt my type.. I usually go for taller, muscular guys. I like them pretty macho.. This guy was still taller but a little chubbier than my liking and maybe not as macho as id usually go for. He liked quiet nights at home, snuggling.. He was still attractive though. We continued to date for a few months, everything was great and we were so alike! But there was something missing..
In the bedroom he was very experienced. He knew exactly how to push my buttons and i was always satisfied. But it was lacking passion. I didnt feel the intense craving for him that i had experienced in the past.. I didnt have the want to satisfy him as much as id like to either. I couldnt explain it! I had to break up as it just didnt feel right sometimes. So, no it didnt really work out in a way. Maybe if i wasnt so horny all the time, it wouldnt have been a problem.. Haha.
I later started dating someone who was my exact type. SO attractive in my eyes, all i wanted was him and i felt that craving for his body that i once remembered :)
Thats the only instance in my life i can relate to.. Hope i was of some help!
It does not work for me. I like skinny women with smaller breasts (just like some guys love large ones, I like small, firm ones), it's basically a fetish of mine. There is literally no other physical requirement, I don't care about hair color, eye color, pale, or tan (I can like anything) etc. Went on dates with a number of women I probably could have dated long-term, but they were bigger.
BTW, I am a slender guy. And NO, I don't like anorexic women, people seem to call anyone remotely skinny "anorexic". Our country is too damn fat.
Call me whatever you want, but if anything I may be less superficial then the guy who says he only likes blondes, wants DD breasts, or picks on a silly detail like thinking a girls forehead or nose is too big.
Part of me wishes I was not so opinionated about body type, but I really can't just change it.
I don't seem to have a certain physical type provided that the woman is not obese. I've been out with women much shorter than me but also with women a touch taller than me. I've been out with blondes, brunettes and redheads. My current GF (of 8 months) when I met her she didn't do it for me on a sexual attraction level BUT now she does because I took the time to get to know her - and she is a truly wonderful person. Probably the kindest most generous women I have ever had a relationship with.
I have. I married her.
I usually gravitate towards short, curvy, smart, busty women with long red/brown hair.
My wife is tall, not particularly busty, and has long white (not blonde, WHITE) hair. She is however, very intelligent (smarter than I am) and curvy.
I love thin with curves. Basically a flat stomach or close to it with a good size booty and nice muscular legs. I can get into another body type, but if I have those, I am completely satisfied. Also I notice if I have bigger, I want smaller and vice versa. Boobs are optional. Funny how particular I am.
Big breasts don't interest me. I don't dislike them, they just don't thrill me. My current girlfriend has bigger breasts than anybody that I've ever dated before. When we first started dating years ago, they were nice and firm, but now they are sagging. Oh well, at least they're natural.
That's rare! Basically an hourglass shape, which usually requires a corset. I suppose you could find that physique in endurance athletes, although they usually don't have much of an ass.Quote:
I love thin with curves. Basically a flat stomach or close to it with a good size booty and nice muscular legs.
I don't really have a type, but I couldn't date someone that I'm not attracted to. The guys I've dated look very different from each other, but all of them I found attractive. I'm generally not attracted to guys who are skinnier than me or guys who are overweight. I can't bring myself to date tall men (over 6 feet) but that's less about how they look and more about how it makes me feel.
Sounds like my girl, haha. Her stomach is flat as a board, even with a 25" waist she has a "bigger" ass for her small frame (not my thing, smaller the better), and muscular thighs, large b-cups.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfer808 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My ideal is stick thin with a-cups, but she looks good.
I've generally always liked guys who were toned and muscular without being bulky or skinny. Long hair on a guy has always made me take at least a second glance.
Not long before I met my fiance my best friend said to me in conversation one day "But I'm not as superficial as you." I hadn't realised until then that I had been superficial. When I met my fiance he had short short hair and was a little doughy around the middle. We've now been together 8 years (well June 13 will be our 8th anniversary)
I was in a relationship with a girl for 2,5 years and she really wasn't my type physically. I mean, she had some characteristics I liked (cute face), but from body structure point of view she wasn't even close to my type. Also, she was a bit too artistic for me personality wise (I am a bit more like an engineer) and it was quite difficult to me sometimes to understand how something meaningless could devastate her so badly.
So no, it didn't work out.
How did this impact your sex/relationship?Quote:
Originally Posted by pepsidude [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Alone (girl and I) I can be attracted to various body types. But once we go out, and I see examples of my "ideal" body type it frustrates me a bit and I think "my girl isn't really that great".
Once I dated a chick with my absolute ideal body type, I literally never looked at another girl wherever we went.
My current GF is close to my ideal.
You're kind of a douchebag. Seeing other girls and thinking they're attractive is one thing, but comparing them to your girl and letting it impact how you feel about her...that puts you squarely in douchebag territory. Do you even like your girlfriend, or are you just dating her body? Isn't there anything about her personality that makes you think she's way more awesome than some random hot girl that you don't even know?Quote:
But once we go out, and I see examples of my "ideal" body type it frustrates me a bit and I think "my girl isn't really that great".
Yes it happened to me... and he grew on me over time getting to know him better... I also have a certain type (well I thought I would only be attracted to that certain type) but I proved myself differently.
Physically, yes, I guess I have an ideal type.
However, even when someone doesn't fit that 'ideal', if I fall for them, then they are my 'ideal' type.
Im likin her obese ;)
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I've always liked men of all types, provided they had more than two neurons to rub together. I suppose I tended to date ones who were more reserved in manner but no real physical preference (I dated light, dark, rail-thin and slightly pudgy). They were always taller than me b/c I'm a petite brunette. I never dated a truly flamboyant man, but I think I'd be turned off by the type from the outset in any case.
LOL, you are right! Sorry. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by fun2bwith45 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I have a type...tall, dark, handsome and intelligent. That being said, my last partner was not my so called type (2 out of 4 isn't bad), but despite this we fell madly in love. We would still be together today if he hadn't passed away. Ideals are just that and made to be flexible, otherwise we'd never fall in love.
My last girlfriend was not my "type" and it didn't work out. I gave in too many exceptions and toward the end of the relationship, I saw so many things in her that I didn't like... I found her completely unattractive.
Follow your heart, but steer with your penis.