Which do you generally follow more when you are in a head vs heart situation?
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Which do you generally follow more when you are in a head vs heart situation?
Heart ... and it always leads to trouble :(
Head and it always seems to lead to pain
I can't seem to win either way to be honest
Couldn't agree more. I act on my emotions (like most women!) problem is those emotions are consantly changing. So I decide to use my head and then don't feel quite satisfied with the result that gives either.
I guess both would be better. It's hard though...
Problem I have is if I think with my heart it ****s my head up and if I think with my head it ****s my heart up
Next time I'm going to think with my arse and hopefully my head and heart will be well out of it
I always try to keep a balance seems easier to put things in to view.
LOL Horseyguy. I might try that too.
IMO: In the end, when the dust has settled using the head ... that is whats best.
Often, using either is painful, but it's much easier to recover from if you've logiced it out rather than followed blindly with the heart. At least that's the way it seems from reading the painful (often codependent) experiences of others on these boards.
Heart gives you a general direction the head gives you the tools to get there safetly
If heart and head are in conflict...
Oh hell, I can't really say, as it depends on the situation. When heart and head are in harmony, you're gold.
listen to your GUT.. never ever ever fails me
I would be living at arby's if I did that. roflQuote:
Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
hahaha... but in all seriousness its almost like a sixth sense that I have.. my gut is telling me that my ex is going to break up with her current down syndrome boyfriend. I hope she tries to contact me.. ill tell her to **** off. Give it two weeks.Quote:
Originally Posted by DannyH [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Heh I was gonna peg an ncis joke but food jokes work better. I know what you mean though but I don't call it my gut anymore because of the way I look at peopleQuote:
Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i wouldnt have gotten it.. i dont watch ncis... what do you mean "the way i look at people"Quote:
Originally Posted by DannyH [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Generally speaking people act in the same way to the same situations. Like if you know the person's personality pretty well or even just a little bit you can pretty much predict what they are gonna do when certain things happen
and in NCIS The main character's big thing is his gut his instincts.
Well before I got my heart broken, I ALWAYS followed my heart. It feels great to do so. After getting my heart broken I realized how selfish my heart is. Only concerned about itself, complete disregard of reality and all things that make sense. Now my head, it considers everything, including my heart, my emotions, reality, what makes me happy.......and.........ready.........LOGIC. I use my head now a days, still consult my heart, but the final decision is always made by my head.
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Originally Posted by pisces25 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Look at it like this..... Your nerves sense the environment........ Your brain makes decisions.... Nerves in body cannot make decisions nor can they process received information. Your "heart" is just an emotional nerve.... notthing more, nothing less. Only the mind can make correct decisions based on what the heart feels.
If everyone made immediate decisions based on how the heart felt at that given moment then the whole world would be divorced.
I've followed my heart. It just seems to be too damn hard to use my head, I never seem to learn even though I always get myself hurt... I don't know if I'm just too ****ing dumb or why I always find myself crying because of a girl.
That last one's easy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Supernaut [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To love someone is to be vulnerable to them. If you let them in, they have the power to hurt you terribly. If you can't trust, you can't love, and conversely, to trust means giving them the power to hurt you. If you put your trust in the right person, it's a wonderful, beautiful feeling. Ask any couple that's had a long and loving relationship to list the three things that have been most essential to their longevity, and I can almost guarantee that "Trust" and "Communication" will be in there.
Putting your trust in the wrong person often means that you're going to get run over.