I'm shy but I'm not, makes sense?
OK so I'm open but in more intimate places or quiet places whatever etc... I just want to know if there is a way to pick up a guy with out actually aprocahing the guy?
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I'm shy but I'm not, makes sense?
OK so I'm open but in more intimate places or quiet places whatever etc... I just want to know if there is a way to pick up a guy with out actually aprocahing the guy?
flash him your boobs.
LOOL! That would probably work I'm a double D.
Say hi. You'll be able to gauge in 5 seconds whether he's worth talking to, and whether he wants to talk to you.Quote:
Originally Posted by hellokity [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's as simple as that.
Congratulations?Quote:
Originally Posted by hellokity [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
When a guy walks in the club, make eye contact, stare and then look away......wait a few secs and see if he is trying to look back, make strong eye contact again. Before you know he is checking you out and making his approach. Or you could make like you accidentally bump into him, appologize but make sure you drag your hand down his arm, and lightly squeeze his hand. Smile and try to walk away. If he doesn't stop you glace back and wink. Just work it.
Why not buy him a drink? If you don't take an active role, your opportunities are pretty limited.
I don't overthink it when I talk to women.........what has worked for me is to genuinely say "Hi........You're beautiful, what's your name?"
For a woman, maybe less direct...........I'm not being vain, but one girl came up to me at a bar and said "hi, I just wanted to say I saw you across the room and I can't take my eyes off you" and she was cute, I ended up dating her for a month or so but the rest of the relationship wasn't as hot as that opening line...........
Dance, and watch who you are interested while you dance. If they too are interested they will approach you. If they like to dance, it will be on the dance floor if they don't it will be at the bar.
Just go talk to them. Guys appreciate straight forwardness. Smiling, compliments, touching and eye contact are all effective ways to get him interested.
^^^ Yep. If a woman talks to me first, then I'm interested.
omg, a woman asking for advise how to pick up a dude in a bar? really?
step1 get dressed
step 2 go to bar
there is no step 3 where i live, hope this helps
Its not that easy for some women. There are a lot of great guys out there that get intimidated and are too scared to approach you. Giving them strong signs, green lights, or breaking the ice gets way faster results than sitting on a stool hoping for the right guy to come along.Quote:
Originally Posted by mwahahaha [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
1. Smile at himQuote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
2. Say Hi
3. Ask him if your top makes your boobs look huge
If you actually make it to #3 and he still doesn't pick up on you, then he is probably gay.
Smile. This might sound dumb, but everybody’s attracted to a good smile. You can’t pick up a guy if you look sour, so flash those pearly whites. You never know when somebody cute is going to look your way.
Be open. This does not translate to “Be desperate.” Instead, what I mean is that you should believe that you can meet guys anywhere—including at the grocery store.
Just some tips.
In my opinion a bar is never a good way to pick up a guy unless your really looking for just one night stand,,,, Or a freinds with benefits kind of connection. Besides most of us that are at the bars are either there to forget about our rlationship or ex with a new guy that will keep us occupied.
On the men's point of view however they are there for drinks and seeing who they can usually take home or help their buddy score someone for the night if they happen to be taken at the time.
I always went to the bar for myself with my best friend to have fun. To sindg kereoke get loose but to be responsible and go home with my honor still intact and with no regrets the next morning.
Don't get me wrong if I happen to see the right guy walk in.. I would just play with the eyes formaly known as the seductive look for you ladies out there.. It kept them curious and you always having the upper hand.
Ladies no offence to the men but next time your in a bar. Start paying attention if not to drunk of course about 20 minutes before the last call. You will see the real dogs come out and play... LOL but this is not all men just 3/4 at least
Really honey try and get a mans attention in a place other than a bar. Its less drama and not so much competition.... Have faith in yourself because sooner or later your going to realize they just come in and out of your lives but leave footprints on your heart....
Hope this helps a little...
On the contrary, that is how I met my husband...at a night club where I was working at and I perused him....we have been together for over 21 years.Quote:
Originally Posted by lizzhazz85 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That is great that it worked out being a great thing for you. I'm not hating its just my opinion and that is what this site is about. Everyone having opinions and putting there experiences for others to use or not.. thanks for the responce.
There are jacka sses no matter where you hang out, the bar, the store, friends party, etc......you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. I dated guys from the bar and there were some bad dates for sure, but you cant expect perfect on your first shot.....take lots of fails to get a winner.
Wait to be approached. There is nothing less attractive than 'that drunk girl' in a bar who approaches loads of different guys. You'll just end up with a bad reputation and sloppy drunken sex. Also, if 'guys being too intimidated to approach you' is a problem, wait for the right guy who won't have a problem with starting a conversation with you. Appear too easy and guys will just use you for sex because they can. (I'm not criticising if that's the situation you're looking for but sleeping with a different guy evry time you go out will ultimately be unfulfilling.
Approaching guys doesn't intoxicate a woman.Quote:
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True, there are jackasses everywhere. But when guys go to a bar or a club, he has only one thing in mind.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
IMO, picking a guy at a bar/club isn't a worthy pursuit. I mean, you are just getting a horny guy wanting some ass. A girl can get that anywhere, any time, and without any effort.
Why do chicks like to be so complicated for if it is just sex; men are much more rational about short term relationships, especially when they have a petty cash fund for that purpose.
I prefer to call it practice makes perfect, if only I can get women to just use me for sex until I clamor for a relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Its where I met my husband......not every guy is a douche that goes to a bar.Quote:
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That's not true for everyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by sadie_genie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's only true for me when nice girls are not using me for sex until I clamor for a relationship.
What goes through your mind when you visit a club? That you will meet a nice girl you can take home to your mommy?Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I workied in a night club for 4 years and there actually were nice guys hoping to meet a girl to take home to mommy. There of course is a combination of player, loser hopefuls, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by sadie_genie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
When you think of it tho......isnt sex is what every single guys mind no matter where they are?
I don't visit nightclubs. I can't stand them.Quote:
Originally Posted by sadie_genie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If I was in a bar then yes, I'd hope to meet a nice girl that I can eventually introduce to my parents.
take home to mommy (hilarious)
just give a friendly smile, dance well in clubs
I can't believe noone has posting the old joke about this. Anyway, what you do is stand in the middle of the dance floor, wait for a break in the set and then scream "I need to be ****ed RIGHT NOW".
If you are a guy you will be kicked out (or arrested). If you are a gal (and reasonably good looking) there will be a queue of guys to choose from.
Good luck. :P
come to united states i will myself pick you from the club and give you some tips.hahaha