hi i'm fifteen and was wondering of i was too young me and my girlfriend have sat down about the pros and cons about it and still wonder if im ready even if i think so plz tell me!! :)
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hi i'm fifteen and was wondering of i was too young me and my girlfriend have sat down about the pros and cons about it and still wonder if im ready even if i think so plz tell me!! :)
Hmmm... tough to say. I don't really know you. However, I do have a few things for you to consider. Most 15 year olds are no where near ready to have sex. They are usually too immature, and are having sex for the wrong reason. When you're that young, you have to remember how much of your future could be at stake is just one little guy should break the barrier and swim to the goal line. (bad metaphor, I know) Or perhaps, you should get an STD. Scary stuff.
A couple of questions:
1) How long have you been together?
2) Do you love her (do you think you love her)
3) Are you prepared to face the possible consequences?
15? you should already be stripping!
Too young.
Deal with it.
It's common these days to have sex at 15, but I did it and I regret it. I was with the guy for about a year, but I realize now that it was still a bad idea since we weren't ready to deal with possible consequences. Assuming that you're both virgins, you wouldn't have to worry about STDs, but pregnancy would be really bad at that age. If you do decide to have sex, make sure you really care about each other and use condoms and birth control so the chances of pregnancy are almost none.
Oh f*ck the taboo.
If you like this girl and she is willing to let you sleep with her, by all means take the chance. Don't let her family (especially daddy or big brother) find out, but take the chance.
Remember to USE A CONDOM. And you should realize that you will probably look like idiots, even to yourself. I wouldn't push the girl, though, you might regret that later. If she's begging for it, though... What are you gonna do, you know?
What are you gonna do? ::shrugs innocently::
I suppose this is the part I forgot to mention in my post:Quote:
Originally Posted by bohemiandonut
If in fact you do think you're ready and she wants it then, by all means... give her a ride she won't soon forget. :goofy:
nevermind sex, are you ready to be a father? just ask yourself that, then you'll have your decision. if you can't decide on your own, ask your parents.
raverboy
This thread isn't about fathering her child. It's about sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by Illusional
Despite common mythology, condoms are safe enough to use occasionally. However, if you're gonna be going to town more than once a week I would urge you to look into the birth control pill.
Actually, 15 is too young for that. I would just urge you to not have too much sex. The law of probability is a law, you know.
i just feel that condoms are a waste of time. sure i will use it if i have to, but if i don't, then why bother. that's just me.
raverboy
Hey why not right? after words you guys can hop on your skateboard and go get the new GI JOES that came out.
Are you too young? yes. when you don't have to ask, then you're ready.Quote:
Originally Posted by AMI2YOUNG
besides, you can't drive anywhere, buy any booze, or even vote. and we ALL know how important these things are for a good romp...
Exactly. And i'm lengthening my goddamn message to more than 10 f*cking (oops, we don't want them doing that), MEANINGLESS characters OK? Good thing disc-space is so cheap... jfkdoiqevlk348954kdk&&*(^T^Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins
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Originally Posted by indigosoul
Everybody-----15? Below 16, isn't that considered statutory rape?
Depends where you live. But if you have to ask, then yes you are too young.
In my opinion, if you're ready for it, and your sensible enough to not be caught (by parents), or catch something (ie wear a condom) then go ahead.
But if you feel in the least unsure about it (which it sounds like you are if you have to ask) then hold off until you are sure.
Too young simple as.
Since you're asking, no, you're not ready. If you were ready, you'd just do it. My suggestion is to wait as much as possible. It may seem like a "appropiate" thing to do at a certain moment but I know a lot of people who regret doing it too soon even if it was with the person they loved. You still have plenty of time, there's no need to rush.
you might actually want to ask OV if you should wait or not.
raverboy
I found this out a while ago,neither party can be criminally charged if both will sign a statement saying the sex was mutually consentual.Anyway,the guy will always be the one who is charged,I think that's so unfair.I mean I know the girl could hardly have raped him (except maybe in some cases) but if she's underage then she knows what she's doing is illegal.
hrmm... i'm not sure even with a signed consent that in most cases the guy will be left off so easily. being that he is considered an adult and the girl is considered a minor, there is a different in maturity level and upon decision making skills.
reguardless of the underage person, they usually are unware or they are just completely stupid of the choices that they make. remember those two boys that got their teachers pregnant?? stupid idiotic things. they did not consider that the teachers will go to prison and they probably didn't care because it felt good at the time. secondly the teachers are also stupid because what, did they think they were going to get away with this? bullshit.
raverboy
yep she could get you done if she regretted it!! hmmm only you know if it's right!!
I thought that if it was anywhere below 18 it was considered statutory rape. So a 16 year old CAN go out with an 18 year old? This is interesting.
God, don't teenagers have anything better to do these days than ****? Are you bored?
Go shopping. Hang with your girlfriends. Find a hobby.
I think (most of) these ppl are right, if you have to ask then i dont think you are ready. It'l just feel natural when the time is right so you should just go with the flow, so to speak...but hey, if you like her, **** her.....
p.s. keep us posted ya?
mmmk...that sounded kind of piggish. But, if i was the guy. I wouldn't be on a forum, i'd be over my gf's house.....right ....now.....Quote:
Originally Posted by Syd
jking
but seriously. when i was 15 and younger, I didn't need to ask. That question wasn't there. The question.....was if a girl was stupid enough to do it with me ;)
Well I'm 16 and my guys 24,trust me its ok lol but it might be different in the U.S. though
ah, see, that's when we get into different sets of laws. Is there a dating age boundary in your country? what country do you live in?
I live in the UK.There's no boundary as far as I know and to be honest,shouldn't the police be catching the guys that stab people first,THEN owrry about who's having sex.I'm legal anyway coz I'm 16
Yea, that's good to have. There's a dating boundary of 17 and below for 'minors' and 18 and above for 'adults'.
whoops sorry, i posted twice on the same message because i pressed submit twice when it looked like it wasn't posting my message. I apologize.
Oh don't I do that all the time hehe.Makes me look like a total ass.A dating boundary,thats gotta really suck.I like my freedom thank you very much,my dad's the law for me and I quit listening to him about um,3 years ago hehe
lol BE A REBEL!
More power to ya girl. Just be smart about what you do.
This is coming from a guys point of view. And with all honesty...considering what most 16 to 25 year-old males want out of young cute girls...
When your young, follow your head- not your heart. Follow your heart when your serious enough to get married.
Well he's really not the ultra cool guy,I hate guys like that.All guys my age just want sex anyway lol,nothing's gonna change that.Actually all guys any age :P
Also you might wanna check your PM's
That is what I am always saying when the cop is writing me a speeding ticket. :goofy:Quote:
Originally Posted by abovethisall911
or bust you for jay walking, or not wearing a seat belt.
raverboy
if you both up 4 it then i say go for it!
i lost my V at 16! i thought that was late
16.. that is late. tsk tsk tsk, shame on you.
raverboy