men jealousy over other guys
I see many topics about females disapproving of their boyfriends/husbands looking at pornography or looking at other girls in general. The basic typical answer that males give to us is "guys are guys, that's what we like to do..we can't help it...we're going to do it anyway so take it or leave it". Because it is so common in this day and age and with such easy access, most guys do, but that doesn't mean it is right, or that we should accept it. I have noticed throughout my years, that guys are just as jealous when it comes to women and pornography or checking out other guys. Sure, some guys might get turned on in the beginning or when it is a strange woman involved, but I know from experience that men do NOT like it when you are in a serious relationship. I had a few magazines a few years old that my EX bf saw put away. He became extremely jealous. One time we were out at a club and I said to a friend "there's a lot of eye candy here tonight". He still throws that back in my face as if that is the worst thing anybody could say. He acted like there was some wrong with me that I had nude pictures of men or that I thought other guys were hot, hot, hot. Men are insecure about their g/f hooking up with their hot friends all the time. Meanwhile, they constantly checked out girls, make comments about attractive girls, read porn. But am I allowed??? Of course not. So, all you men who get jealous when a girlfriend/wife thinks other men are hot, or when we imagine what a nice piece of machinery a certain man might have, my advice to you is "get over it". Women like good looking too. Sometimes I think girls sell themselves short and resort to an ugly man for some "god only knows why" reason. But,I have never met a woman who fantasizes about Carrot Top or the like. And remember, size does count!!
