PLEASE don't get pregnant! I'll do anything..

okay partially i want comments/encouragement from other people but a lot of it is to get my feelings out, which is why in this post i won't worry about punc. or caps.

okay, so here's the thing. you all know we've been having phone sex a lot and moving forward with each other fairly rapidly.. and so things just led to another, next thing ya know, we're both ready for sex.

and so this is what happened to be.. i like 2 days ago.. no yesterday.. can't remember right now but it was probably yesterday. i was at work and the sun was REALLY bright, and i just got sooooo drowzy and i fell asleep on the counter. here is my dream:

We both had sex. We had sex really long and hard. Then, I received the life-changing news of her pregnancy. I felt devastated.

Nothing could ever bring my happy, funny personality back to life. Constantly feeling depressed, from that day forward I kept looking at the ground as I walked. It was unbearable.

Her parents had not taken it well at ALL. They are already over-protective. She isn't allowed over at my house, she wasn't allowed to call me until recently, not allowed on the phone past 9, not allowed to be with me after school, not allowed to be unsupervised, not allowed to be....

And that was one of the last times I had seen her again.

Her parents had totally cut off all communication between us, had made sure we wouldn't be able to see each other again.

So, the love of my life is gone, as well as 10% of my paycheck. Now, I have to work harder to pay for my cell phone, and all the rest of the things in order.
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I can't see MY baby! MY child is gone! Why?! WHY?!?!
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Jordyn.. the girl I love.. who used to fall asleep next to me by listening to my heartbeat.. she's gone...forever......
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No! I'm grounded...shit.
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These emotions..unbearable..please free me..if there is a God, please help me..

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Originally Posted by Boss@Work

NICK!!! WHAT YOU DOIN SLEEPING?!?!

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Oh, shit.. I'm awake and I just noticed something.

If I **** her.. that will become a dream come true. I have condoms, I'm sure I can get her on the pill.. I can do both.. but I am SO scared!

If you were me, what would you do?!?!?! Would it just solve everything to pull it out before I come? Oh yeah, not to mention, I have to 3 books for a World History AP class and a Pre-AP English, as well as attend a court date in about a week and half..

Gotta love that stress, don't ya boys? :baby:

hmmm.. interesting...

condoms, plus pull out early.. plus birth control.. that will surely reduce your chance of getting her pregnant significantly...

you're too young to have kids..

don't get her preghant man!!! use a condom! use 10 condoms!!!

abstinenece u r to yung to have kids, take it fom me i know

haha.. 10 condoms.. plus spermicide.. plus a diaphragm (is the spelling right?)
plus 10 more condoms

is it okay to use more than 1 condom?

No it is not, and do not try it. The problem with this is that the chances of slipping off is greater, and besides you will not feel anything. Condom + Birth Control...your best option if you do have sex.

kay thanks.. :)

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condoms, plus pull out early.. plus birth control.. that will surely reduce your chance of getting her pregnant significantly...

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I dont know...it still seems risky... :horror:

I'd advise you not to have sex ever.

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Originally Posted by Innova

No it is not, and do not try it. The problem with this is that the chances of slipping off is greater, and besides you will not feel anything.

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That's not the reason..... The reason is added friction. You'll break the damn thing. NEVER double up. They should really be teaching this stuff in school. They did in mine..... I also had a really open sex ed teacher. I loved that lady. So awesome.

yeah... i just talked to her about it and she's not gonna get on the pill. risk of her parents finding out is too great, and she can't pay for them.

I always pulled out too, just to be safe ;[

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

yeah... i just talked to her about it and she's not gonna get on the pill. risk of her parents finding out is too great, and she can't pay for them.

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a lot of girls get on the pill to regulate their period. or to ease pain of cramps. tell her to just tell her parents that that's the reason she wants to get on them.

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

you all know we've been having phone sex a lot and moving forward with each other fairly rapidly.. and so things just led to another, next thing ya know, we're both ready for sex.

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we're both 14.

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If I **** her.. that will become a dream come true.

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After reading this thread.. [url=http://www.loveforum.net/t7808-i-come-to-you-all-once-again-for-advice.html]you wonder why her dad hates you[/url]? ;p

some doctors also won't tell the parents if you're taking the pills either

Eegads! I'm with Tone - it's no surprise her dad hates you. Please stay away from girls altogether until you are older. You are nowhere NEAR ready to handle the potentially negative consquences of sex.

Excuse me while I go lock my daughter in a closet to protect her from boys like you...

wooo, i agree.. man you seem dangerous, LOL

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Originally Posted by shh!

Eegads! I'm with Tone - it's no surprise her dad hates you. Please stay away from girls altogether until you are older. You are nowhere NEAR ready to handle the potentially negative consquences of sex.

Excuse me while I go lock my daughter in a closet to protect her from boys like you...

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HAHA. Boy shh! you are on a roll.

Now, for me, I'd handle it with a rifle.

seriously though, wtf is phone sex? ... i never really got that one, what you both do pleasure yourself and close your eyes pretending its the other person or something? mann your both to young wait till shes legal or her parents will sue you if they find out.

dude

just think about it in a rational way .... 1 . u r too young to have sex ... just because every body else u know is in heat doesnt mean that u have to have sex so soon .

2. having sex is not what they show in porn or in movies(which more or less is porn again) .. be careful ...

3. NO parent repeat NO parent is going to accept that their daughter is having sex ... leave alone that she is pregnant ..

in the end mate .. its ur choice .. if u want to do it .. nothing anybody else says will make a difference ... good choices are always the hardest and if u decide to wait ... u will be reminded of thsi as a "missed opurtunity for a long time" ..even though it isnt .. but that show ur mind will work ..

sometimes the road less travelled is less travelled for a reason mate :)

best of luck

Hussain

you do realise having sex changes lots of things in your relationship ?

she is 14 you say? illegal = her parents will murder u

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she is 14 you say? illegal = her parents will murder u

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I'm pretty sure it's not illegal if they're both 14....

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seriously though, wtf is phone sex? ... i never really got that one, what you both do pleasure yourself and close your eyes pretending its the other person or something?

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I think it is generational; I never heard about this when I was 14, and even though I'm not a prude, I can't imagine doing it. I wouldn't even know how. And if I caught my daughter doing this with a boy at the age of 14, I'd suspend him by the testicles from the ceiling and then beat him with a baseball bat. I'd make her watch. It could be fun. :evil:

oh yeah sorry. i didn't mean that 10 condoms thing literally. hahaha. i guess i should've specified that lol.

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Originally Posted by artyemi

HAHA. Boy shh! you are on a roll.

Now, for me, I'd handle it with a rifle.

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I hope you have good aim... I'm not sure how... er... well-developed (?) a 14 year old kid's testicles are...

technically she's a few months older than i am.

when i asked for advice, i meant.. information i don't already know. can anybody supply me with some? that means.. not obvious shit??

Take a very cold shower.

what else do you want besides obvious shit? you want us to tell you that there's a magic saying you could recite in order to have all kinds of sex and cum inside of her and she won't get pregnant and you won't get any diseases? what would you like me to tell you sk8er?

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Originally Posted by LTsK8eR2gO

technically she's a few months older than i am.

when i asked for advice, i meant.. information i don't already know. can anybody supply me with some? that means.. not obvious shit??

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If the advice we give is so obvious, one would think you'd be doing it already...

hahaha obvious shit!!!!!

what DO u want? ways to have sex with her so that u dont make her pregnant?
ways to let her parents like u if she does?
ways to escape legal action against you from her parents?

ways to stop them from trying to kill you?

Hussain

OKay, i may not be a guy, but i'll tell you this... if you are so worried about her getting pregnant, than DON'T HAVE SEX! I gotta tell you the one sure fire protection against pregnancy and STD's is abstinence. I can also tell you that if you are this worried about all of this, than you are probably NOT ready to have sex.

I know this is a hard concept to grasp, but if you wait until marriage, than pregnancies-even unplanned ones- are okay! you will be in love with your wife more so than you ever would have been if you had sex before marriage, and, did you know that people who enter marriage as virgins have a 60% lower divorce rate than those who don't?

Stop worrying about what's going to happen to you guys right now, and start worrying about what could happen in the future-what could be ruined if you take your relationship to the next level. I can tell that your relationship with this girl is strong, and(trust me on this), if you make even ONE mistake, you could lose that. Having sex is just a BUNDLE of mistakes waiting to happen. If you love this girl, than protect her from that devistation-protect yourSELF from that devistation! You won't ever regret it i promise ;)