lol i have lots of questions on these:
How do u give a blow job?
Don't u end up scratchin him with ur teeth?
Wot do u do with ur hands?
Do u actually ever blow?
Thanks for ur help
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lol i have lots of questions on these:
How do u give a blow job?
Don't u end up scratchin him with ur teeth?
Wot do u do with ur hands?
Do u actually ever blow?
Thanks for ur help
nope .... a blowjob is when u lick and suck a guys penis ... u hold the penis with ur hands and u rub him .... it doesnt involve blowing at all .. u use ur lips and ur tongue and u DONT use ur teeth ,,, if u are a bit careful .. its like licking a popsicle ... u dont use ur teeth .....
Hussain
Do NOT let your teeth touch anything, otherwise you'll have your manly man crying like a little school girl!
I'll leave the rest of the advice giving to the girls....lol
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Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
I would like to get a blow job from you. You sound like a pro.
Many girls your age are not expert at any sort of sexual activity, and those who are are usually considered slutty by guys. If you follow the above explicit advice, your boyfriend will certainly wonder how many guys you've been doing this with in order to gain such experience. I think it would be much healthier if you were to ignore all "how-to" advice and learn through experimentation with your guy. Don't be in such a rush to throw away your innocence; it goes quickly enough.
okay i'll delete it. but i'm still thinking it.
(giggle) Clearly you weren't talking to me, right Misombra?
I dunno Shh...Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
You never know with 'Sombra, sometimes she just bites the first thing she sees...
Uh oh, looks like 'sombra was forced to delete her post... Too bad. She always knows how to call things as they are. Odd though, that she is forced to remove her post while others that are quite explicit - and indeed vulgar - are allowed to remain.
Technically no but they can. A little thing I picked up goes as follows (and it included blowing).Quote:
Do blow jobs really include any blowing?
You suck him off for a little while, get him nice and moist and then pull back and blow lightly. It will chill his warm skin. It will feel great. This can also be done to an ear or a girls lower areas. It makes for a very nice sensation. Enjoy. :)
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Originally Posted by BlackRose
See?!
There's that ****in' smiley again!
You and your god damn smilies!
What may turn A guy on.Quote:
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
The cockiness.
try that will a hall in your mouth..Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackRose
rose, you shall be the next dr. ruth.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackRose
dr. rose.
Ya think? Cause I was thinking how sad it is that you appear to be so needing of attention that you would post something so intimate in such vivid detail. Maybe your swell boyfriend has been out of town?Quote:
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
No, but they MIGHT be considered slutty if they go blabbing about to any Tom, Dick (pardon the pun) or Harry who will listen...Quote:
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
Yeah, nothing wrong with it at all, as long as that girl doesn't go whining to people about how her boyfriend won't take her to church (because after all, she is SO pious).Quote:
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
And some people have the good sense to know it is definitely NOT lady-like to ... shall we say "kiss-and-tell"? It's in extremely bad taste.Quote:
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
Hahaha... Forgot to mention that. There's another fun thing to try on your men, ladies. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by artyemi
lol... I'll take that as a compliment even though she is a little creepy. lol :DQuote:
Originally Posted by misombra
May I ask what you are doing at loveforum.net in the sex forum if you think it is wrong to be discussing sex? No offence but your arguement is lacking.Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
The original poster is only 17, so I think EXPLICIT detail is obviously inappropriate, particularly when the info given is so clearly lacking in consideration for the possible consequences should the poster follow the advice. I do think it is best for one to make an educated decision about any sexual activity, and that WOULD include suspicious boyfriends and damage to one's reputation, so I think my posts are entirely appropriate. I'm just trying to de-JerrySpringer-ize this thread. By the way, there were one or two additional posters who apparently felt like a line was crossed, only they were forced to remove their posts, so it ain't just me.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackRose
As for this being the sex forum, well, I frankly don't even look at which category the posts are from. They all apparently pop up whenever you click on "most recent" posts when you first log in, and all I look at are the titles.
-3 for using Dr. without giving credit to me...Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra
I used Dr. COAD in the past, and its my idea.
Who is winning, COAD? Do you have cumulative scores? :-)
yep... Ofcourse :)
bah whatever. i'm still in the positive.
Your side of the argument is still inadquet. This innocent 17 year old asked about how to give a blow job, so it is obvious she has some sort of idea what a blow job is, otherwise she wouldn't be asking. Still think she's innocent? The description ALovelyLady86 gave is probably nothing compared to the porn she's seen, and hence asking about the technique involved in performing/perfecting it.Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
Case dismissed!...lol
Actually, no, case is not dismissed. Original poster has another thread asking how to dance provocatively with a boy, so I am seeing a pattern of naivety. If she's asking, I would guess that means she doesn't know, which probably means she hasn't been watching porn. If she has been watching porn, she wouldn't need to ask. As for her level of innocence, well there is a big difference between being aware that people engage in oral sex and knowing how exactly to do it.
Honestly, I'm not sure I understand why my original post is being received as "bad information". Then again, I don't separate sexual activity from the psychological impact it leaves on you. I am guessing that those who object are those too young to fully comprehend that you can't take back mistakes that are made along the way, and it is hard to undo a bad reputation. 17 year old girls should be discovering their sexuality in a more psychologically healthy way than what is being offered here, and I am giving the advice I would hope some RESPONSIBLE ADULT might one day give my daughter (and probably the advice you'd want your daughter to get, too).
So what if we are the ones to tell her these things? If we dont tell her, who knows where she will get her info. At least here, there is a good chance for honesty and truth.
Yes, I understand your position, BlackRose, and as I said, it is one thing to offer information. Information is good when it is offered responsibly and considers the age and developemental stage of the person asking the question, and includes possible consequences of that behavior. Is is quite another thing to offer explicit information devoid of consideration of consequences and utterly disregarding the developemental stage of the person asking.
You write, "If we dont tell her, who knows where she will get her info". Well, I am of a a generation where parents barely spoke to their kids about sex at all, and most girls kept their sex lives secret out of fear of looking trashy. Even still, we all managed to figure these things out on our own through the course of normal experimentation with our partners.
I think it is kind of sad that anyone would want to take such an intimate activity - which is meant to bind two people together like no other activity could - and cheapen and degrade and trivialize it by making it seem NORMAL for 17-year-olds to act like porn queens who are experts at providing pleasure to men, but do not require reciprocation. In case you hadn't noticed, no one seems to have considered that she isn't asking how much pleasure should be provided by the guy...
well said. i completely agree.
I definitely see where you are coming from. Trust me. I just think that this is a love forum and people come here and ask questions so they should be provided with answers. I agree that certain things should be censored from people under 18 but I also dont think people should be allowed to sign up here until they are of legal age anyway. That is my opinion though. There are too many 12 year olds asking how to have sex when they should be home playing their video games and watching movies with their friends. It's ok to be curious about sex at 12/13 but you shouldn't be having it. Yet I hear about children as young as 6 and 7 trying to have sex on playgrounds. Younger maybe. I just think that society has gone down hill drastically. Nobody has any morals or standards. But getting back on track here. I think that at least the sex forum should be off limits to people under 18 to avoid problems like this. The kissing and dating forums are generally very innocent so that isn't where the problem lies. We can't watch every kid all the time though. That's the job of parents and parents suck these days too. No parent wants to sit down and talk to their kids about sex so kids just go and do it. They think it makes them kool but what they don't realize is how much they are going to regret it when they are in their 20's and 30's and they have herpes and other STD's that stay with you for life. Eh... I'm going off on a tangent here. There is no talking to these kids so it's better to just give them their info and let them ruin their lives. They are going to do it anyway. *sigh* :(Quote:
Originally Posted by shh!
i don't think we need to sensor it or not let people under a certain age in. those are the people who need the most information. i think it's our responsibility, particularly the older people in the forum, to give people the entire story, especially if they are very young. that's what is meant by being age appropriate. maybe for someone my age asking for techniques on how to give a good blow job those responses would be called for.
Eh... I don't know. There are no certain answers to anything here. She's 17. That's not so bad to be asking. At least she isnt' 10.
Agreed: NOT bad for her to ask, normal in fact. Point of contention is whether or not one has a responsibility to provide COMPLETE and responsible answers, or if we are merely training teenagers to behave like tramps, and teaching them to believe that it is normal.
I don't believe we are so far apart in our thought as you might have originally thought.
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Originally Posted by BlackRose
i don't think it's bad for her to ask. i just think we should give girls the tools they need to be self respecting individuals as much as we can. i also grew up in a home where talking about sex was very taboo. i had to learn things on my own there was no forum where i could ask people, there was absolutely no talking to my mom or dad about it, my sister is 8 years older than me but i couldn't ask her, she was naive and never taught things about sex either. and i swore after that that if i had the opportunity i would make sure that any young girl that approached me for advice on sex would get the whole story not just any ol' advice you can get off the street or in cosmopolitan magazine, you know? like shh said sex isn't all about pleasing the man, and i think that's what girls are taught nowadays and pressured to do. do you think it's that way? i know when i was 17 that's how it was. there are a lot of guys out there who just want sex from girls and that's it. every girl has been through it just ask. being used for sex isn't pretty but it happens and even the nicest of guys do it. so why send girls off into the world thinking that boys won't like them unless they give them sex and do it well? it a sad case that this is the ideology of a lot of girls.
now i don't condemn giving someone advice about sexual techniques but a little bit of maturity and a healthy sexual relationship behind them knows that all one has to do is ask their partner what they want. and anyone who loves them enough will disclose that information and in turn she will say what she wants and he will give it to her.
but if i came in asking for some tips on blowjobs i would expect that somebody might give me some good graphic tips. but i wouldn't because as you get to know a person you become more comfortable with them and you can tell what is doing it for them and what could improve. i don't come in here and ask you guys tips on how to please my boyfriend because i know how to please him. we communicate.
what's different about this person is that she hears about blow jobs and how they're so great but doesn't know how it's done. obviously she's not comfortable with her boyfriend (if there is one she didn't mention it) to ask him directly.
it's one thing to be naive and clueless about sex but quite another to ask and receive answers that are incomplete or lacking in taste and judgement by other naive people.
i'm not saying that yours do rose i think you're very sensitive toward people and you give your honest advice and your knowledge on the subject is immense and you remain sensitive about what you say. i just think that we have to think about each individual as a person who is going to listen to us and take it to heart. as much as people say age doesn't matter it really does. 17 is still young. people are impressionable at that stage and why not let them know that there's more to think about, more to worry about then giving a guy a good blowjob. not to say that's not important, but she, the person, is important too.
Kids these days know more than some adults, sometimes...I mean sexually. Think back. Even at MY childhood, I heard about sex in like first grade. It just goes down the line, the adults tell the young adults, tell the teenagers, tell the pre-teens, tell the children.
We're in different worlds..every generation. Until they reach adulthood, we all run our private networks of what we think of other generations. When we're kids, parents dont understand, when we're teens we've got it all figured out, when we're adults kids and teens don't know shit, when we're old, we don't give a shit, we've spent too much of our lives over argueing petty things.
But argument is a form of entertainment, so here's my take:
I think it has little to do with the actual issue and more to do with taking shots at one another. The parties involved will know who they are, so I won't point anyone out, but I bet they'll agree they were just eager at the opportunity to take some shots.. and this is just a residual from spats in other threads.
But this gave me an idea about starting another thread...so some positive comes out of negative situations sometimes..
i think people are just having a discussion about this. maybe it seems like i'm taking jabs at people i don't know, maybe you were talking about me maybe you weren't. but i'm just trying to get a point across and i think that that is what shh, rose, and i have been doing today. none of us have taken jabs at each other and we're all respectful of what each person is saying. i too don't think that our thinking is that much different and i think this is a pretty interesting topic and conversation that hasn't really been talked about in here. positive things are coming from this thread. maybe you just don't see them. i think talking about these things is important and this type of conversation is too often repressed. so if anyone is interested i would still like to carry on. even if you take jabs at me i don't mind, i kinda like jabs.
Nah, I doubt he was talking about you, 'sombra. It is probably me and LL he is referring to. That is okay, in a way he is right. I clearly have more of an ideological stance than she does. I really hate to see women demean themselves, and I think it really is criminal to teach other females to demean themselves, so I call it when I see it. As I said before, I want to counter the potentially harmful advice given with advice that empowers and uplifts girls rather than drag them down. That is what I would want for MY daughter.
If I was a daughter I'd want you to be my mom shh! (*'-')
(blush) Aww, thanks! Aren't you sweet! I would adopt you.
Wait, you mean if I was a daughter?
I give up here.. Blah...