So how many in your lifetime. It'd be cool to put your age if you don't mind.
I'm 17 and since I'm bisexual so far I've had 3 bfs and 2 gfs :D
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So how many in your lifetime. It'd be cool to put your age if you don't mind.
I'm 17 and since I'm bisexual so far I've had 3 bfs and 2 gfs :D
I'm 27. I've had a few bf's since age 15. Dated the two I had dated in Highschool a second time. I've only had one long term relationship(current) been almost 3 yrs. The rest were more casual.
I'm 23. And Ive had two boyfriends. One for only four months. And my current one Ive been with for almost 11 months. I had a couple 1 month flings in high school but I don't really count those as boyfriends cuz I didn't have deep feelings for them
I'm 26. Hm, I haven't kept count. 3 or 4 "serious". Maybe 10?
I'm really old - 49 - but still not done enough shagging.
LOL....That's surprising....I thought you were in your early teens....Quote:
Originally Posted by Boisdevie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So clueless XDQuote:
Originally Posted by toknow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It's ok to talk to yourself, searock, just don't start answering.....ROFL.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This should be in " Ask a Female " section, since most females will have high numbers.
Only 1 for me and I'm 30, but heck, not many gave me a chance, so i stopped caring about it.
Now focused on myself, so not really dating right now, and since it has been this
way for so long, it doesn't bother me, since this how i've lived most of my life.
If i can't be happy by myself, no girl will be happy with me now, they also can't change
me enough, as i have to do that on my own.
Wtf ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What ? that one girl is 17 and already has had 5 relationships, as i find moreQuote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
females will respond to this, since they have more experience.
That is a blanket statement that has no basis in reality. There are some boys that are less experienced than some girls, and there are some girls who are less experienced that some boys. I'd say that on average boys and girls of the same age are equally experienced.
I'm assuming we're talking "serious" relationships lol. During junior high and high school I had too many "boyfriends" to count lmao. But in terms of serious, I've had 4. I'm 23 and I've had a three year, a six month (may not seem like much, but I was very much in love with him, and he broke my heart), a two year, and my current, which will be going on two years in January.
Uhm, I've had 4 serious relationships, and more girlfriends than I have fingers and toes..... and no, I am not a carnival sideshow, or a war veteran, I have all my fingers and toes.
Yes^^Quote:
Originally Posted by 4 ratties [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was gunna post "too many to count" but decided that the highschool flings didn't really count lmao.
Wtf, lol. I would say it's probably pretty fair, but IF ANYTHING, I'd say it would more likely be the other way around!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I've had plenty of very short term relationships.. some in high school.. some out of high school, that lasted over a month or so.... my serious relationships were..... 3 years, 2 years, 7 years, 1 year. pepper in a few month longs. I remember everyone I've ever had a relationship with.Quote:
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Just by your statement and 4 ratties, you had a lot more opportunities than most guys will.Quote:
Originally Posted by anonymous_a [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How is my statement wrong ? if you look a certain way, they'll keep chasing you, and get that needed experience.
I most of the time, get that look of why are you approaching ?
Most times i just want to chat for a bit, or dance if the environment is right.
In high school, a lot of my lack of confidence around girls, had something to do with why didn't approach any,
but when there was a time when i wanted too, they just ignored me multiple and countless times and didn't think
i was doing anything wrong, so i just stopped trying.
I'll remain single until i fix my own shit, and even if i'm ready, who knows how long i'll have to wait,
but i'm not setting a time frame when it'll happen, as this is how my life has been so far.
P.S. i know you guys and gals think i'm being negative, but it's just i wont look for someone and just let it happen
naturally from the social events i go to and talk to various people.
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Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Your statement is wrong, Kromat. There is no discrepancy between boys and girls in general. You have less experience than most girls and most boys. It's not a gender thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by LifeInflux [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Had 5 bf/gf relationships. But in terms of just dating without the exclusive talk, 15+.
Ah, you mean whacking off you naughty boyQuote:
Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You are all messed up in this sense, that has nothing to do with it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Boisdevie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I said that girls in general get more attention on the way they look, thus get to experience more relationships.
Some guys could probably be in the same amount, but i just don't want to deal with women at the moment, while i'm focusing on myself.
I need less distractions in my life right now, to accomplish specific goals i want to achieve, makes me less of a person ?
i don't need a woman in my life to be happy, because in order for me to be happy, i need to worry about getting my schooling done and the career i want to have and then we'll see what happens, but i'll be alright being alone for a while, since i haven't really dated over this past decade, and i'll let it happen when i'm ready and the timing right to start one.
If all of you are going to criticize me for lack of experience, it's not that i wasn't trying and don't have a decent personality, it's just that i haven't been given opportunities, so i didn't bother, and would rather spend that time with friends, than be disappointed by the outcomes i'm not achieving.
No, they don't. It's not a gender thing, as I said. And I'm not criticizing you for not being experienced, I'm just saying it how it is. It is not true that girls are in general more experienced than boys.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kromat83 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm 31, and have never been much for serious relationships. My life feels full with my family, friends, hobbies, and career pursuits. That being said, I have had a couple relationships, one over 4 years.
I, personally, can't understand why anyone would want to have handfuls of serious-ish relationships. To me, that would be tiring and emotionally draining. But to each his own.
I'm cool just going along in life, and if someone interesting crosses my path, having a nice time together and some dirty sex, and leaving it at that.
Hmmm...you sound like a very emotionally detached person.Quote:
Originally Posted by HDBadger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm actually a very caring, sensitive, and loving guy who has a great relationship model in parents who have been happily married for 42 years.Quote:
Originally Posted by fearoflove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So, basically, your unsolicited analysis is completely inaccurate.
I like your mentality, I'd rather have a few very long relationships, then a lot of casuals.Quote:
Originally Posted by HDBadger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Currently I know that I wouldn't be suited for someone, i'm waiting until I'm ready, then I can hopefully develop a long term investment, that I know is worth it.
I'm also a very caring, humble, generous person and rarely think of myself, and would rather the other people enjoy themselves when they are around me.
I will add it at that, as my statements are offending people.
P.s. family, friends, getting to a new career i'll enjoy, and various hobbies, are enough to keep me busy.
Never had a boyfriend. *o*
I've had 4 boyfriends in the past. The first lasted about a week, followed by the second a few months after that lasted 3 weeks. The third lasted about 6 months, followed by the last two years later that lasted a month.
Do none serious relationships count?
I think I'm almost winning when it comes to the lowest # if relationship and here is my story:
Age 18: I was asked out for the first right after graduation. As some time went by, I had my first kiss and was his gf for 2 weeks but broke it off with him.
Weeks later: made-out with my a friend's guy friend in the car but then he told me about having a fiancee. Lost interest very quickly afterward but it's not like I was ever going to go deeper with him anyway. I never liked clowns for relationships and was never gonna let those take my virginity.
Age 19: Met my real bf (J) and the one I later on lost my virginity to. I was 19 years and 9 months old when it happened.
Age 20-23: We were on a long distance relationship due to a personal situation, which I won't go into details. I broke it off because the distance and I couldn't wait too much.
Age 24-25: I stopped talking to J and didn't want to be friends with him for a while.
Age 26+ : I still haven't slept with any other man and started talking to J once again but as friends.
I'm 22 and I'm in my first serious relationship (3 months now) Only had a fling years ago and that is it for me lol
23 years old and have had 4 committed relationships so far.. As in we called eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. None of them lasted very long (2-3 months) except my current relationship that just ended was 1 year long. Have had a few flings and hooks up between each relationship.
age 14 and number of GF's: 0 unless you count feeling it, but not knowing if she feels her own set of hormones.
i'm 29 and i have had 6 girls
33 years old.
2 girlfriends that lasted more than a couple months. Disasters, both of them. Then I'll count my wife as the 3rd one. So for me, three.
34 yrs old. If we are only counting situations where I was exclusively dating 1 person, 4 serious (1 of them a marriage), probably another 6-10 minor ones.