Which woman would you men pick for a relationship or deeper commitment?

If you were looking for long term relationship or even marriage and were given these following three options, which woman would you choose?

a) A traditional STHM with a nurturing personality, loves kids and is a great cook. The disadvantage is she doesn't work and is only a HS graduate, never went to a university nor college.

b) She's not overly traditional because she works and can't imagine staying at home 24/7. However, she also has a nurturing personality, loves kids and is a great. Though she works, it's a meager job (cashier at a fast food restaurant, cleans houses or anything nor requiring a degree) and just like a, she knows nothing beyond basic history.

c) She's career-oriented and definitely would not like staying at home nor in the kitchen every day. She is nurturing to some extend and may not be too interest in kids but likes travelling, never likes to stop learning and would like a life companion she can share her life with.

Which one has the big boobs?

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Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Which one has the big boobs?

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Can be all three of them.

I'd pick the person I was more compatible with.

Could I have sex with all 3 before choosing?

Today I would choose the one who cooks. Since Im cooking for myself now would really apreciate someone do it for me again.

I'm not familiar with the abbreviation STHM, but I either want a more educated B or a C that wasn't hung up on traveling a lot. Travel is expensive, and every destination is somebody else's boring hometown.

To give a serious reply:

Formal education has always had little or nothing to do with it for me. Intelligence does, and self-education is at least as important as formal education, at least as far as attraction goes. Stupidity isn't something that can be helped, but I don't find it at all attractive.

Traveling... well, I've done a fair amount of traveling already, and I can take it or leave it. Don't care to do it too much, but I wouldn't object to it occasionally.

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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'm not familiar with the abbreviation STHM

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I think she means STay At Home Mom.

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Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I think she means STay At Home Mom.

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Yes, you got it. It's a stay-at-home-mother that takes care of the house and kids while the man leaves to work.

What kind of men are you looking for? He would prefer women who is similar to him.

Maybe the 2nd choice. I want a partner with their own life too, not just stuck at home with kids. Would want us to travel, so would be nice if we both had jobs.
I don't really think about that too much, not ready to settle down and when I am I just want to be able to trust them and be compatible and in love with, ya know.

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Originally Posted by Jffs24 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Maybe the 2nd choice. I want a partner with their own life too, not just stuck at home with kids. Would want us to travel, so would be nice if we both had jobs.
I don't really think about that too much, not ready to settle down and when I am I just want to be able to trust them and be compatible and in love with, ya know.

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So why the second choice and not the third?

^^^^ What?

Why did you choose the second woman and not the third, if what you are looking for is "a partner with their own life too, not just stuck at home with kids. Would want us to travel, so would be nice if we both had jobs"? What made you pick the second woman and not the third?

Honestly, if I were straight, I'd pick the one that I'm most compatible with... Someone can be hardworking, but that doesn't mean you're going to have something to talk about over the dinner table. The same goes for the Stay at Home Mom and the career oriented person... As an example, I went out on a few dates with some guys who had very prominent jobs (One worked in broadcasting in NYC, another worked in Pharmaceuticals, etc etc) and while it was kind of cool to hear them talk about the work they do, it was dry as hell once that ended because we had NOTHING to talk about. Now, with the guy I'm dating currently, we have brilliant conversations that go in depth about everything, and so far we have not run out of things to say...But it doesn't matter to us what the other does or doesn't do, the education level, etc etc... To us, it's all a focus on what we have to talk about.

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Originally Posted by BlueMoonSal [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If you were looking for long term relationship or even marriage and were given these following three options, which woman would you choose?

a) A traditional STHM with a nurturing personality, loves kids and is a great cook. The disadvantage is she doesn't work and is only a HS graduate, never went to a university nor college.

b) She's not overly traditional because she works and can't imagine staying at home 24/7. However, she also has a nurturing personality, loves kids and is a great. Though she works, it's a meager job (cashier at a fast food restaurant, cleans houses or anything nor requiring a degree) and just like a, she knows nothing beyond basic history.

c) She's career-oriented and definitely would not like staying at home nor in the kitchen every day. She is nurturing to some extend and may not be too interest in kids but likes travelling, never likes to stop learning and would like a life companion she can share her life with.

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Either one but I tend to lean towards a) only because i've worked my ass off and we really wouldn't need any more money..for anything.....unless we like eating it. I'm not the type to ever use the word "no with my girlfriend/wife ..she can have anything she desires....well unless she wants to get a full body tattoo ..then..uhh no.
c) is out unless she was also nurturing...like if she ws a doctor or a nurse...i'd have no problem with her..cause it means she is caring and is saving lives when not at home...but if she is a stock broker..i wouldn't give her a second look...she's a dude with a vagina...am i stereotyping...ya betcha...every book SHOULD BE JUDGED BY ITS COVER..that whole bullshit about not doing so is about exceptions to the rule...and yes they exist..but do i want to chance my LIFE on finding the EXCEPTION to the rule...Hell NO!

so i'd go with a)...as long as she is trust worthy....ya want to go on a cruise with the girls...and i'm working and cant make it...go for it...but i really gotta be 100% you wont betray my trust.

...<edit> although she cant be totally lacking intelligence ..when i talk about something science related...she kinda sorta know what the heck i'm talking about
<double edit> b) is out...i wont have my girl working a menial job...
my 2 or 4 cents


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i don't know i can't foresee my future & which of these or any woman will understand me and get me best or i feel i love the most. it is more about other things, not degrees and amt of money made in jobs.