now im kindof sad.

i hope i posted this in the right section if not this then i think it should go into the kissing one.

but anyways..my girfriend told me that she doesn't want to make out or anything anymore to see if ill still love her if we don't..

i dont wanna live like this!! i told her i dont wanna do that, and she pulled a "if you love me you will care and respect what i want"

so it's clear she doesn't wanna kiss me or anything...but is that why????
i know im not ugly because lots of girls tell me im hott all the time!! she says there is nobody that could be better for her...

what the hell!!!

omfg this is a classic.

Didn't you JUST SAY that you found the "perfect" girl and she is the "girl of your dreams"?

HAHAHAHAHA *breathes* *breathes* HAHAHAHAHAHA

But then again, what do us old folks know, right?

I'm gonna go pat myself on the back now.

I think she just wants to see if you just love her because of her physical attraction and not herself. Its JUST a test ... classic ;) .

yea i just said that...also before she said that to me, boy do i feel suckered.

and hey i didnt say you didnt know anything, i said that one guy said that us younger ppl didnt know anything.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Late_vamp

I think she just wants to see if you just love her because of her physical attraction and not herself. Its JUST a test ... classic ;) .

---

ok thankyou latevamp, my opinion of you has already changed :)

gosh i hope she doesn't "test me" for very long..

Oh, and FYI:

A "test" = Eventual breakup. This isn't the girl for you.

Any dumbass BlTCH who is going to "test" her man is a whore, plain and simple.

Love isn't about "testing" each other and seeing how far the other one will go. This chick is stringing you along, and you are a fool for actually agreeing to go along with it.

take her some flowers.

Yeah, go waste some money on a relationship that isn't going to work anyhow. Good idea.

ok seriously cybog what's with the meanness? sure it's kinda messed up that the girl is "testing" their love but they are like 15-16 so girls always act weird at that age. Maybe she really does feel like he's only into her cuz of the way she looks. Besides even if she really is just being manipulative...you can just say that...you dun have to go calling her a whore!

Look at it this way bud.

She obviously doesn't respect your feelings on the issue.

So when all is said.

She can't love you.

She's just gonna try to make you look shallow when you break up by sayin' "he didn't really love me for ME".

Why do two people who are mutually in love with eachother really need to do something as silly as a this test?

You know what would really prove you love her?

Go jump off a cliff.

here is what happened..
she is only 14 so i kinda understand why she said this...but she said she isn't ready for a relationship with anyone, so we broke up...she just wants to be friends and doesnt wanna go out with anyone...but i hope she just goes out with me...

god, this sucks...

should i go for someone else??? i dont want her to like hate me and go out with someone else too i have a feeling that we might go back out.

Aren't you the same guy that doesn't even defend your gf when people lie about her? When people conjure up crazy stories of her being a slut?

Your "relationship" was never a strong one. I dont see how you would have a hard time getting over it.

actually i did stick up for her..but i didnt mention that in the post.

You both sound like you are pretty young... Your both gonna meet alot of people and have plenty of other relationships. Maybe she just thought things were going too "fast" for her and wants to take a step back and wait awhile. There is really nothing you can do about her decision. My advice to you is to move on and always keep your options open.

Geez, I didn't call this one did I.....

You shouldn't be so harsh Cybog, remember you were young once :)

At that age everyone thinks they know it all and no one listens to sound advice, thats just the way it works. I was like that and most people I knew were too. All part of growing up.

She is confused. She is putting things on hold because she wants to make sure you just don't want to get into her pants... But from what you were telling me w/ your camping trip...she sounds confused about what she even wants. Or maybe she doesn't trust herself around you.....

She's doing this to make sure that you're not using her. Most guys around your age are hornballs looking to get action and could care less about a serious relationship. Also, she could've had relationships in the past where guys were playing her and is paranoid that you'll do the same. Pretty much every guy I've ever gone out with has used me. Jerks.