Originally Posted by aloha22
Well it looks like our advice hasn't done much to convince you, Sami09. You want our opinions, but then all you can say back is how much you love him and how much he loves you back and wants things to work out between you two again. If he really honestly knew how bad he hurt you, he wouldn't be looking for the quick solution, which is eloping. You need time to heal and he needs time to gain your trust back again. This is not something you can just fix in a week. Running off to get married will certainly not help anything. I really think you should consider slowing things WAY down, taking a breath and give yourself some time to think things through rationally.