Help with my Situation

So here it is:
I'm in love with a married woman. :love: I didn't realize this at first, so it's not like I was looking to be a home wrecker. Here's some background: We met online, and since I'm >16, I knew that I had found true love, as I have been in love before.

Our relationship was typical online flirting at first, but has since escalated into something so true, so honest, so real......

Then, the truth. She is married (with kids) :(

It first I was :astonish: ,
then I became :mad: ; maybe at myself, maybe at her for not being truthful from the start.
But alas, now I am :upset: and :shocked:

Have I mentioned that I have yet to meet her in person? And we've only known each other for a couple months. It's ok though, it doesn't matter, when it's right it's right. I know she feels the same way toward me.....but she being on the West Coast, and me on the East coast....

I have to be :tough: now.

Or do you think I should play :detective and fly out there and see if she is truely in love with her husband?


Any help would be appreciated.

Lloyd

Don't go out there dude. Let it go, she's married. If that's not enough reason for you she's already decieved you once. If she's truely that unhappy in her marriage she'll get a divorce, then you can go for it if you want. Don't mess around with a married woman no good can ever come of it. Think about being on the other end of that, and some random dude is in love with your wife. It happened to me, I caught them together, and It was worse because the guy was someone I thought of as a friend. You can't imagine that kind of pain.
Anyway after we separated she decided she didn't want him either, so nobody won in the end.

Drop it and look elsewhere. Just my .02

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Originally Posted by Reverb

Don't go out there dude. Let it go, she's married. If that's not enough reason for you she's already decieved you once. If she's truely that unhappy in her marriage she'll get a divorce, then you can go for it if you want. Don't mess around with a married woman no good can ever come of it. Think about being on the other end of that, and some random dude is in love with your wife. It happened to me, I caught them together, and It was worse because the guy was someone I thought of as a friend. You can't imagine that kind of pain.
Anyway after we separated she decided she didn't want him either, so nobody won in the end.

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In your situation I would have beat the living poop out of your so called "friend". Sorry to hear.

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

and since I'm >16, I knew that I had found true love, as I have been in love before.

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so your really 16 eh??? :sad2:

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Originally Posted by lilwing89

so your really 16 eh??? :sad2:

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No, "greater than", meaning over 16.

ohhhhhh i see...

well chances are if she's on a DATING SITE she doesnt love her husband...
but if you really live in philly, would it really be worth it to fly to hell and back???

i say forget about her and find a philly girl! :D

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Originally Posted by lilwing89

but if you really live in philly, would it really be worth it to fly to hell and back???

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Never met her in person, but for this one, hell yeah!

really?? what makes it worth it?

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Originally Posted by lilwing89

really?? what makes it worth it?

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...If only I could tell you young samurai...

you can tell me...old grasshopper?? :) just kidding ofcourse.

no really, if only I could tell you. I don't really know. :sad2:

oh, haha thats how love works..

its that feeling again, guys, where your like *i think shes the one*...could be though?? shes fricken married...i dont think she would divorce with the snap of a finger...maybe you should talk to her about it, what does she say about her family/husband and all that?? does she love him at all?? it'd be a good idea..

but i still reccomend just finding a chick in your area...my mom met my stepdad off the internet...and we moved out here last year so he could be with her and he turned into a grubby bastard like 2 days within moving here..he seemed really nice though before we moved!!
btw from ohio to south dakota is NOT a good transition..
so philly to cali is prolly an even WORSE one

Am I the only one who sees what's going on here?

o.oa

Bastard!




I don't think I have ever laughed so hard at something online. You all can stop replying now; he is only kidding.

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Originally Posted by shh!

Bastard!




I don't think I have ever laughed so hard at something online. You all can stop replying now; he is only kidding.

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Caught. :lol:

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Originally Posted by shh!

Bastard!




I don't think I have ever laughed so hard at something online. You all can stop replying now; he is only kidding.

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really????? i feel tricked and used :(

The overusage of emoticons gave ya away.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

The overusage of emoticons gave ya away.

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It was helping me tell my story :) .

the moral of which is I'm in love with Shh!

doh! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Yeah with all of them smileys so strategically placed....I had a feeling he was makin it up.......and that story sounds so familiar......hehe

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

It was helping me tell my story :) .

the moral of which is I'm in love with Shh!

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This would have been ever-so-much more flattering had you not written this on another thread:

" With the risk of sounding like an @ss, I wouldn't say she is "hot" (blah, blah, blah)..."

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Originally Posted by shh!

This would have been ever-so-much more flattering had you not written this on another thread:

" With the risk of sounding like an @ss, I wouldn't say she is "hot" (blah, blah, blah)..."

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But you didn't quote the rest of what I wrote in that thread. I thought it was flattering toward you!

Sure, what girl doesn't want her prom date to tell everyone she is not hot?

haha

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Originally Posted by shh!

Sure, what girl doesn't want her prom date to tell everyone she is not hot?

haha

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Ugh, Shh! you just made me page thru that whole other thread. Here you go, I copied and pasted it:

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Yo bro. Yes, I saw the pic of Shh!, but I'll let her forward it to you, it's not right for me to. With the risk of sounding like an @ss, I wouldn't say she is "hot", I would use "extremely cute", "beautiful", even "gorgeous".

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I thought it was a flattering comment. guess I'll just post your picand let everyone decide for themselves.... :D

You're a minor and she's married. Enough said.

Greater Than, dude...shh!, you're getting more attention these days...What's up with that? :)

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Originally Posted by Asip4u

Greater Than, dude...shh!, you're getting more attention these days...What's up with that? :)

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You decide:

A) Poor Lloyd is old, his vision is worsening, and he is getting desperate.
or
B) I rock, dude! (haha)

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

I thought it was a flattering comment. guess I'll just post your picand let everyone decide for themselves.... :D

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Ugh! I admit it - I was just funnin' with ya! It was really flattering, maybe even one of the nicest things anyone has ever said about me! But don't post the picture, please!

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Originally Posted by shh!

You decide:

A) Poor Lloyd is old, his vision is worsening, and he is getting desperate.
or
B) I rock, dude! (haha)

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lol....As we age our vision does get worse, however I'm sure B is the real reason, shh!.

Someone want to clue in updraft?

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Someone want to clue in updraft?

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I already did Lloyd, with the "Greater Than, dude"...i guess i should have quoted him first so my bad.

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Originally Posted by Lloyd95

Someone want to clue in updraft?

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I was kind of enjoying the idea of updraft thinking you are a dumb kid. Haha - would serve ya right! ;)

ok, i didn't read all post, but i got the gist of it >>>> what happened??? update???

ahahahahahahahaha

She turned him down, of course.

:-)

You really ought to read thru at least post #15.

LOL.... Alice.....read the rest of the posts!!!! LOL

Lloyd don't give up man... I think she's starting to come around.

alice is drunk, ignore her.

:D

No really, she is.

ROFl.... Back in the day when LLoyd and Lilwing didn't get along! :)